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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The hours.. or days after sex. How do you 'change'? If at all? Do your friends - or others- can tell you have been up to a lot of good frolics and fun? Apparently, there is a significant difference in my voice.. and it gives out purring tones as well as my usual intonation slows down.. so I was told! 
What about you? Does your body give you away?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If people know they don't say anything.
The dog, on the other hand, gets very territorial and sticks close to me.
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That is very tactful of them.
As for dog.. they have amazing sense of smell. I wish they could speak their mind. Any pets really I wonder if they feel anxious about you being "marked" by someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a happy head period where I cannot stop smiling, I try to avoid populated areas as people think I am a wierdo  "
Haha.. I love that. So easily spotted .. the blissful, melting face smile.. eh ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently my eyes sparkle or so my best friend tells me. However it's been so long i don't know if that would still happen pmsl x"
Maybe it would be even more than usual sparkle seeing its been a while a twinkle after twinkle.. like fireworks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know if there is anything that gives it away. Maybe the low that follows might though "
That's true for me too. But I know now to expect it and how to cope. X |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
london |
"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!
Mr
Too much Viagra... 
Haha! Viagra makes them red  "
haha your experience may vary but...
"Viagra inadvertently also inhibits phosphodiesterase 6, which is very similar to phosphodiesterase 5, but with far more different and unexpected effects — it overly sensitizes rod cells in the retina. These rod cells are most effective at picking up blue, so your vision becomes dominated by a blue tint" |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ah it depends. If it's been very intense the first day or so I'm a bit... emotionally drained. My close friend always knows when I've had my 'soul fucked out of me'. After I've got over that I'm very giddy and excitable and happy. I don't think many would spot any change, only a couple of my nearest and dearest. |
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"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!
Mr
Too much Viagra...
Haha! Viagra makes them red
haha your experience may vary but...
"Viagra inadvertently also inhibits phosphodiesterase 6, which is very similar to phosphodiesterase 5, but with far more different and unexpected effects — it overly sensitizes rod cells in the retina. These rod cells are most effective at picking up blue, so your vision becomes dominated by a blue tint""
Haha I'm well aware of that. They change colour without viagra  |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
london |
"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!
Mr
Too much Viagra...
Haha! Viagra makes them red
haha your experience may vary but...
"Viagra inadvertently also inhibits phosphodiesterase 6, which is very similar to phosphodiesterase 5, but with far more different and unexpected effects — it overly sensitizes rod cells in the retina. These rod cells are most effective at picking up blue, so your vision becomes dominated by a blue tint"
Haha I'm well aware of that. They change colour without viagra "
Ok I want what you are on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a much happier person… unlucky friends I’ll be a grumpy arse for some time now 
We need to get you into bed with someone
my mojo died.. I’m declaring a major incident!!!"
Sounds like a national emergency
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An ex colleague of mine always used to know...apparently I'm not *quite* as much of an ice queen if I've had a good session  I don't think I'm any different outwardly "
I think some people have a bit of a sixth sense for these things. Not sure if this is observational skill or empathy or whatever it could be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has been too long to remember accurately, but think my voice is deeper/growlier for a while after. "
High five for the voice changes.. mine reveals me for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards "
I died here a little..
What on Earth are they doing to you?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven’t had any sleep nice August. That one was alright but normally I’m happy for a few days till they start blanking me  "
Thats pants. And I'm sorry about yesterday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards
I died here a little..
What on Earth are they doing to you?!"
Haha!
I’ve found doggy causes bed head, and I can get quite active giving a blow job that results in less than preened hair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I smile a lot and genuinely am more happy. Once I turn into a bitter bitch - it's a tell tale sign I've not had it for a while "
Gosh I hope this isn't the case now. You seem.. err.. sweet ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can literally burst out laughing after a particularly good orgasm. It must be very disconcerting for those on the receiving end. I don’t actually find anything particularly funny, but I can’t help it |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"I can literally burst out laughing after a particularly good orgasm. It must be very disconcerting for those on the receiving end. I don’t actually find anything particularly funny, but I can’t help it "
Cute. I like that, pure joy |
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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago
Cowdenbeath |
"Apparently my eyes sparkle or so my best friend tells me. However it's been so long i don't know if that would still happen pmsl x
Maybe it would be even more than usual sparkle seeing its been a while a twinkle after twinkle.. like fireworks "
Hopefully i can let you all know soon lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can literally burst out laughing after a particularly good orgasm. It must be very disconcerting for those on the receiving end. I don’t actually find anything particularly funny, but I can’t help it "
I will take that pure joy |
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"This is a medical condition called "Fannystruck" & leaves you vacant & wistful
Do I dare to Google "
I've just tried & it's safe enough lol. Sadly last experienced a couple of years ago due to the mess we've all been in.
A lovely lady I'd got chatting with on here made impromptu visit to meet Gemma for the first time & ended up staying the night. Suffice to say after she left next day late morning, I wasn't much use for anything for the rest of the day |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.
I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.
My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.
Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But what about weeks (or more) after sex?
*asking for a friend 
I just feel good, and there’s a come down that will follow. Work is normally the mood killer.
The feeling good is hard to put into words, it’s like having a meal and you feel like you’ve had enough. Not the food baby feeling, but you don’t need any thing else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!
Mr
Too much Viagra...
Haha! Viagra makes them red
haha your experience may vary but...
"Viagra inadvertently also inhibits phosphodiesterase 6, which is very similar to phosphodiesterase 5, but with far more different and unexpected effects — it overly sensitizes rod cells in the retina. These rod cells are most effective at picking up blue, so your vision becomes dominated by a blue tint""
That's fascinating heh. I need to check that out. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.
I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.
My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.
Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.
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This description is perfectly evocative.  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I love the little reminders, the aches, the relaxed feeling, how my mind wanders off to the flashbacks, how I can still feel that little bite on my lip, the sting on my bum cheeks when I sit down, how my nipples feel tender, the warmth of the after glow…how great sex can sort of consume your mind and body in the days after and all your senses feel heightened xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am much happier and far less mardy. Otherwise no real change!"
The mood change is significant for sure and I wondered simply whether others can notice that based on your body language it is real no? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s been a couple of years since my last ‘first time’ or fab meet which would draw those types of reactions. I think that relationship sex is slightly different as the ongoing connection would lessen the obvious reaction.
I actually can’t remember how I react |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I smile a lot and genuinely am more happy. Once I turn into a bitter bitch - it's a tell tale sign I've not had it for a while
Gosh I hope this isn't the case now. You seem.. err.. sweet ? "
Thank you
Isn't the case, I'm happy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.
I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.
My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.
Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.
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Always such a great image you paint in my head dear
Sex medicine.. thats deserving of post in itself.
I am healing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the little reminders, the aches, the relaxed feeling, how my mind wanders off to the flashbacks, how I can still feel that little bite on my lip, the sting on my bum cheeks when I sit down, how my nipples feel tender, the warmth of the after glow…how great sex can sort of consume your mind and body in the days after and all your senses feel heightened xx"
This.. and soreness of lips.. tired of passionate kissing encounter.. and the flashes of memories sending a tingle through your body again. And again.. |
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