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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't own one but I've gifted one before.
It's incredibly hot watching a man using one - those little half gasps as you can hear the slickness of the toy being used, the way at a certain point a man starts thrusting and you can see his hips all tense... love it.
I'm a bit of a perv for people who I find attractive receiving pleasure, there's nothing wrong in owning or using one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy watching a man using one.
If they make him happy then it’s all good  "
I am gonna go for this!
It kinda turns me on somehow, seeing a guy use one , not quite sure why but it’s a thing 
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want? "
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't own one but I've gifted one before.
It's incredibly hot watching a man using one - those little half gasps as you can hear the slickness of the toy being used, the way at a certain point a man starts thrusting and you can see his hips all tense... love it.
I'm a bit of a perv for people who I find attractive receiving pleasure, there's nothing wrong in owning or using one."
Sluteeeey!!! I mean, are we sharing the same brain?
Why my back arching , after reading what u said   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really. "
Ugh. I can't comprehend that. I don't think they should be deprived. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really. "
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disgusting things. Men who use sex toys are perverts. 
Women who use sex toys are strong and sexy because they own their sexuality and enjoy it.
Imagine if some men all got together for a sex toy party!! Ewwww 
Women having Ann Summers parties are awesome. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do"
Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.
Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.
Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I was gifted one a few years ago by an ex partner, I’m a bit ambivalent towards it.
It does it’s job but it’s a mess cleaning it, the noise of it is a bit weird and in my mind, it does have negative associations. Like it’s one step away from an inflatable doll…
It seems that female only toys are sleek and marketed for empowering pleasure whereas guys toys are more ‘seedy’. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do
Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.
Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.
Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).
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Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was gifted one a few years ago by an ex partner, I’m a bit ambivalent towards it.
It does it’s job but it’s a mess cleaning it, the noise of it is a bit weird and in my mind, it does have negative associations. Like it’s one step away from an inflatable doll…
It seems that female only toys are sleek and marketed for empowering pleasure whereas guys toys are more ‘seedy’. "
Seedy! That's the word I was looking for. |
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"Fleshlights.
Do you own one? Do you like them?
Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?
What are your thoughts about them? "
Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"Fleshlights.
Do you own one? Do you like them?
Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?
What are your thoughts about them?
Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?! "
I can’t remember who started it, you were there though… |
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"Fleshlights.
Do you own one? Do you like them?
Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?
What are your thoughts about them?
Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?!
I can’t remember who started it, you were there though… "
Red did! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just cant imagine me sticking my dick in a torch... something about it, I dunno, I think I'd feel like such a loser. Like I've failed in life. And the post nut clarity once I'm done may possibly break me.... and oh fuck, then I realise I've gotta clean it as well... and then it hits me, all my teachers were right, I've amounted to nothing and I'm stood there cleaning my own cum out of a torch.... nah, think I'll just have a wank |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do
Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.
Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.
Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).
Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators? "
Not in my experience. But maybe I’ve just been lucky with the men in my life. I’ve been encouraged to play with myself so they can watch and a few minutes in they’re taking the toy off you and ravishing you because they’re aroused
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I love watching a guy fucking his fleshlight! I have penis envy when I see him growling and fucking that little silicone toy
I get that sense of 'shame' or desperation, I felt it in a relationship a long time ago, he was disgusted by toys so my wanking was a hidden, rushed occurrence, rarely enjoyed! Soon changed that!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting things. Men who use sex toys are perverts.
Women who use sex toys are strong and sexy because they own their sexuality and enjoy it.
Imagine if some men all got together for a sex toy party!! Ewwww
Women having Ann Summers parties are awesome. "
So well illustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fleshlights.
Do you own one? Do you like them?
Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?
What are your thoughts about them?
Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?!
I can’t remember who started it, you were there though…
Red did!"
I wasn't there but why does it not surprise me that she did? I was thinking it before you even mentioned her. |
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do
Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.
Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.
Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).
Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators? "
In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?
There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.
I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.
I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do
Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.
Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.
Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).
Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators?
In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys. "
Were they still living in Victorian times ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys.
Were they still living in Victorian times ? "
Oh, don't bash those Victorians. All that hidden restraint made them even bigger perverts. They just hid it well.  |
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I have one, was gifted it a couple of years ago. Not something I would have bought for myself necessarily, but only because I hadn’t considered it. Feels great and can add to the fun. Use mine quite often.
It’s just not as common for a guy to have a toy compared to a woman so it’s seen as a bit different. Completely natural and not hurting anyone so crack on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've experienced negative reactions to masturbation from partners, even though my ex would pull away from any physical intimacy beyond cuddling she would still get upset that I was "sneaking" off for a wank. I can't imagine owning a toy would have helped.
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Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.
There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive got one, vid on here....
i broke it.
Would i buy another? No.
Why wouldn’t you buy another?
They feel very fake, my hand does a better job
The video is a great watch though "
there was a part 2 due for release, my recent phone update put stop to that unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.
There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure. "
Some people see masturbation as cheating.  |
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"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.
There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.
Some people see masturbation as cheating. "
My ex did, even if laid next to him at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.
There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.
Some people see masturbation as cheating. "
Or watching porn on their own like seriously???! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Not sure why there would be a negative to this, having witnessed someone using one of these I can concur that it was not only him who felt pleasure, watching him edge his way in and those little moans that escaped from his mouth was hot!
Male sex toys aren’t anything to be embarrassed about xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.
There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.
Some people see masturbation as cheating.
My ex did, even if laid next to him at the time. "
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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I had 2 a few years back but got fed up with prepping and cleaning them and found my hand just as enjoyable so ended up binning them.
The best experience is when someone else is using it on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had 2 a few years back but got fed up with prepping and cleaning them and found my hand just as enjoyable so ended up binning them.
The best experience is when someone else is using it on you."
Now this I would enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one
I had a tight foreskin and was recommend to try one to help with that aswell as steroid cream instead of circumcision.
Worked very well and its all good.
Got rid it though because its just a faff to clean ect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular. "
I do dread to think sometimes what people have going throught their minds while they pack my boxes
I suspect after awhile its just another box to pack and no one blinks an eye. But do wonder if anyones having a luagh while they pack a didlo annd a pair of size 12 heels into a box with my name on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular.
I do dread to think sometimes what people have going throught their minds while they pack my boxes
I suspect after awhile its just another box to pack and no one blinks an eye. But do wonder if anyones having a luagh while they pack a didlo annd a pair of size 12 heels into a box with my name on "
ha ha good point . I'm sure some of the Packers have the look of shock in there face when they pack a black mamba ( look it up) ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr used to have one when I went through a phase of not wanting any sort of sex.
I knew he obviously had his 'needs'  but it annoyed me that he had a sex drive and I didn't so the negative connotations came from that and it annoyed me when he used it. Like come on... I don't want sex please so can you just not masturbate too
Now that I can't get enough I don't mind him using it if I'm busy. (like working because you know I work all the hours under the sun). |
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