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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"So how do you find one....
Be very patient and stick to what you want. Go to munches, events and socials.
what are Munches ?"
Socials for those on the BDSM scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how do you find one....
Be very patient and stick to what you want. Go to munches, events and socials.
Much easier to meet online, including here "
I disagree with this. I find it easier at events. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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You could try an actual site designed for life with fetish requirements... "
I have had positive encounters off here.
There is an impossible to navigate American website that has nothing but lamppost pissing, from my perspective, that doesn’t work.
Websites give meets, people create relationships
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"So how do you find one....
Be very patient and stick to what you want. Go to munches, events and socials.
Much easier to meet online, including here
I disagree with this. I find it easier at events. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take your time. There are some on here but many a good sub will be picky if she is smart to ensure she has the right person.
While you wait learn stuff that will help. My Sir has been a Dom for a number of years and still reads up to make him the best he can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how do you find one.... "
A female sub?
Matey you are tripping over those lovely ladies on here.
Search, READ a profile respect how you approach......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take your time. There are some on here but many a good sub will be picky if she is smart to ensure she has the right person.
While you wait learn stuff that will help. My Sir has been a Dom for a number of years and still reads up to make him the best he can be. "
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