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Something more than just fun

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everyone this is my first post on forums. Has many of you found your special someine on here! Been on here just under a year and have had some great experiences i now feel as I am looking for something a bit for than just fun xx

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

There are many couples who met on fab so it is possible.

We met a couple of months ago and things progressed quickly and we are so happy together. Fab has meant that while you come at a relationship from a different angle it does mean that you have an honest and open relationship from the start.

Good luck in your search

Beard x

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

Fair play to others who find love and have things work out, but that's done for me. The internet, as wonderful as it can be, has made it far too tempting and far too easy for people to cheat, lie and con others out of their time and emotion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There are many couples who met on fab so it is possible.

Good luck in your search

Beard x"

Thanks for your reply and input. Wish you both all the best. Katie xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Yep, we met here and will be celebrating 6 years on the 27th of this month.

Lots of people have met their partners here, if you are looking, good luck

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck. I thought it was possible guess I’ve become more synical due to my own negative experiences. Not to say you’ll have the same. Hope you find someone lovely. Though this isn’t specifically a dating site you never know where it might lead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

I’m sorry fo this…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

Amen to this. I am with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

I thought that to for a bit but feel as though there is something missing. I value your input and wish you all the best x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yep, we met here and will be celebrating 6 years on the 27th of this month.

Lots of people have met their partners here, if you are looking, good luck

Miss x"

Thankyou and hope you both have a wonderful next six years x

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

I thought that to for a bit but feel as though there is something missing. I value your input and wish you all the best x"

Thank you.

I think about it at times. The good stuff ya know, but I've been left with even more anxiety and distrust than I ever imagined. So much so I have lost all interest in sex and the thought of another person touching me makes me heave. I just know for me the second guessing and panic attacks aren't worth it, coz that's what I've been left with.

I really do hope you find your missing piece

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello welcome to the party yes it can happen fab a what ever you want it to be site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone this is my first post on forums. Has many of you found your special someine on here! Been on here just under a year and have had some great experiences i now feel as I am looking for something a bit for than just fun xx"

Yes , absolutely ,and if you find that person , never let them go .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

Fully agree ,it's so easy for that to happen and it's not very nice at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I did.

I wouldn't entertain the idea again, not necessarily based on the where as in meeting from here per se, but in general.

I got dragged through the mill emotionally and have been put off relationships for good.

I thought that to for a bit but feel as though there is something missing. I value your input and wish you all the best x

Thank you.

I really do hope you find your missing piece "

Each time you speak about your experiences it pisses me off more and more knowing someone like yourself is left broken and self-isolated. My heart bleeds for you.

It just infuriates me how someone could use you like that, and that person is lucky im not able to explode my rage in their direction

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By *iman2100Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Relationships take time. For two folks to get together and form a couple they both must want to do it.

So keep meeting and one day he will say "Would you like to go out for dinner with me tomorrow and go to the theatre instead of just fucking?"

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Relationships take time. For two folks to get together and form a couple they both must want to do it.

So keep meeting and one day he will say "Would you like to go out for dinner with me tomorrow and go to the theatre instead of just fucking?"

Not necessarily. Many people can separate love from sex. She may keep having sex with the same man hoping that as you suggest, he may ask that they take things to another level. If he doesn't, she has wasted months or years waiting for him to choose to take it to another level.

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'm on other mainstream dating sites as well as this.. if I wasn't on here I might miss that lady,

I know of a few who have met on here, there was a fab wedding a couple of months ago.

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I'm on other mainstream dating sites as well as this.. if I wasn't on here I might miss that lady,

I know of a few who have met on here, there was a fab wedding a couple of months ago.

You would consider a 'normal' relationship after being on here, as in no swinging and meeting others ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thankyou for everyones input and advice it is very much appreciated x (thumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm on other mainstream dating sites as well as this.. if I wasn't on here I might miss that lady,

I know of a few who have met on here, there was a fab wedding a couple of months ago.

You would consider a 'normal' relationship after being on here, as in no swinging and meeting others ?"

I would consider a'normal' relationship aswell as one which still involves this lifestyle. x

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

This place is just another conduit for meeting people...not really any different to the swipey sites, the local pub or Tesco. If you click with someone and are both open to seeing where it leads then it's as good a place as any to meet.

That said, I don't believe that you can search for a relationship, all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and see if that chemistry is there with anyone.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan over a year ago

Halifax

I met my girlfriend on here. Neither of us were looking for more than fun. But just fell for each other. That was 6 years ago. Took time away from Fab for a while to develop the relationship. Then joined as a couple as well as using our single profiles. And I definitely know quite a few weddings have happened thanks to this site.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan over a year ago

Halifax

"Yep, we met here and will be celebrating 6 years on the 27th of this month.

Lots of people have met their partners here, if you are looking, good luck

Miss x"

Didn't see you had commented for us lol. My bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This place is just another conduit for meeting people...not really any different to the swipey sites, the local pub or Tesco. If you click with someone and are both open to seeing where it leads then it's as good a place as any to meet.

That said, I don't believe that you can search for a relationship, all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and see if that chemistry is there with anyone. "

I agree you dont search for a relationship, just happens. So maybe i should unhide my profile lol and thankyou for your advice xx

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