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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me? "
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down |
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I'm confident with my body, but don't expect any particular person to like it. And I definitely don't have the physique to be arrogant about it. I just like me.  |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down"
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do, but there a fine line between confidence and cocky.
Those who think/know they're pretty boys (think love Island/OWI Essex etc) don't do it for me. |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you?"
He doesn’t have to be toned, he doesn’t have to be muscly…. That’s not what I’m saying. Anyway it’s personality foremost for me. |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you?
He doesn’t have to be toned, he doesn’t have to be muscly…. That’s not what I’m saying. Anyway it’s personality foremost for me. "
Would you chat with a guy a bit younger than you're age preferences, but they had a good personality? (asking for a friend)  |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you?
He doesn’t have to be toned, he doesn’t have to be muscly…. That’s not what I’m saying. Anyway it’s personality foremost for me.
Would you chat with a guy a bit younger than you're age preferences, but they had a good personality? (asking for a friend) "
I’m afraid not. You only have a couple of years to wait  |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you?
He doesn’t have to be toned, he doesn’t have to be muscly…. That’s not what I’m saying. Anyway it’s personality foremost for me.
Would you chat with a guy a bit younger than you're age preferences, but they had a good personality? (asking for a friend)
I’m afraid not. You only have a couple of years to wait "
I mean your friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A man who is body confident and carries himself well I do find attractive regardless of physique/body shape.
A man who is arrogant and struts around like he’s gods gift & women should just fall at his feet because he’s got a good physique definitely not. In my experience those types are v self centred and it’s all about them with the attitude that you should be grateful to be with them. More often than not, that type is crap in bed as it’s all about them. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"I don't want a man who feels awkward when getting naked with me or a man who wants sex with the light off. I just want a man to be comfortable in his own skin no matter what size or shape he is."
I was initially nervous about poncing about in a towel in a club ... Now i get my kit off at the drop of a hat.. |
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By *igGfunMan
over a year ago
Oxford |
As man who doesn't have a particularly "good" body, i don't always have the most body confidence, however if I'm with a woman and she is interested in me and showing it, my confidence gets a boost |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The way I present my body here is based on (this is me)
No hidden secrets
(as much as poss)
So you know what your getting.
You don't have to like me (that's OK) but I like me (always have and will)
I'll make it the best it can possibly be for the many different things encountered in this life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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The way I present my body here is based on (this is me)
No hidden secrets
(as much as poss)
So you know what your getting.
You don't have to like me (that's OK) but I like me (always have and will)
I'll make it the best it can possibly be for the many different things encountered in this life. I mean even the life beyond fab too. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Yes.
My body is shite. But you'd never know that I feel that way because I own it and know that confidence is often more attractive than a perfect body! If someone chooses to see me naked in the flesh, that's their problem now |
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As a simple one word answer I would say yes. However there are a few caveats that come with it....
Confident yes, arrogant no. There seems to be quite a thin line dividing a two.
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guys who message and expect you to drop your knickers because they are ripped to perfection are awful. Equally I once had a meet and the fella apologising for not being toned, tall enough, big enough shoulders etc was a massive turn off.
People being comfortable in their own skin is attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing wrong with body confidence, we all need more of it. A lot of the people who come across as 'arrogant' probably have bigger insecurities than they let on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me "
I like throwing my body around, nobody seems to catch it though…. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a simple one word answer I would say yes. However there are a few caveats that come with it....
Confident yes, arrogant no. There seems to be quite a thin line dividing a two.
The
guys who message and expect you to drop your knickers because they are ripped to perfection are awful. Equally I once had a meet and the fella apologising for not being toned, tall enough, big enough shoulders etc was a massive turn off.
People being comfortable in their own skin is attractive. "
 Body confidence = being comfortable in your own skin. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a simple one word answer I would say yes. However there are a few caveats that come with it....
Confident yes, arrogant no. There seems to be quite a thin line dividing a two.
The
guys who message and expect you to drop your knickers because they are ripped to perfection are awful. Equally I once had a meet and the fella apologising for not being toned, tall enough, big enough shoulders etc was a massive turn off.
People being comfortable in their own skin is attractive. Body confidence = being comfortable in your own skin."
REGARDLESS of what ANYONE else says about it.
GOOD OR BAD! |
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"There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Body confidence yes, a man who needs to throw his shape around with arrogance is definitely a no for me define that for me?
Ok so a man who is proud of his body who likes to post pictures is fine. Someone who’s confident in their own skin is attractive. But I’m not keen on the “come feel my guns” kind of guy, or the ones who point out that your body is less than perfect but theirs is so “your loss” when you turn them down
So basically a sexy guy with a good body, who isn't full of himself, is the ideal guy for you?
He doesn’t have to be toned, he doesn’t have to be muscly…. That’s not what I’m saying. Anyway it’s personality foremost for me.
Would you chat with a guy a bit younger than you're age preferences, but they had a good personality? (asking for a friend)
I’m afraid not. You only have a couple of years to wait
I mean your friend "
I ll let him know |
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"I don't want a man who feels awkward when getting naked with me or a man who wants sex with the light off. I just want a man to be comfortable in his own skin no matter what size or shape he is."
I'm not precious about body shape, lord knows I'm a train wreck myself! That said while I might be nervous taking my clothes off I dont want sex in the dark while fully clothed, so I do move past the nerves relatively quickly and then happily wander around in the nip.
I don't mind a little insecurity but I couldn't be doing with someone who couldn't move past that to a point of being comfortable naked with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had no body confidence when I came home. After traveling I became gaunt and looked unwell, over the lockdowns I packed in drinking, quit smoking, and began eating good food. I started training mostly to strengthen my back as it was constantly knackered especially with my job. But in doing so I gained so much body confidence. It's nice to pass a mirror and see a bit of definition and most importantly to feel strong again, I'll never be a huge bloke I'm not built for it but I'm happy in myself. I think body confidence is a very uplifting feeling and a very attractive quality. |
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"I had no body confidence when I came home. After traveling I became gaunt and looked unwell, over the lockdowns I packed in drinking, quit smoking, and began eating good food. I started training mostly to strengthen my back as it was constantly knackered especially with my job. But in doing so I gained so much body confidence. It's nice to pass a mirror and see a bit of definition and most importantly to feel strong again, I'll never be a huge bloke I'm not built for it but I'm happy in myself. I think body confidence is a very uplifting feeling and a very attractive quality. "
Beautiful, and things negatively or positively can change for us in an instant..be grateful for what you have! |
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It’s very sexy. No matter what shape or size. If a man can get naked in front of me and helicopter his Willy then thats good in my book, because I like to run around naked in front of people, bits wobbling everywhere.
On the flip side, I’ve met one or two men who have been completely insecure, and I like to give compliments, I’m very vocal in that way and speak my mind when there’s something I really like about someone.
But it’s not so fun having to constantly reassure. If someone takes my compliment and it makes them feel better, that’s sexy. If they don’t and put themselves down, I don’t know what more I can do!
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"It’s very sexy. No matter what shape or size. If a man can get naked in front of me and helicopter his Willy then thats good in my book, because I like to run around naked in front of people, bits wobbling everywhere.
On the flip side, I’ve met one or two men who have been completely insecure, and I like to give compliments, I’m very vocal in that way and speak my mind when there’s something I really like about someone.
But it’s not so fun having to constantly reassure. If someone takes my compliment and it makes them feel better, that’s sexy. If they don’t and put themselves down, I don’t know what more I can do!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s very sexy. No matter what shape or size. If a man can get naked in front of me and helicopter his Willy then thats good in my book, because I like to run around naked in front of people, bits wobbling everywhere.
On the flip side, I’ve met one or two men who have been completely insecure, and I like to give compliments, I’m very vocal in that way and speak my mind when there’s something I really like about someone.
But it’s not so fun having to constantly reassure. If someone takes my compliment and it makes them feel better, that’s sexy. If they don’t and put themselves down, I don’t know what more I can do!
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That's an interesting thing about compliments.
It's nice to hear of a woman who can give them freely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm body confident and don't have a 6 pack or pecs. I just look at myself and think yeah for my age I'm happy. No issues getting naked, I think I'd be confident however my body is as if I wasn't I'd make the required changes so that I was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love guys who are body confident!! And just secure about themselves and who they are really. But I despise arrogance tho  "
I dont think I’m body confident but I’m confident in dancing round like a reet silly prick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The way I present my body here is based on (this is me)
No hidden secrets
(as much as poss)
So you know what your getting.
You don't have to like me (that's OK) but I like me (always have and will)
I'll make it the best it can possibly be for the many different things encountered in this life. I mean even the life beyond fab too."
110% |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm body confident and don't have a 6 pack or pecs. I just look at myself and think yeah for my age I'm happy. No issues getting naked, I think I'd be confident however my body is as if I wasn't I'd make the required changes so that I was "
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