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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How do you lovely people deal with that first awkward meet when visiting someone?

I get so nervous

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

Once you realise you are there to see if you like them, just as much as they are seeing if they like you, a lot of that awkwardness goes away

Stop putting people you don’t even know on Pedestals

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands

A little bit of conversation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Simple as talk to them and make sure you listen. Key is to ask a fair few easy questions about them, be interested, and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Simple as talk to them and make sure you listen. Key is to ask a fair few easy questions about them, be interested, and go from there."

Thanks much appreciated

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

A hug and a hello kiss (not snogs)

works wonders to break the Ice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Address it head on, tell them your shitting your pants.. they mostly are too. Breaks the ice and starts the conversation

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A hug and a hello kiss (not snogs)

works wonders to break the Ice "

I do this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love that nervous excitement. Been a long time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I imagine them sat on the loo taking a great big shit. Normalises everybody that. Nerves gone, although you do end up with a feeling of disgust over them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Meeting new people is fun, and I reckon if you view it like that you shouldn’t be nervous.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I imagine them sat on the loo taking a great big shit. Normalises everybody that. Nerves gone, although you do end up with a feeling of disgust over them "

. Please tell me you didn’t!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

I just see it as a catch up with a friend I already know, so nerves go out the window

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine them sat on the loo taking a great big shit. Normalises everybody that. Nerves gone, although you do end up with a feeling of disgust over them

. Please tell me you didn’t! "

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Always arrange a social first, then it's just like meeting someone for a drink and a chat, to see if you get on.

Never think that you have to impress anyone, just be relaxed, open and honest.

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

Why do you find it awkward? There may be nerves but we've never been in the situation where meeting somebody has been awkward.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

Spend an hour on the toilet beforehand

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