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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After splitting with the wife I discovered this lifestyle and love it.. now the wife wants to try and give us another go. (We split 2yrs ago).
We are getting on great. She has no knowledge of this.. Do i try again or say keep it friendly and continue enjoying the variety..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After splitting with the wife I discovered this lifestyle and love it.. now the wife wants to try and give us another go. (We split 2yrs ago).
We are getting on great. She has no knowledge of this.. Do i try again or say keep it friendly and continue enjoying the variety..
Thanks "
Should add there are kids involved as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well that's something only you can answer. Why did you split in the first place, and why is she suddenly interested in getting back together again?
LvM"
We split for various reasons.. sex a small part.. think because we have got on and been civil since the split maybe she just can't resist my charm..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has the reason you split up gone away?
Can you be faithful to her if you want to be with her?
I think those are 2 of the many questions you need to ask yourself, not people on here who will never know the full details of any history together or apart.
Sorry I'm not much help. I hope whatever you decide is the right and final decision.
Only thing I would say is because of the kids, don't get back together on a whim and think you can just go back to how things are now if it doesn't work out. That wouldn't be fair on them. |
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If this was a vote based purely on the information you've given then I'd vote give her another try. If it's going to fail again it'll do so very quickly and you're young enough to get back into this lifestyle. If it succeeds then you've got your life partner back. There's not a great deal to lose by trying again (once). |
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I don't necessarily think that if you split up with someone once, you can never get back together. Time and growth on both your parts might make the relationship work out this time. An open relationship is a conversation you need to have if you want to continue with this lifestyle, falling into old patterns or cheating will only cause heartache for all involved. |
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"Thanks for the advice.. time to go mull it over and decide what I want and more importantly whats the best for the kids.."
Staying on here and her finding out means you may lose her anyway.
You can always re-join if it doesn't work out.
If you feel you can't give this lifestyle up, is it fair leading her on to believe she is the one and only woman you want ? |
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