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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
You have found a profile you like and composed a complimentary and original introductory message.
Question How many pictures do you attach ? And of what sort ? I normally go one face one full length dressed and one body ( not naked )
What do you all think is appropriate? |
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over a year ago
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I don't send any pictures with an initial message. If I do send one, it will be one face picture and that's it. I've had people send me their whole life album, I don't know why you'd share so much of yourself before you know they are interested. |
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I've only ever sent a few first messages and never put any pictures on. I'd usually send a face picture after a few messages if things seem to be going well.
It is possible to send too many. I think the most we had was 60 pictures with a first message. That was too many and off-putting.
I don't mind no pictures if the message is intriguing and makes it obvious they've read the profile. I always read their profile and look at their pictures before replying or deleting anyway.
A face picture can always come later. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I think that what you do is ideal.
You'll never please everyone but I think you've covered all bases.  "
Thanks although the response rate would argue otherwise!!! Unless I’m just ugly of course!! |
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Then sometimes a body shot if my current profile pic is something odd due to a forum challenge. 
