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over a year ago
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It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be happy just chatting to people I get on with. Social aspect to me is just as important if not more. Plus if I got on with someone socially and I'd did escalate I'd be more inclined to explore new things as I was comfortable. Quick hookups do have there place too. So I guess the site is what you want it to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No haha. Recently made a mulled wine with someone.. we listened to our favourite music, he gave me a lecture about history of his hobby and presented me with a fake rose smelling of his perfume.. cheeky bum.. making a fun reference to my name  there can be so much more. |
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No, we’ve met people for a social we aren’t going to have sex with.
We chat to a lot of people we aren’t going to meet.
Even people we’ve met for play, we like them to be friends, even if nothing sexually happens again.
Sex is secondary in our minds with a lot of people in our group of friends.
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Not for me. I’ve made some amazing friends here who I don’t play with. Have nights out and dinner with them.
Also have had people over who I do play with, just to slob with me on the sofa and eat ice cream when I’m out of action  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually liked it for the organised socials that we get here in South Wales. Great nights out with a room full of the best people you could wish to meet. Yes it can be seen as a sex site but for me the social side of things far outweighs the sex aspect of it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex
That's absolutely despicable.
What's your favourite position by the way? "
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By *ea.dotWoman
over a year ago
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I think so, and I am getting so frustrated. No one just wants to have a conversation, the average return response rate is about 6 hours, that’s whilst being online at the same time. Does that mean, take the hint, unless it’s purely about sex, it’s not worthy of a convo?
"But is it always just about sex?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied. "
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle  |
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied.
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "
I rarely get replies, it doesn't mean your post hasn't been notified. That's where likes would be helpful.
Don't be downhearted. |
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied.
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "
Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.
Don't ever think you are on the outside xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied.
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "
We all feel this to some degree and the outer circle is a very large area. This is why it is important to support each other and be inclusive and not ignore people in favour of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
This "
Definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
This
Definitely "
A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied.
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle
Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.
Don't ever think you are on the outside xx"
I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? 
...you're not offering up enough cake  "
But I offer cream. I wait for others to offer cake..and then they don’t have any.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site  "
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But is it always just about sex?
It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.
The Lounge is very varied.
Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle
Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.
Don't ever think you are on the outside xx
I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle "
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that."
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx"
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. "
I will do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
This
Definitely
A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it? "
Yes but different at least hear I don’t get shunned for being my true self |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do "
Never ever take anything personally on here though xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
Never ever take anything personally on here though xx"
I have a problem with that,as you know x |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
Never ever take anything personally on here though xx
I have a problem with that,as you know x"
I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
Never ever take anything personally on here though xx
I have a problem with that,as you know x
I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x "
OK x |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
Never ever take anything personally on here though xx
I have a problem with that,as you know x
I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x
OK x"
You know my inbox is always open. If something gets to you message me. I’ll sort em! Haha.
Only joking. Always happy to talk things through x |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do "
You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx"
Only 5 more to go then  |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"But is it always just about sex?"
I think its also just a social site for a chat  esp during 1st lockdown most were hone alone & this site was a god sent just to engage with other people reminder 1 is not alone! Damn that was deep lol |
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx
Only 5 more to go then "
You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s...
P.s great username lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site
I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.
Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx
Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.
I will do
You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx
Only 5 more to go then
You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s...
P.s great username lol x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s not a sex site. It’s a swingers site - sex is just a perk of the swinging lifestyle. However swingers are a community and should be more about that than anything.
I’m messaging somebody at the moment with no intention of meeting - but just chatting as they need to offload and chat. I don’t plan to have sex with that person and most likely won’t meet - I’m just helping out a fellow swinger.
And yes I’ve already diverted the conversation away from getting onto that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site "
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The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?
I’m glad someone is laughing.
Its just the way you phrased it. I can be sympathetic if needed."
I’m still waiting for an answer to my question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems to be for everyone who messages me.
I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore. "
Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not a sex site. It’s a swingers site - sex is just a perk of the swinging lifestyle. However swingers are a community and should be more about that than anything.
I’m messaging somebody at the moment with no intention of meeting - but just chatting as they need to offload and chat. I don’t plan to have sex with that person and most likely won’t meet - I’m just helping out a fellow swinger.
And yes I’ve already diverted the conversation away from getting onto that x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to be for everyone who messages me.
I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore.
Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X"
I’m only interested in men tho. Just seems they want to empty their balls and I want something more than just sex. Wrong site I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
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The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? "
What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
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The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they?
What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away "
I know what you meant. I was teasing you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not a sex site
It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends
Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me
Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with
Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex
See it’s a what ever you want site
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The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they?
What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away
I know what you meant. I was teasing you. "
Aww ok ha ha x |
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