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By *rivateparts! OP Man
over a year ago
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It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.
I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.
Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.
Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.
Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!
Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions.  |
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"It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.
I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.
Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.
Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.
Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!
Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions. "
I have felt the same way before PP. Good morning and my filter is off if you want to have a moan. Or anyone else that’s feeling down today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people in this world are users. They use you for when they want/need something but don't actually think about how you feel personally. If someone is showing you positivity and support then that shows they may be a good person. When times are hard , your real friends show who they are... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning PP aww sending boobie hugs to you, know can be hard we can have people around but still feel so alone too winter doesn’t help I feel, self care coffee chocolate xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ppl could feel what i felt there would be mass suicides.
Its like trying jump off the surface of water trying to keep my sanity after the life ive lived.
The neglect,and bullying as a kid, being the outsider wherever i am.
Ive always been a ghost... only very few see me...
I dont ask for help though, ive learned that asking for help i just become a burden to others. I dont expect amy kindness, not after everything ive experienced.
Ive seen the insensitive and fickle side of ppl more than ive seen any form of kindness amd compassion.
But if we are both drowning, use me to stay afloat, at least one us makes it. |
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Life can be harsh even brutal at times but try and catch a moment every day of happiness...it’s hard I know and I’m genuinely here for anyone who needs a chat, men, women I really mean it!
Stay awesome you lot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning PP and all others.
Depression is a crushing affliction that feeds on itself. It leaves you hollow and unwilling to engage with the world because you deem yourself invisible and unworthy.
Good friends and good people are just that. However, they aren't miracle workers nor mind readers, especially from afar. If you consider those people to be good friends, it's most likely because they are.
However, you need to take a breath, be brave and make that move to contact them when you need the support and help. They'll be there. They haven't forgotten you. They've just been getting on with things but they'll be there for you when you need it.
You need to do your part to fight that depression. It has to come from within. It won't happen overnight and you will have slip ups in your fight but you have to want to fight it and keep fighting it. It's not a battle, it's a prolonged war.
Don't expect others to keep lifting you without your own effort. They have their own battles to fight also but can still be the support you need.
The first step to take is to tell yourself that people care. It may seem like a 'lie' to yourself and you will need to fight that feeling. People 'don't care' is a lie perpetrated by the depression to fool you into letting it rule you.
My missives tend to waffle on and put War and Peace to shame. Imagine if I actually wrote a novel!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bore da PP dear chap
I am here buddy , just woke up mate ans ill send you a message via other channels bud .
Always here for my vest fab pal
Good morning chums, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a refreshing change to see that there's actually sensitive, respectful and considerate people on here.
Hopefully PP and Tasteslikesin can see, just from a handful of responses to this thread, that there are still good people left in the world that want to help.
I also think, people that haven't been at total rock bottom and experienced the absolute darkness, crushing loneliness and crippling anxiety aren't A) Able to identify it in others and most importantly B) Be able to help those who are in this situation.
As many of you guys have already said...I'm here if anyone wants a chat, anytime they like xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason I don't have friends or keep people "close". They are bound to let you down and make you feel depressed. I make my own happy now and I am much better for it.
Always here to put some boobs in your box if that's what you need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.
I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.
Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.
Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.
Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!
Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions. "
Hey PP...I’m really sorry your struggling, if it makes you feel any better I have been through it and I came out the other side so I know how your feeling now and there is light at the end of the tunnel. All you can do right now is put one foot in front of the other. If you need someone to talk to just reach out |
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Morning PP, good morning all.
Sending love and hugs to all of those struggling today, I know my anxiety isn’t great atm and it gets tiring waking up every morning and starting the fight to regulate yourself all over again x |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"Good morning PP and all others.
Depression is a crushing affliction that feeds on itself. It leaves you hollow and unwilling to engage with the world because you deem yourself invisible and unworthy.
Good friends and good people are just that. However, they aren't miracle workers nor mind readers, especially from afar. If you consider those people to be good friends, it's most likely because they are.
However, you need to take a breath, be brave and make that move to contact them when you need the support and help. They'll be there. They haven't forgotten you. They've just been getting on with things but they'll be there for you when you need it.
You need to do your part to fight that depression. It has to come from within. It won't happen overnight and you will have slip ups in your fight but you have to want to fight it and keep fighting it. It's not a battle, it's a prolonged war.
Don't expect others to keep lifting you without your own effort. They have their own battles to fight also but can still be the support you need.
The first step to take is to tell yourself that people care. It may seem like a 'lie' to yourself and you will need to fight that feeling. People 'don't care' is a lie perpetrated by the depression to fool you into letting it rule you.
My missives tend to waffle on and put War and Peace to shame. Imagine if I actually wrote a novel!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning PP and everyone
PP sending you a cwtch 
Hope everyone has a great day, to say I am relieved it's almost the weekend is an understatement.
NBVN x |
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