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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Came home after visiting yet another secondary school to find my front door open and being the woman i am i got a huge plank of wood from garden and told my son to get in the car with my mate and her son. I then started to shout into the house and scared the shit outta my son.
Before you lecture me it was instinct Protect my son and then check the house.This happened once before last year and nothing was taken to. The locks weren't tampered with and nowt taken again. I think I know who it was but have no proof.
Looks like i have to change my locks. Its taken my son over an hour to calm down and he is in my bed. It's times like tonight i wish i had a fella so i wouldn't need to deal with things on my own.
Finished airing now
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"Came home after visiting yet another secondary school to find my front door open and being the woman i am i got a huge plank of wood from garden and told my son to get in the car with my mate and her son. I then started to shout into the house and scared the shit outta my son.
Before you lecture me it was instinct Protect my son and then check the house.This happened once before last year and nothing was taken to. The locks weren't tampered with and nowt taken again. I think I know who it was but have no proof.
Looks like i have to change my locks. Its taken my son over an hour to calm down and he is in my bed. It's times like tonight i wish i had a fella so i wouldn't need to deal with things on my own.
Finished airing now "
Have you reported this to the Police? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change the locks. It's a bit of expense but it makes a big difference and it will make you feel safer. Hope your son's ok and you sleep ok tonight. Night time can be freaky.
You should call the police anyway so they have it on record. They would advise for you to get your locks changed anyway. And if he tries to get in again they have record of what happened this time. xx |
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over a year ago
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yes you would think that even as a single mother but my had so much proof before on what my ex had done witnesses extra and he still never got arrested
its been 10 years now he has his own family but he cant let go
every now and again something will happen and its gut feeling and my gut says it was him |
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over a year ago
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yes maybe i should call them and start a new process and start to keep records again
it cant be added to his previous antics as he always leaves 6 mths to a year before contact
right gonna call police now thanx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They can put a note on the police computer so that if you call it will show up. My friend had a similar problem and one night she called 999 because he was kicking off and about 6 policemen turned up. They took it very seriously. Good luck! xx |
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over a year ago
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last year he came to my house and I think he took them then or made a copy as this has happened twice and the same thing happened
i didnt change the locks the but i did call police so thats why i think it was him
it has never happened before as i have always been careful im one for locking myself out but never leaving door open
now i think its time to as it will happen again as this is the kind of stuff he does
scare tactics |
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over a year ago
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get a couple of dummy cctv camera from your pound shop, we live next door to the jeremy kyle brigade loud music drinking till god knows on sunny days in the garden, dont have any of this now after we made a point of installing them while they were all in the garden there good as gold now best two quid weve ever spent |
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