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Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've talked to older guys who are immature dicks and guys a lot younger than me who are very mature.
It is just a number, but that number can be too low, then it's just a straight no thanks! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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For me it’s just a number but 25-35 seems to be the best number, it’s a preference like anything els. If I worried they were the age of my kids, should I also worry if they had the same hair colour or drove the sane car ? What’s driving that irrational feeling? |
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Age is a number that can't be denied but it's what that number represents that's important to me. That said anybody who tells me they're immature as if it's a good thing is off my Christmas list however old they are 
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over a year ago
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When they say age is just a number when I've pointed out they are outside the range I'm looking for, I then ask why they don't give a crap about what I want and only care about what they want. Because clearly they don't respect my age range and think I should meet them anyway. 
I'd be better off just meeting them. They'd soon regret it!!  |
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"For me it’s just a number but 25-35 seems to be the best number, it’s a preference like anything els. If I worried they were the age of my kids, should I also worry if they had the same hair colour or drove the sane car ? What’s driving that irrational feeling?"
It's not irrational to me. I know what the men our son and son in laws age are like when it comes to their casual partners. That's what stops me from meeting them. |
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"For me it’s just a number but 25-35 seems to be the best number, it’s a preference like anything els. If I worried they were the age of my kids, should I also worry if they had the same hair colour or drove the sane car ? What’s driving that irrational feeling?"
I don’t think it’s irrational |
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Yes get this all time! I get 21 year olds saying this!  then they add I'm very mature for my age! Just would feel very wrong! I have a grandson who is 22! Plus I'm just not attracted to very young men never have been x |
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over a year ago
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It's an attitude thing for me. I find guys in their mid 30s - mid 50s mostly have an attitude to life I gel with. Younger or older than that largely don't. |
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over a year ago
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Yes and no more like the number only matters depending on how close we stay
Young guys are mostly after bragging rights or trophys to show off down the pub or a group chat to they friends and what not
You know the old she sucks like a dyson and took it all night carry on talk
Now I don’t mind being talked about like that I quite like it but not close to home whare people who know me can hear
So if you stay 200 miles away and in the 20s I am down for that but if you stay 20-30-40-50 miles away him nope far to young I don’t need story’s flaying around the place off how I done this that and the next thing
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No its not just a number, I'm old fashioned and think that most people under 40 should be in or looking to start a family, on the odd occasion I will play with a over 30, but very cautiously
I had a 30 year old fb and had to end it as he kept saying he wanted to make a family but kept saying but I'll still meet you...so I cut ties and he has now settled with a girlfriend his own age  |
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It is just a number but the a accompanying level of life experience i think is more important- you can have people of 25 with years of exposure to people, places, And Experiences, and people of 60 who’ve lived their whole life in the same house at the same job with the same people around them and no world vision - i dont see age as a delimiter at all - i like to meet interesting people with stories to tell and an interest in something. That being said im much more likely to have common life experience with someone closer to my age than years apart but thats not always true !! |
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over a year ago
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I prefer a younger guy and have been with some lovely mature guys in their late 20s and have been with some twats in their late 40s, i think it depends on the guy personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age isn’t just a number, it is also a preference and anyone messaging should respect that. If they don’t respect it now what other preferences/boundaries would they not respect. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I generally go for older men. I particularly like very old men, but I don’t meet old old men on here as most men tell a porky about their age and knock years off.
I had an encounter with a younger man in a club that made me feel uncomfortable and as a result leaves me nervous and uncomfortable around younger men.
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Age is just a number that defines the amount of year which have passed since our birth.
In the concept of relationships there are number related boundaries. Some rightly so such as Child 0-18 and Adult 18- whatever number you manage.
In term of relationship with others you are either in the set limit above and below your number which is likely to be as a result of society's predefined, yet unwritten rule, Such as omg they are old enough to be their parents, look at that cradle snatcher ect
Or you fall into this is my number that is their number we are both adults, 18+, neither are being coerced and we feel there is a connection we are willing to explore despite what others may think.
These people are being judged on the predefined limits of others within society so to make it a long term relationship really shows how strong that connection was.
I fully respect everyone's own views on the subject and would never tell them what they believe to be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age isn’t just a number, it is also a preference and anyone messaging should respect that. If they don’t respect it now what other preferences/boundaries would they not respect."
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"Yes get this all time! I get 21 year olds saying this! then they add I'm very mature for my age! Just would feel very wrong! I have a grandson who is 22! Plus I'm just not attracted to very young men never have been x"
I think every young person thinks they're mature for their age. |
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If you won't have sex with someone because they are near the age of your own children then ........
YES - to YOU age is just a number.
If you accept or refuse someone based on their merits of character, looks , humour , sexual attractiveness , behaviour
NO - to YOU age is not just a number. |
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over a year ago
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I feel like I’m on the fence again! Can’t say either way really. I think people get more hung up than they should do. In general I just think I’m (and I can only speak for myself I one else) alive and I’m working order, so I’ll just get on with being happy.
If I feel connected with someone then I don’t give a shit.
Buuuut, there are always exceptions to the rule right? Would I shag a 70 year old? Well that depends, is it Cassandra Peterson or that old lass with the mobility scooter I see at Tesco’s?
If a lass was 20 but seemed more mature her she wouldn’t put me off but if she acted like a child still then totally not.
But I wouldn’t even consider someone who just turned the legal age the day before. So I guess it is but isn’t just a number.
That was no help at all was it? |
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over a year ago
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"I feel like I’m on the fence again! Can’t say either way really. I think people get more hung up than they should do. In general I just think I’m (and I can only speak for myself I one else) alive and I’m working order, so I’ll just get on with being happy.
If I feel connected with someone then I don’t give a shit.
Buuuut, there are always exceptions to the rule right? Would I shag a 70 year old? Well that depends, is it Cassandra Peterson or that old lass with the mobility scooter I see at Tesco’s?
If a lass was 20 but seemed more mature her she wouldn’t put me off but if she acted like a child still then totally not.
But I wouldn’t even consider someone who just turned the legal age the day before. So I guess it is but isn’t just a number.
That was no help at all was it?"
I think you've given really good examples of when it's just a number. 
*does a scooter wheelie* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I hypothetically go looking for someone who has X and Y qualities, and they turn out to be (pulling a random number from my arse as a nice round one - the number, not my arse...) 25, then that's one thing.
If I specifically start looking at 25 year olds, and just hoping for the best, that's another.
Age does matter, I have a rolling guideline in my head (a certain number of years above as well as below my current age) that I think of as automatically acceptable, and some wiggle based on circumstance with anything outside it. I also have a no-go bottom line (but not top). |
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"I feel like I’m on the fence again! Can’t say either way really. I think people get more hung up than they should do. In general I just think I’m (and I can only speak for myself I one else) alive and I’m working order, so I’ll just get on with being happy.
If I feel connected with someone then I don’t give a shit.
Buuuut, there are always exceptions to the rule right? Would I shag a 70 year old? Well that depends, is it Cassandra Peterson or that old lass with the mobility scooter I see at Tesco’s?
If a lass was 20 but seemed more mature her she wouldn’t put me off but if she acted like a child still then totally not.
But I wouldn’t even consider someone who just turned the legal age the day before. So I guess it is but isn’t just a number.
That was no help at all was it?
I think you've given really good examples of when it's just a number.
*does a scooter wheelie*"
Phwooooar, do it again I’m just about to cum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me yes age is just a number, but the age in which you would be comfortable having sex with is a preference. Like someone said above I have met some very immature older men who still have no idea what they want in life. I have also met some very switch on driven younger guys who are very respectful and know exactly what they want in life |
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over a year ago
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Depends on what you're relating it to.
I've been enjoying the same pastimes since I was 17 and I feel no less older now than I did when I first started. In terms of physicality , I feel abit older, things creak abit more, and recovery time from gym, and hikes take abit longer. You can't fight ageing in the physiological sense but in terms of psychological enjoyment, you're as young as feel emotionally.
That's why I live by these words 'you don't stop playing because you've grown old, you've grown old because you've stopped playing' |
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"It is just a number but the a accompanying level of life experience i think is more important- you can have people of 25 with years of exposure to people, places, And Experiences, and people of 60 who’ve lived their whole life in the same house at the same job with the same people around them and no world vision - i dont see age as a delimiter at all - i like to meet interesting people with stories to tell and an interest in something. That being said im much more likely to have common life experience with someone closer to my age than years apart but thats not always true !! "
I've more or less lived in the same house other than my childhood house had the same people around me ! For 64 years but I've more than a few stories to tell! And have lived a interesting life! With lots of experiances!So would disagree with this x |
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Age isn't just a number. It's a fact. Everyone is a certain age and while they may not feel or act that age they can't change the fact they are that age.
Age doesn't equal experience because as others have already said there are people on here in their 30s with more sexual experience than some including me in their 50s.
I was 49 when I started this journey and despite having more life experience than many on here due to where I grew up and had to live through, my sexual experience was virtually nonexistent before that.
However in saying all that the very first thing I look at on someone's profile is their age. I have a 30 year old daughter and two others not far behind so I will never meet, chat to or engage with anyone under 40.
If I see a profile that falls below that I don't read the bio or look at the pics regardless of who they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a number.
When I was in my late 30s had a brief fling with 18yr old girl from work (such a cliche I know).
About a year ago I met a 70year old from Fab and had the best sex in years.
Opposite ends of the age range but I didn't think of either as the age they were, just the people they were.
As a near 58yr old would I meet an 18yr old...well I wouldn't say no and if anything happened it happened. But I'm not actively looking for 18yr old. |
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over a year ago
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I don't think that's odd at all to steer clear of people your childrens' age. If there was a point in time I could have changed someone's nappy I'd find it impossible to see them in a sexual way, even though I didn't know them personally until adulthood.
I've always liked older men though so even a few years younger creeps me out, despite a big age gap not bothering me at all if I'm the younger one. Not really any logical reasoning behind it, we just like what we like huh? |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? "
A man of 40 is young enough to be my son so I never stick to that rule as I have had sex with men this age and younger. Had a close fab friend who was 32 who was more mature than many 50year olds I know. I prefer younger men than me but want them to be over 30 when meeting 1 to 1. |
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Age isn't just a number.
I'm unlikely to be attracted to or be comfortable having sex with someone young enough to be my child - my son is 25 and step-son 26 - or old enough to be my parent.
The age range on my profile reflects the age range I am most attracted to. I'm pretty sure that range has gone out of the window in clubs, but attraction in person is a different thing. |
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over a year ago
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I feel that for the most part, age is just a number in that people have various levels of maturity and can have amazing connections despite age.
We all have that limit though where our brains just say 'Nope, ain't happening!'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? "
It is just a number. But as you’ve stated numbers have significance  |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? "
By choice, we wouldn't meet people who are as old as our parents or as young as our kids... on the other hand, we have never asked for ID in a club.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just out of curiosity would it be wrong to get with an older person and have them pretend to be your parent? Just in theory like. It would be so disgusting wouldn't it? Dirty sod's that do those kinda things, makes me wanna be sick!
But y'know, would it? |
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I’ve just had this conversation. to me yes, (to a point) I can and will talk to any of I have something in common with them, but an attraction because you’re in a certain age bracket seems ridiculous. You either fancy them or not because of who they are first, you act on it or not depending if you feel comfortable with their age, and that’s an after thought. |
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"Just out of curiosity would it be wrong to get with an older person and have them pretend to be your parent? Just in theory like. It would be so disgusting wouldn't it? Dirty sod's that do those kinda things, makes me wanna be sick!
But y'know, would it? "
To me - weird and gross.
To some - probably some kinda kink. |
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"I’ve just had this conversation. to me yes, (to a point) I can and will talk to any of I have something in common with them, but an attraction because you’re in a certain age bracket seems ridiculous. You either fancy them or not because of who they are first, you act on it or not depending if you feel comfortable with their age, and that’s an after thought. "
I just read this back, and half of it makes no sense. Lol. |
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"Just out of curiosity would it be wrong to get with an older person and have them pretend to be your parent? Just in theory like. It would be so disgusting wouldn't it? Dirty sod's that do those kinda things, makes me wanna be sick!
But y'know, would it?
To me - weird and gross.
To some - probably some kinda kink. "
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In general, age is very much a barrier but it can be bypassed by cupid's arrow.
For instance, a babyish 22 year old would make my skin crawl but an intelligent, ambitious 22 year old offering a different, challenging take on life and society can be very stimulating. |
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"Just out of curiosity would it be wrong to get with an older person and have them pretend to be your parent? Just in theory like. It would be so disgusting wouldn't it? Dirty sod's that do those kinda things, makes me wanna be sick!
But y'know, would it? "
I already have 2 parents...certainly don't need to pretend to have any more.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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Age should just be a number as everyone’s different but we have a friend who is just over 50 who is the life and soul of the party, fit and fun and the most amazing person but no single females interested as the number begins with 5  |
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"Just out of curiosity would it be wrong to get with an older person and have them pretend to be your parent? Just in theory like. It would be so disgusting wouldn't it? Dirty sod's that do those kinda things, makes me wanna be sick!
But y'know, would it?
I already have 2 parents...certainly don't need to pretend to have any more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if age is just a number then why are so many faking it ?? some taking away 10 to 20 years thinking they can get away with it and same with younger guys saying they are older .... that shows me there no repect |
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over a year ago
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"I just can't help thinking when a 20 year old messages me that when I was his age, he wasn't even born...thats what puts me off!"
When I was his age, I was out- out and not on websites. |
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"I just can't help thinking when a 20 year old messages me that when I was his age, he wasn't even born...thats what puts me off!"
Yeah I suppose there a limit isn’t there but I guess if they are in the border age wise but quite mature mentally then makes a difference...I have been an old man since about 17 so maybe my view is warped |
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"I just can't help thinking when a 20 year old messages me that when I was his age, he wasn't even born...thats what puts me off!"
I think a similar thing with sub 25 year olds, I'm old enough to be your dad |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"I just can't help thinking when a 20 year old messages me that when I was his age, he wasn't even born...thats what puts me off!"
But that's why we have filters darling which avoids something like this x |
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"I just can't help thinking when a 20 year old messages me that when I was his age, he wasn't even born...thats what puts me off!
But that's why we have filters darling which avoids something like this x"
I know x |
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Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up looking after me ..so no its not just a number x |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up looking after me ..so no its not just a number x "
But even just for a bit of fun I couldn't...guess my moral compass is set high x |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up
looking after me ..so no its not just a number x
But even just for a bit of fun I couldn't...guess my moral compass is set high x"
Nothing wrong in high morals x |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up
looking after me ..so no its not just a number x
But even just for a bit of fun I couldn't...guess my moral compass is set high x
Nothing wrong in high morals x "
I know, that's why I have them x |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up
looking after me ..so no its not just a number x
But even just for a bit of fun I couldn't...guess my moral compass is set high x
Nothing wrong in high morals x
I know, that's why I have them x"
That makes 2 of us x |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up
looking after me ..so no its not just a number x
But even just for a bit of fun I couldn't...guess my moral compass is set high x
Nothing wrong in high morals x
I know, that's why I have them x
That makes 2 of us x "
Glad to see there are still gents on here with some x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up looking after me ..so no its not just a number x "
And who is to say she doesn’t fall victim first? My dad was 50 when he started early onset Alzheimer’s, seize the day not the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think I'm mature for my age but can appreciate that an older woman may not like the perception of being with a significantly younger guy. You can click sexually but in everyday conversation, it's possible you may not click as someone in there 20s is still figuring life out despite their maturity whereas those older may be more comfortable with their position. |
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I’m becoming more flexible with age. Especially older, learning I like older Just from chatting to people in the forums.
Not sure about younger yet, I opened my filters for a little while and got a barrage of text talk and Snapchat usernames. I’m not down with the kids! |
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over a year ago
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I’m with the general consensus here, nah age isn’t just a number, at least not when it comes to knee tremblers off casual sex sites. Cant be doing anyone too far away from my age, within 10 to 12 years either way really.
Anything in the 20’s would feel a bit seedy or creepy (to me anyway) now at my age seeing out the twilight years of my 40s |
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"Age is just a number if ur only after a bit of fun .but in a serious relationship it as massive influence. My ex was 35 wen we met she know my age from the start .but ended our relationship. She said she was forward thinking 2 wen I would b 70 she would b 53 and she would probably end up looking after me ..so no its not just a number x
And who is to say she doesn’t fall victim first? My dad was 50 when he started early onset Alzheimer’s, seize the day not the future "
I agree with this - why forfeit happiness in the present for an unknowable future? |
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"I’m with the general consensus here, nah age isn’t just a number, at least not when it comes to knee tremblers off casual sex sites. Cant be doing anyone too far away from my age, within 10 to 12 years either way really.
Anything in the 20’s would feel a bit seedy or creepy (to me anyway) now at my age seeing out the twilight years of my 40s "
But you’re 94, so that’s understandable |
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We tend to play with younger but around 40’s.
We look after ourselves and we generally have a younger outlook on life (maybe with having children).
We’ve just come back from a Ministry of Sound weekend at Butlins and next month going on a posh cruise, black tie dinners, so I’d say we can mix it between refinement and chavvy.
Age is affected by your outlook…but in terms of FAB, we wouldn’t go a lot younger.
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It’s not just a number to me , although it’s not such an issue at parties or a club , I wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting a guy 20 years younger than me for a one on one . I probably wouldn’t meet someone more than 10 years older than me either.
Those are personal preferences, my comfortable “zone” , no matter how often people attempt to convince me otherwise |
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"I’m with the general consensus here, nah age isn’t just a number, at least not when it comes to knee tremblers off casual sex sites. Cant be doing anyone too far away from my age, within 10 to 12 years either way really.
Anything in the 20’s would feel a bit seedy or creepy (to me anyway) now at my age seeing out the twilight years of my 40s
But you’re 94, so that’s understandable "
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"We tend to play with younger but around 40’s.
We look after ourselves and we generally have a younger outlook on life (maybe with having children).
We’ve just come back from a Ministry of Sound weekend at Butlins and next month going on a posh cruise, black tie dinners, so I’d say we can mix it between refinement and chavvy.
Age is affected by your outlook…but in terms of FAB, we wouldn’t go a lot younger.
K"
Sue always had an age barrier... until v recently... she loved / enjoyed her play time with a guy young enough to be her son ... never say never  |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? "
My thoughts exactly. I say this too. |
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It's definitely not just a number. There are ramifications to getting older. There is a tendency for people to mature in attitude as they get older.
Our main issue when meeting somebody would be a connection and being on the same wavelength. We wouldn't rule that out with somebody a lot younger. We just think less likely to find. We wouldn't have the same issue as you, Sparkle, but we definitely get where you are coming from. |
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"I've talked to older guys who are immature dicks and guys a lot younger than me who are very mature.
It is just a number, but that number can be too low, then it's just a straight no thanks! "
My thoughts as well x |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes? "
When I was late teens early 20s I would have died to have a night with someone like you |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes?
When I was late teens early 20s I would have died to have a night with someone like you"
I do think a lot of younger guys like the older women |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes?
When I was late teens early 20s I would have died to have a night with someone like you
I do think a lot of younger guys like the older women "
now I'm older I'm just happy if I catch anyone's eye |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes?
When I was late teens early 20s I would have died to have a night with someone like you
I do think a lot of younger guys like the older women now I'm older I'm just happy if I catch anyone's eye"
I'm sure you catch plenty |
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"Is Age really just a number??
I get told it is in messages where I have said thanks but no thanks, you are too young.
No matter how good a connection I had, I wouldn't feel right fucking someone young enough to be my child so for me...age is NOT just a number.
What are your thoughts fellow fabbes?
When I was late teens early 20s I would have died to have a night with someone like you
I do think a lot of younger guys like the older women now I'm older I'm just happy if I catch anyone's eye
I'm sure you catch plenty "
your too kind. Ditto |
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