I would like to go to a greedy girls night but I worry that I'm to big.... I love the thought of being centre of attention for more than one guy but I don't want to set myself up to be humiliated...
Thoughts and advice welcomed x |
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Where ever you go, some people will like you, other's wont.. everyone has preference. Don't let it stop you enjoying yourself, embrace who you are and have fun! We are all a little happier when we stop worrying about how others see us. Good luck  |
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"Where ever you go, some people will like you, other's wont.. everyone has preference. Don't let it stop you enjoying yourself, embrace who you are and have fun! We are all a little happier when we stop worrying about how others see us. Good luck "
Thank you so much for replying. I only joined last year not really expecting much but I've been very fortunate and met some great guys which has helped my confidence somewhat but also made me realise how much more I want x |
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If you're worried/self conscious I would suggest going to a 'BBW' club night. There are always plenty of guys to help with whatever you want to do! Lots of scenarios can be catered for!
Chameleons BBW night is excellent, and loads of guys and girls to help you be very very greedy indeed! 
Then once you are happy and settled, go to Greedy Girl events.
Fellow Greedy Girl right here! And always the biggest woman in attendance pretty much everywhere I go! |
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"If you're worried/self conscious I would suggest going to a 'BBW' club night. There are always plenty of guys to help with whatever you want to do! Lots of scenarios can be catered for!
Chameleons BBW night is excellent, and loads of guys and girls to help you be very very greedy indeed!
Then once you are happy and settled, go to Greedy Girl events.
Fellow Greedy Girl right here! And always the biggest woman in attendance pretty much everywhere I go! "
Hi, thanks for responding. I'm a size 32 and trying to open my mind.
I've only ever been to a club once, bi night at club play in Blackpool. Once I was over my initial nerves I loved it.
Do you go on your own or with someone? I have a very good fwb and he loves to watch xx |
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Fellow Greedy Girl right here! And always the biggest woman in attendance pretty much everywhere I go!
Hi, thanks for responding. I'm a size 32 and trying to open my mind.
I've only ever been to a club once, bi night at club play in Blackpool. Once I was over my initial nerves I loved it.
Do you go on your own or with someone? I have a very good fwb and he loves to watch xx"
I am also sz 32.
Generally go to clubs on my own, or if I do go with someone, then we pretty much do our own things once there.
Voyeurs are always very welcome.. As they say, Exhibionists need Voyeurs!
I hope you feel comfortable enough to take the plunge and go after what you desire! |
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Fellow Greedy Girl right here! And always the biggest woman in attendance pretty much everywhere I go!
Hi, thanks for responding. I'm a size 32 and trying to open my mind.
I've only ever been to a club once, bi night at club play in Blackpool. Once I was over my initial nerves I loved it.
Do you go on your own or with someone? I have a very good fwb and he loves to watch xx
I am also sz 32.
Generally go to clubs on my own, or if I do go with someone, then we pretty much do our own things once there.
Voyeurs are always very welcome.. As they say, Exhibionists need Voyeurs!
I hope you feel comfortable enough to take the plunge and go after what you desire! "
Thanks, has going to clubs made you more confident do you think? X |
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"I would like to go to a greedy girls night but I worry that I'm to big.... I love the thought of being centre of attention for more than one guy but I don't want to set myself up to be humiliated...
Thoughts and advice welcomed x"
I’m quite sure you won’t end up humiliated.
The thing about the swinging scene is that women are the most desirable commodity in it!
A lot of guys (and girls too I guess!) love a bbw - me included - and I’m pretty certain that you wouldn’t be humiliated at all.
I get what you’re saying completely. I’m not a big (clothes sizing) guy, but I do have confidence issues. I need to follow my advice too really (but who does really?!?) and just be brave. Nothing ventured nothing gained right?
I’m quite sure if you went to a greedy girls night or a bbw night you’d get all the attention you so desire!!!
Also, if you wanna chat my box is open. |
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First of all you will be wanted and desired. So no need to worry about that aspect.
Maybe look out for other single fems attending a greedy girls night. It's not unheard of for single women to team up. Maybe there would be a possibility of teaming up, ideally with a woman who has experience to point you in the right direction and watch your back? I think you also need to have a level of confidence to be assertive because greedy girls can be a bit full on. Some guys can be a bit pushy and disrespectful if not put in their place. Although there are also some good guys out there who will say something if someones being out of order. But you do need to make sure you stay in control. Of course hopefully it'll all just flow naturally and everyone will get what they want. |
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By *alclmMan
over a year ago
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"I would like to go to a greedy girls night but I worry that I'm to big.... I love the thought of being centre of attention for more than one guy but I don't want to set myself up to be humiliated...
Thoughts and advice welcomed
x"
Well I would be more than happy to have your company. Xxx |
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