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I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused  |
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
She should have been honest and told you from the start so you could make your own choice if you wanted to go down that route or not, as for what to do next that is your choice as you now know the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he doesnt know about what was going on and she was cheating on him, ditch her, dont let her use you like that just so you can get a little nookie... youre a man, not a side bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that she ditched you when the husband came back… big red flag!
Just block her , and you probably dodged a bullet there as it seems like you started to like her |
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I feel like a mug tbh. We went out all over Portsmouth bars restaurants her/there flat and never an inkling.
The problem now hence the "to close for comfort" is we both work on the same naval base. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
Sorry mate gonna be blunt here give your head a wobble seriously!!!
Maybe !!!
Maybe if she was up front I’d see some reason behind your thinking !???
Are you happy being anyone’s plan B ???
You had a laugh leave on your terms not the cheating hoe !
No offense !
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"I feel like a mug tbh. We went out all over Portsmouth bars restaurants her/there flat and never an inkling.
The problem now hence the "to close for comfort" is we both work on the same naval base. "
She should have told you, you could have at least made a decision whether to continue. Bearing in mind you both live and work in Pompey, you are bound to get spotted by mutual acquaintances sooner or later, if you haven't already. Can you deal with that? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I dislike deceit, so that would be a deal breaker for me, it depends how strongly you feel about her lying to you.
Also if you do meet up again, what if her hubby some how finds out? Not worth the hassle in my opinion. |
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"I feel like a mug tbh. We went out all over Portsmouth bars restaurants her/there flat and never an inkling.
The problem now hence the "to close for comfort" is we both work on the same naval base. "
I assume the husband doesn’t work there to ?
It’s not great what’s happened, should have been honest up front. Personally, I’d walk and block. If you can’t avoid at work, just be professional and don’t get dragged in, your job isn’t worth it. |
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
Block her number then the texts won't come. |
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
Do yourself a favour and tell her to bugger off..do you really want that sort of drama in your life. |
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"I feel like a mug tbh. We went out all over Portsmouth bars restaurants her/there flat and never an inkling.
The problem now hence the "to close for comfort" is we both work on the same naval base.
She should have told you, you could have at least made a decision whether to continue. Bearing in mind you both live and work in Pompey, you are bound to get spotted by mutual acquaintances sooner or later, if you haven't already. Can you deal with that?"
Portsmouth is like a village, I'd be waiting for the husband to text, not her. |
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She should absolutely have told you she was married so you could make an informed decision.
I have learnt that some people don't offer up the relevant information and you indeed, have to ask.
Some you will offend instantly by asking and that will be the last you hear from them. But, rather than than ruin some unsuspecting spouses life.
What do you do when he's gone?
You imagine how you'd feel if you were him and your life was a fucking charade |
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"What about her husband and his right to know about what she does behind his back?
He should know about this.
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It's Portsmouth... If he doesn't already know, he soon will. Maybe then she'll come back as a single woman? |
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
If you feel uncomfortable about it, get out for good!
Like a post said further up, block her on every platform X
Wishing you well ... |
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By *0astMan
over a year ago
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Portsmouth…… brings back memories..
If she’s married and wasn’t up front with you, then yeah you have a right to be annoyed, but in the time you spent together going out all over the place no one else mentioned this to you, especially on base, really. Keep your distance now and in the future. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
She should have told you mate, imagine if the roles had been reversed 
And unless you like drama, block her & move on plenty more fish in the sea  |
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"I've for the last 6 months been a very lucky guy.... Amazing sex with an amazing woman, but she is married he's now back and the meets have ended. Is it unfair of me to think she should of told me she was married? and what should I do when he goes away again and the texts start coming back for meets etc? Slightly confused "
No it's not unfair of you, she should have told you. You've been lied to for 6 months and that's enough for anyone. You deserve someone better than that and should have no further contact. Good luck finding someone decent. |
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"What about her husband and his right to know about what she does behind his back?
He should know about this.
It's Portsmouth... If he doesn't already know, he soon will. Maybe then she'll come back as a single woman?"
Safe to say we are done and agreed about the village that is Portsmouth. It's just not worth it is it. |
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