I would have to say not feeling loved by my mother.
I firmly believe it's that that has led me into abusive, toxic relationships. So that childhood trauma has impacted my life for the worse henceforth |
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"What traumatic event had the biggest impact on you?"
Regretfully I deal with these incidents all too often.. They all affected me in different ways but the worst was watching a child die.. I got home (when I lived there) and hugged my son crying |
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My dad leaving home when I was a little girl. He’d gone to Manchester for work, and I didn’t cope (emotionally unavailable mum).
Right from when I was born, we were besotted by each other. It was really hard whenever he went away for prolonged periods. |
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If i had to explain what traumatic experience had an impact on my life id end up giving you all my whole life story. Its honestly baffling even to me how ive managed to make it this far. I wouldnt doubt many ppl would have killed themselves by now experiencing what ive been through.
Though it probably explains why im so messed up in the head, sure i seem like a decent person on the outside but even freddy kruger dont wanna be inside here.. this shit scares him |
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On a side note, this is a great topic, even if its hard for some ppl to talk about such experiences, it humanises us, helps each other see that we're more than just cocks and titties. A little glimpse into the persons life behind the sexy pictures of lingerie and fresh out the shower torsos
I raise my glass to you brave ppl |
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Far too many hence having ctpsd and bpd. It’s accumulated over the years . I’ve been through lots of things from childhood into early Alf uk this but I’m doing good now thanks to really good therapy. If anyone has any severe trauma. I recommend DBT and EMDR therapy. |
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"Far too many hence having ctpsd and bpd. It’s accumulated over the years . I’ve been through lots of things from childhood into early Alf uk this but I’m doing good now thanks to really good therapy. If anyone has any severe trauma. I recommend DBT and EMDR therapy. "
That should read *adulthood |
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Back in my addiction days having my house targeted and broke into, held at gun point and robbed
The money didn’t matter, but the fact that people knew what I had, knew where I lived, knew who I was, and specifically targeted me. I had no idea who they were, if they were gonna do it again. It was a small town, and if I went out I was always wondering if other people knew, were they watching me, was it gonna happen again. Don’t think I ever fully got over it until I broke out of that lifestyle and moved |
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I dunno - I was there when both my dad and my mum died - but they were peaceful events.
When I was a youngster working in Preston I saw a tramp being beaten up. Sadly it was pre mobile phone days so I couldn’t call for help.
A couple of years ago my daughter came downstairs in tears, arms covered in blood. She’d intended to kill herself but asked for help instead, thank goodness.
Her face - wrapping her arms - the trip to the hospital. Not something I’ll forget! |
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