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Can we be friends?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is there anyone you'd like to be fab friends with on here but too worried about asking them in fear of being rejected? It may be someone you get on with in the forums or just whose photos you enjoy? Maybe they'll see this and give you a little Christmas treat in the form of a friend request?

I put my big girl pants on yesterday and asked. Thankfully they didn't block me and run away. Their friends only pictures were just wow as well

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By *eavertrackerMan over a year ago

Bridgwater

What a fantastic idea...I'm in a feel good Friday mood, I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There has been a few people id like to have added over the last year or so if they pop up on here ill ask this time x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ask but never get added

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By *ydrewMan over a year ago

forest

I'm always looking for new friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great idea.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

There is actually. Two, maybe three? The former I fangirl over their posts, admire their lexicon and think they're fantastic on the forum... but I don't want to be that weirdo who starts talking to you and you have to politely reply back else it'll be awkward.

There's one who I think I'd get on well with, we've flirted (my version of it) on/off for years but maybe it's better leaving it as that than sending the all important Friend Request.

Talked myself out of the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope can’t think off anyone

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Yes a few. I always feel a bit awkward asking to be friends.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We are always on the lookout for friends…but they’ve got to be people we are wanting to meet or we chat to rather than people thinking this is the Book of Face or just wanting to see our friends pics

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Again shy to request, I usually tell them in conversation feel free to friend request

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

I've never had to ask which in itself really surprised me as they've always sent a request so must be doing something right connecting with them, words can be very powerful if used correctly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love adding fab friends but then I enter the realms of wishing people were geographically closer to me.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman over a year ago

WSM

A few forum users are on my hotlist, pretty sure they would accept a friend request but I hadn’t ever considered it before… maybe I’ll ask over the weekend

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By *eardedman7Man over a year ago

Berkshire

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone wants to see what’s in my Friends Only gallery, don’t be shy, send a request!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh there is one and I adore her. I don't know why I never asked actually. If she pops in here I'll

As for men, if I feel they show me enough interest privately, if we chat, I'd just casually ask! If they are treating me "just" as a friend, then I don't . Usually gut feeling works here.

I always feel women have more rules about it.. hence the hesitation perhaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It worked. I invited him. He accepted.

I’m now on my own friends list. Result!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've made a few on here over the years, but eventually they stop chatting. Typically, the ones I'd like to meet socially are too far away to be practical. Maybe, they were just being polite, I don't know, or maybe my messages get lost in others they receive. I don't bother now, just chat through threads.

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By *r SproutMan over a year ago

the middle

As I have 1 friend on here it would be nice to have a few more.

So if you want to send a request please do.

I’m in

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"There is actually. Two, maybe three? The former I fangirl over their posts, admire their lexicon and think they're fantastic on the forum... but I don't want to be that weirdo who starts talking to you and you have to politely reply back else it'll be awkward.

There's one who I think I'd get on well with, we've flirted (my version of it) on/off for years but maybe it's better leaving it as that than sending the all important Friend Request.

Talked myself out of the OP.

Why are we not friends already?

I don't use my single profile often enough to see all your uploads so I'm going to be cheeky and try my luck

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By *hisisntpofMan over a year ago

bristol

Im in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are always on the lookout for friends…but they’ve got to be people we are wanting to meet or we chat to rather than people thinking this is the Book of Face or just wanting to see our friends pics

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x"

This is how I feel too. I don't want to just accept a friend request and show pics of my face otherwise I would make them public.

I like to actually build a friendship, to chat, laugh, maybe flirt and then invite as friends...preferably with a view to meeting socially or more in time.

So I am happy to be counted in if there's anyone who would like to chat and get to know me better.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MissKinkyMinx needs to be my friend but if anyone else wants to send me one I'd be more than happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a great idea!!!

I'm only a little fish in a big pond so I'm not going to bombard you all with friends requests as I'm sur you'll all get lots but if anyone notices me I'm more than happy to accept

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By *eardedman7Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I’d get to know you better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

Yeah sex meat. Fuck that.

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By *agnar1980Man over a year ago

Poole

There a couple of people I’d like as friends but to be honest I’m quite happy accepting friends request from nice people who like to chat!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There so many I’d love to be friends with! Like actual friends aswell not just to perv

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with. "

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Based on quality of posts:

Mr NBVN

Birldn

Probs others to perv on private

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By *eardedman7Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with. "

I agree I probably would like some sort of interaction before adding as friends.

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By *tarflyLouWoman over a year ago

Preston

I’m not looking for new people to meet for sex, but it would be nice to have actual friends on here who are up for a chat and maybe no strings attached socials! I’m happy to chat to anybody but do tend to hold back because obviously most people don’t message you looking for friendship and I don’t want to waste people’s time if chatting is just a means to an end for them

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By *ewforestguyMan over a year ago

England

There's a few in this thread.

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By *scobar67Man over a year ago

glasgow

Add me girls / couples

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I have a huge friend list

I suppose a couple more won't hurt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

I don’t have any FOPs so I don’t generally add people to my friends list. I just hotlist and inbox the cool ones

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

Nice one, Am available ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. There are some I’d love to think we could be pals.

I may need to be braver. What’s the worst they could say…? ‘f’k off you perverted ass!’ .. I’ve had worse.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not looking for new people to meet for sex, but it would be nice to have actual friends on here who are up for a chat and maybe no strings attached socials! I’m happy to chat to anybody but do tend to hold back because obviously most people don’t message you looking for friendship and I don’t want to waste people’s time if chatting is just a means to an end for them "

this is me right now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me..."

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

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By *arriLadMan over a year ago

North West

In for a bit

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

There are three very beautiful women (minds and bodies) so far on here that, if I was within their required age range and if I lived closer to them, I'd want to be friends with. Sadly life's like that but at least I get to "see" them on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

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By *inkylipsWoman over a year ago

Debauchery

"It worked. I invited him. He accepted.

I’m now on my own friends list. Result!

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By *weetcouple86Couple over a year ago

edinburgh

We only accept friends if we’ve atleast chatted. We get a lot of guys that just randomly try to add us without any conversation they don’t want to be friends they just want to see pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!"

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

I wouldn’t mind putting my Cox’s Pip in etc etc

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

I will stop now

you're still doing good though, there is a thing I've been reminding Lorenzo about for the past 4 years

It's going your way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

I wouldn’t mind putting my Cox’s Pip in etc etc

I adore my wordy/witty friends. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

I will stop now

you're still doing good though, there is a thing I've been reminding Lorenzo about for the past 4 years

It's going your way

My goodness.. 4 years.. its OK. I deserve this

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Sure friends are good to have. Share thoughts, ideas, humour. No problem with that.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x"

Agreed 110%

Picture collectors are rife!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally always ask if its a no its a no

Dont have an issue with accepting requests though but would prefer a chat first

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

In a word: yes.

There are a few on here with whom I've chatted to with enthusing dialogue, and a few who traverse the Fab fora with much erudition.

But I never send a friend request; I can't help feeling it would be an imposition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in, great idea OP, and would be more than happy if you accept mine friend request

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always in to find new sexy friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just to add - I wouldn't say to just add anyone willy nilly. I like to get a feel of someone (no pun intended) which is often via the forum

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups. "

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

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By *outhman15Man over a year ago

southampton

Would love some fab friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm up for getting a friend.

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By *tephanjMan over a year ago

Kettering

Billy no mates here so this seems like a good idea

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Showing off now because I’m already friends with some lovely sexy people in this thread.

I’d be interested to know who else would be daft enough to be my friend mind you.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

Popping in x

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By *utlongjohnMan over a year ago

I am always looking for new friends so happy to accept friend requests

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By *ockosaurusMan over a year ago

Warwick

I'm always happy to have more friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

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By *EAT..85Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm unofficial friends with a few. I suppose a few more could be enriching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you'd like a friend that takes 8 years to reply then go ahead!

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I'm unofficial friends with a few. I suppose a few more could be enriching

Sending a friend's request asap

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By *inkylipsWoman over a year ago

Debauchery

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups. "

Yes I’ve had a message to say this was happening with mine

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By *tarflyLouWoman over a year ago

Preston

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha "

Now wondering if that means there aren’t any pics of it or it’s generally just disappointing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha "

Damn it, there goes my friends invite out the window

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

Damn it, there goes my friends invite out the window

Just talked myself out of that one haven't I haha

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't accept friend requests as I use my friends pics for people I meet

Generally if we are playing the getting to know game it's through messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

Now wondering if that means there aren’t any pics of it or it’s generally just disappointing

The mystery continues

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Their is a few I've chatted with,whom I'd like to be friends with.but I'm able to wait until something leads closer to the point of arrangements needs to be something positive.

Would people still keep a friend if the meeting doesn't go well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll open my friendship to folk today, why not

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

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By *eavertrackerMan over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x"

Fancy a friend fiddle

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x"