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I never really see it discussed much in the forums.
TVs tell us anything you want to tell us about yourselves? What would be your ideal meet, do you prefer men or women? What do you get most from dressing up, do you j |
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over a year ago
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"Or what their ideal meet is actually, I haven't seen anyone's ideal meet on their profile actually. I just thought maybe it might make a change of a thread"
I think it's an interesting question. 
My friend likes to dress and feel _lutty. He is straight and loves knickers and stockings. |
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Oh they are, but some feel like they are treated as lower citizens on fab according to my inbox so I was trying to start a new thread and hear other opinions and experiences, starting to wish I never now, not sure what the issue is  |
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over a year ago
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i meet both men and woman
Men mostly just for sex
Woman is more dateing and stuff but nsa wouldn’t be off the table
As for dressing I both dress privately and publicly
But I only ever really dress publicy away from home like down south
Ultimately just looking to find someone who accepts me for me the true me off you get what I mean |
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It's very difficult for a guy to dress for sex, tight jeans, clean shirt. When woman dress up, they get the sexy panties, all the sexy lingerie. Woman get the nighties, negligees, make up, sexy dresses. For me it's lovely just to dress and feel feminine xxx |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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It's complicated, I'm complicated, and sometimes it's not always clear to me. When I'm feeling fem I'm usually craving the attention of men. I want a man to treat me like he would treat a woman. Not like a man dressed as a woman. Many men seem to find this difficult. If the language and techniques they try on me are the same as they try on women then I can see why lots of men don't get meets! Sometimes I want a man to treat me like a slut and sometimes I want him to make love to me. I'm happy to answer any questions about how I feel but I expect it's different for every girl. I'd love to meet a woman or a couple but I don't think they really like girls like me.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
We get endless questions as to what women or men want, whether it’s on their profiles or not
T.V.'s ARE men and women. "
Where does it say on my post that they’re not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not TV, but occasional CD. I like women, not into men, and I just enjoy dressing as I feel sexy when I do, but i don't get much opportunity to dress as much as I'd like. |
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
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But why would it.. most of us are on here looking for sexual meets not to give everyone a history lesson.. |
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How long is a piece of string is far easier to answer 
The variation in us all is huge and it's personal to each of us, very few are the same I've found.
Personally, however I'm dressed I like women even though some of those women may be trans too, men simply do nothing for me no matter how I present.
I dress at home rarely any more since starting to go out a few years ago although I did during lockdown for cam nights. Going out to clubs dressed is brilliant fun, a TV can get away with things that a man simply can't!
I dress for me, I've no idea at all why I dress and I sure as he'll don't dress to pull although if I'm honest, I can get chatting to women in a way I am simply unable to as a man, its as if it breaks down a barrier both with them and within myself as I can be a lot more reserved approaching people in a club as a man.
Often people will pre-judge what I'm looking for, men often think I'm gay and want their dick, couples think im there for the man (mate, I want your wife) but thankfully many women mostly have an open mind and want to know the person and have a curiosity about my dressing but realise that a TV isn't all I am.
What am I after? Well I've now got a partner and we swing together in clubs both when I'm dressed but also when I'm just a regular guy and we also play separately too, I'm Poly so would like another regular FWB but not actively looking for her as I've got other things going on (moving house) and I work shifts so week time meets are hard to do.
Most of all I want to meet people and make friends, being on here as a TV helps with that in a lot of ways as you get noticed, being on here as a man you're just one amongst hundreds and it's harder to stand out....yes I've tried and the difference was alarming seeing how it is on here for guys although it would be nice to be allowed to have 2 profiles but unlike couples where they can have and use various profiles on the forum, a TV isn't allowed to.
Under it all were normal regular people so talk to us, ask us stuff, mostly we're pretty nice people
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"Sorry Robyn there is no need for it to say. I'm not forcing anyone to talk about anything they don't want to either. If some do then here they can, there's no harm in showing an interest is there?"
None at all..but as this site is very much sex based.. most are not going to go into much detail.. unlike a site like tvchix.. which is more social.. you do get people's life stories on profiles...
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Thanks Op, you’re right it’s not a subject that’s seen very often, so it’s nice to be asked.
I’m here mainly for the social side of swinging I enjoy going to clubs or night outs dressed up. So the sexual side isn’t as important to me.
However I do enjoy threesomes with couples I’ve been lucky on here and in clubs to partake in a few.
Men, if they treat it as a romantic rather than a sex meeting. Nothing wrong with being treated with a bit of respect and wooed into a more intimate end to the night.
I would date a woman who’s comfortable with my dressing and bisexuality, but I doubt that’ll happen so I’m very much a realist when it comes to expectations of the site or clubs.
So if the only thing I ever get out of Fab is a good night out with new friends at a club, I’m generally happy.  |
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I got turned on by certain items of clothing when I was a kid. I got my first hard on. I experimented and found wearing certain clothes really turned me on. I do fully crossdress but the same items of clothing really do it for me. I'm lucky that I have a very understanding wife plus a very sexy girlfriend xxx |
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There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes. |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes."
Love this 
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too "
I love this new you two being nice to each other  |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes."
Brilliant comment and I understand completely.  |
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"Oh they are, but some feel like they are treated as lower citizens on fab according to my inbox so I was trying to start a new thread and hear other opinions and experiences, starting to wish I never now, not sure what the issue is "
Well this thread has my vote.
Learning is wonderful and helps us gain understanding and appreciation.
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other "
Ahhhh shaddup |
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
We get endless questions as to what women or men want, whether it’s on their profiles or not
T.V.'s ARE men and women. "
At the same time! |
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"Oh they are, but some feel like they are treated as lower citizens on fab according to my inbox so I was trying to start a new thread and hear other opinions and experiences, starting to wish I never now, not sure what the issue is
Well this thread has my vote.
Learning is wonderful and helps us gain understanding and appreciation.
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other "
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"It's complicated, I'm complicated, and sometimes it's not always clear to me. When I'm feeling fem I'm usually craving the attention of men. I want a man to treat me like he would treat a woman. Not like a man dressed as a woman. Many men seem to find this difficult. If the language and techniques they try on me are the same as they try on women then I can see why lots of men don't get meets! Sometimes I want a man to treat me like a slut and sometimes I want him to make love to me. I'm happy to answer any questions about how I feel but I expect it's different for every girl. I'd love to meet a woman or a couple but I don't think they really like girls like me. "
I do love your comment about their techniques. So many guys can’t even kiss let alone anything else. |
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"Oh they are, but some feel like they are treated as lower citizens on fab according to my inbox so I was trying to start a new thread and hear other opinions and experiences, starting to wish I never now, not sure what the issue is "
Thank you for the thread.
Thank you for taking an interest.
Thank you for actually caring what the answers are.
On behalf of all us T-weirdos I hereby promote you to Squirlfriend x |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup "
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums! |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums! "
Hilarity?
I just bared my soul up there FFS!
Maybe it should just stick to willy and bum references?
Pffffft |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums!
Hilarity?
I just bared my soul up there FFS!
Maybe it should just stick to willy and bum references?
Pffffft"
That was your soul? And here I was thinking you were deeper than that and now you tell us it's just your but that's deep |
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums!
Hilarity?
I just bared my soul up there FFS!
Maybe it should just stick to willy and bum references?
Pffffft
That was your soul? And here I was thinking you were deeper than that and now you tell us it's just your but that's deep "
Soapie, that was low, even for you.
Lower than Nora's boobs.
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I think it’s cool how men make better women than biologically born women. They always have better arses, aren’t predisposed to cellulite and can always do make up better. 
If I was a man I’d go for a pre op trans that has the boobs and the looks of a female but still has the added treat (penis). If you really think about it they are the ultimate pleasure givers. Just my opinion. |
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On a serious point, a liberating thing about being T-something on Fab is that we are often taken less seriously. Sounds odd I know, but the kind of Draggy bitchiness for comedy effect is more readily accepted. I think there is a tendancy to almost expect it (thanks RuPaul and your Drag Race)
Sophie and I get away with chucking horrible comments at each other that would get accused of misogyny or some other flavour of phobic and ladies accuse of envy based batching.
It ain't all bad being a bloke dressed as mutton dressed as lamb. |
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"On a serious point, a liberating thing about being T-something on Fab is that we are often taken less seriously. Sounds odd I know, but the kind of Draggy bitchiness for comedy effect is more readily accepted. I think there is a tendancy to almost expect it (thanks RuPaul and your Drag Race)
Sophie and I get away with chucking horrible comments at each other that would get accused of misogyny or some other flavour of phobic and ladies accuse of envy based batching.
It ain't all bad being a bloke dressed as mutton dressed as lamb."
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums!
Hilarity?
I just bared my soul up there FFS!
Maybe it should just stick to willy and bum references?
Pffffft
That was your soul? And here I was thinking you were deeper than that and now you tell us it's just your but that's deep
Soapie, that was low, even for you.
Lower than Nora's boobs.
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Would you like me to blow smoke up your arse instead? Don't answer that you kinky fuck as we both know the answer is yes
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"I think it’s cool how men make better women than biologically born women. They always have better arses, aren’t predisposed to cellulite and can always do make up better.
If I was a man I’d go for a pre op trans that has the boobs and the looks of a female but still has the added treat (penis). If you really think about it they are the ultimate pleasure givers. Just my opinion. "
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex... "
So much truth in those few words
Obviously its bound up in sexuality. The way I think about it is that there's a mix of masculine/feminine energies in sex, and various people enjoy a different mix - whether thats masculine/masculine, masculine/feminine or feminine/feminine. There's no right or wrong mix - its just whatever feels right to an individual. For me, I like to be bringing the feminine energy to the bedroom - and all the sexy undies and stuff are secondary to that - they're mainly for enticing the boys lol
Believe me - that took a while for me to work out
Then there's the question of being transgender... big question - too big for here, and I'm still undecided...
Lately though - its been about the clothes and fashion for me. Last thing I ever expected when I started putting on makeup was to actually look good in it. There's something magical about the transformative process, and when you get the hair/makeup/outfit just right its amazing to look in the mirror and see what you've created. |
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"On a serious point, a liberating thing about being T-something on Fab is that we are often taken less seriously. Sounds odd I know, but the kind of Draggy bitchiness for comedy effect is more readily accepted. I think there is a tendancy to almost expect it (thanks RuPaul and your Drag Race)
Sophie and I get away with chucking horrible comments at each other that would get accused of misogyny or some other flavour of phobic and ladies accuse of envy based batching.
It ain't all bad being a bloke dressed as mutton dressed as lamb."
It ain't all bad being a hot bloke in a dress either just so you know, one day I'll tell you what it's like to be one
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
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My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
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I think for me it’s not at all about attracting males- quite the opposite in fact.
For me being a tv/sissy/gf whatever you want to call it is more about trying to capture my ideal of ultra femininity, not just the sexy clothing, makeup ect...but the mindset aswell.
When dressed I become some else, a more carefree, giggly, flirty person.
Which is fantastic and so liberating.
Interestingly once “en femme” my sexuality hinges towards males, because of the ultra feminity of become her. The ultimate vaillidification for me as a female, is of a male then finds me attractive.
In a weird way, I guess I dress as an attempt to tribute gorgeous females and celebrate feminity.
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
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I think our stories are all complex, and so inevitably tend to rambling. Thank you for sharing x
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
I think our stories are all complex, and so inevitably tend to rambling. Thank you for sharing x
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
Maybe your dad felt bad about his CD and didn't want you to go through the same thing.
Nice that he mentioned the trans girl in Tesco. Sounds like he was being supportive in a secret way. "
Yeah thats what i was thinking. That happened before i found out. So when i did find out, stuff kinda clicked. And he may just of been trying to protect me when i was younger. While obviously spending his own life struggling with his own sexualality, while having a wife and two kids. Let alone all the stress that comes with normal life
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TVs tell us anything you want to tell us about yourselves? What would be your ideal meet, do you prefer men or women? What do you get most from dressing up, do you j"
Not bothered as long as I can get the BBC......
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TVs tell us anything you want to tell us about yourselves? What would be your ideal meet, do you prefer men or women? What do you get most from dressing up, do you j
Not bothered as long as I can get the BBC......
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I am a cd not a TV but wish I was as I dress indoors and outside as much as possible as for meets it mostly men who are looking sex but I am in to both men and women and being a sub a d bi I enjoy every part of my meets
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
My "urge" started when i was around 3 or 4. Asking to dress up in my mums clothes. Tried wearing the heels out of the dressup box in reception lol! My Dad really really didnt like it, which may have been some foreshadowing to something i now know.
Even when i was young, i wished genies lamps would be real so one of my wishes could be that i was a girl, the 2nd wish was that it had always been that way so no one treated me any different.
I have also never ever been very good with women, issues with self confidence always make me think that they will just be disgusted with me. I think this is just emotional scarring from being bullied for a very long time and stuff that happened in my childhood. I am also currently being tested for Autism which also could explain my social anxiety and other stuff. There is also allegedly correlation between Autism and gender issues. It has allso been linked with Trauma inn latter life aswell. I have met multiple people who never even had the urge to do anything like that, until divorce or something else bad happens
Lived with the urge through my teenage years. At that point i was around 28 stone though, so dressing was pretty limited. Found TvChix around the age of 18. I lost around 10 stone when i was around 21. So started to do it more as i wasnt as disgusted with how i looked. Plus moving away from home and living in a Hotel provided more opportunities as i was terrified about being caught by my dad. After about a year i moved back home and my parents split up a couple of monthes after that and my Dad moved out. So i felt i had a bit more freedom, thats the point i started to meet as Chloe. I had met guys as a guy before, but it just didnt feel right :/.
Started gaining a little bit of confidence that i started going out with friends, the first time going to Pink Punters i was terrified.
After bit of a Mental Breakdown due to stress decided to tell my Mum, as i reasoned the constant stress of hiding stuff was the root cause, bleedinng into my "normal" life. Spoken to my GP and was referred to a nurse for a chat but that was pretty much as covid hit. I am also awarre you need to be pretty persistent, which i havnt been at this point.
Main thing stopping me atm from trying to live 24/7. Is a massive hangup with my body size, being 6ft2 and with quite broad shoulders. As somone who really dislikes attention annd worries about what others think over my own happiness. This is a massive hangup for me. I would rather be somewhat invisible and unhappy, than unhappy and looked at as "different". No matter how many people say there are big/tall girls aswell.
I also found out my Dad is a CD and possibly gay,so it could possiblly be genetic? Not that i care anyless aslong as he is happy. Im not sure if he knows that i know and vice versa. But something did stick with me one night i was helping him at work after he had moved out. We went to Tescos in a proper shithole part of Luton, then when we got back to the car he said, "There is a Trans girl (Didnt use a derogatory term)works in there, She is really brave"
Sorry if its bit of a ramble
Maybe your dad felt bad about his CD and didn't want you to go through the same thing.
Nice that he mentioned the trans girl in Tesco. Sounds like he was being supportive in a secret way.
Yeah thats what i was thinking. That happened before i found out. So when i did find out, stuff kinda clicked. And he may just of been trying to protect me when i was younger. While obviously spending his own life struggling with his own sexualality, while having a wife and two kids. Let alone all the stress that comes with normal life *
On another horrifying note i recommend never accidentally finding your dads fabguys profile "
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"I'm sorry I'm not answering as much as I can as I'm at working so only have break times to catch up on reading, thank you for sharing, just thought it made a change to hear from different people and it was never my intention to cause offence x"
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"A strong signal that they can channel to be in tune with their station in life "
Thats in general.
On Fab its probably more about the cock/pussy/bum fun
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"There is a whole spectrum. Being human, we are complex. Motivations go from occasionally putting on certain clothing items to full on clothes, make-up and all.
For me, it started from fetish related motivations. I started wearing the things that turned me on. In the World of definitions, that makes me a fetshistic transvestite.
I dress occasionally and I do love to go out dressed. As time went on the items of clothing became clothes and makeup. Then a whole new alter ego developed .... hello everyone, meet Jennie.
Jennie gave me the ability to figuratively step back and be aware of Scott as a whole, even the 'normal' non dressed up Scott.
I found that a deeply buried bisexuality was given a path to manifest. Jennie is part of me. She is the me that is not constrained with the need to earn money, fulfill responsibilities. She is the me that is non conformist, she is my outlet.
There is a strange background to this too. I was raised in a highly bigoted and prejudiced family. Inevitably my early years had me thinking like that too. So the fact that Jennie has found me is against the odds really. The negative impact of that is once Jennie met Scott, there were years of denial and self loathing, but the need persisted.
Wow..... now THAT was a ramble. Not sure it makes sense to me,so fuck knows if anyone else out there will understand!
I am Jennifer Hampshire, and I endorse this message x
I am also Scott, the boring twat who keeps Jennie in shoes.
Love this
We've got similarities and I bet this is just the tip of the iceberg just as my little ramble is too
I love this new you two being nice to each other
Don't tell that snarky bitch but I kind of missed her
And now as the snarky bitch said......shuddup
Me too . She brings hilarity back to the forums!
Hilarity?
I just bared my soul up there FFS!
Maybe it should just stick to willy and bum references?
Pffffft
That was your soul? And here I was thinking you were deeper than that and now you tell us it's just your but that's deep "
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I don’t think any of the TV’s who answered took any offence. It’s actually nice that a thread appeared today, makes a change from the usual stuff seen on here. |
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I don’t think any of the TV’s who answered took any offence. It’s actually nice that a thread appeared today, makes a change from the usual stuff seen on here. "
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I don’t think any of the TV’s who answered took any offence. It’s actually nice that a thread appeared today, makes a change from the usual stuff seen on here. "
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"I'm sorry I'm not answering as much as I can as I'm at working so only have break times to catch up on reading, thank you for sharing, just thought it made a change to hear from different people and it was never my intention to cause offence x
I don’t think any of the TV’s who answered took any offence. It’s actually nice that a thread appeared today, makes a change from the usual stuff seen on here. "
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"This is a great thread, I always enjoyed helping CDs and TVs transform during my time as a Domme. To see the joy from being accepted and allowed to be their true selves.
This is a great thread "
Aww that's a great thing to do |
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"Wouldn't it just say on their profile like anyone elses ?
I've never seen on any profile why they had the urge to start in the first place? But hey maybe I'm just missing it.
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My profile includes a detailed explanation of what I'm looking for, how I understand my gender, why I'm on here. But it does require reading properly, which I suspect very few people ever do. |
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"Do some TVs get castrated "
If you want detailed explanations of gender confirmation surgeries then it shouldn't take you too long to find with a web search. There are even medical videos to be found where you can watch exactly what happens. There have been transgender related threads in the past where I have written up descriptions from my knowledge of the procedures, but I have no intention of repeating those again, they must be somewhere in the forum long term archives.
I will warn you that the surgeries are non-trivial and can be quite disturbing for unprepared people to watch. |
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"Wow Polly that is one hell of a well written profile and those legs look like they were made to wear hold ups, I am quite jealous."
Thank you Pablo. The legs have suffered a little over the last couple of years where they have been on show far less often and my heels have been mainly languishing unused in the wardrobe. Starting to get a bit more into the swing of things again though now, and it's surprising how quickly the calves tighten up with a bit of dancing in heels. Would be delighted to discuss/explain about anything in my profile that you are interested in knowing more about. Hugs, Polly xxx |
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I've recently rewritten my profile, more to try and explain where I am now and what I'm looking for.
But why I started is unusual - I have a phobia that all sorts of treatments just weren't working for, so something in my head said "I can't do this as Sam, can I do it as someone else?" and took it to the extreme. I could, and I loved that I had a breakthrough. Initially for me dressing was about escapism, not sex, though my alter ego developed her own personality over time which included sex, if that makes sense?
Now I've realised my phobia is probably linked to my gender dysphoria which I'm starting to address, so my alter ego has been retired and now working towards bringing the two sides together to be one complete being. |
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Fell into Fab, & dressing, by chance.
Fab 100%, was & is the place I discovere & started to dress.
Changed my life ...Well.. the sexy side of life.
The best men on here. Salt of the earth.
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For me it’s like an hobby, I like the social side of things going out meeting friends making new ones it’s not all about sex .... but sometimes it happens ( I’m not into meeting random people just for the sake of it there has to be a connection) |
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