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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly 
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
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Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
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Sad thing is, as much as I loved those things I don't believe in them anymore.
I'd question in my own mind "why? What are they hiding? Are they trying to distract me and throw me off a scent of unsavoury goings on?"
*sigh*
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
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 this thooo!!! The heart in the mash !!! I kinda wish we were lesbians so we could be together foreverrrr  |
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
Sad thing is, as much as I loved those things I don't believe in them anymore.
I'd question in my own mind "why? What are they hiding? Are they trying to distract me and throw me off a scent of unsavoury goings on?"
*sigh*
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Dont let the past ruin the future. Trusting someone and being able to be vulnerable is what love in relationships is all about. If you can't do that you close life off for yourself and take away from your own experience of life.
Yea its hard to be vulnerable after you have been hurt but don't be afraid to put yourself fully out there.....whenever you are comfortable to do so again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just being in each others presence.
Living with my best friend and confidant.
Knowing I have a shoulder to cry on if I need it or to listen to my problems, achievements, thoughts and ideas - all with no judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
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Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another. |
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
this thooo!!! The heart in the mash !!! I kinda wish we were lesbians so we could be together foreverrrr "
I swear down this is no exaggeration. My bathroom gets freezing in the winter, proper proper cold. I have been known to set my alarm before my exs was due to go off so I could go and sit on the toilet... not because I needed the toilet... but to warm the seat for them so they weren't uncomfortable having a morning poo.
How sad is that?!.
I like your idea. I'd make a half decent lesbian. |
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
Sad thing is, as much as I loved those things I don't believe in them anymore.
I'd question in my own mind "why? What are they hiding? Are they trying to distract me and throw me off a scent of unsavoury goings on?"
*sigh*
Dont let the past ruin the future. Trusting someone and being able to be vulnerable is what love in relationships is all about. If you can't do that you close life off for yourself and take away from your own experience of life.
Yea its hard to be vulnerable after you have been hurt but don't be afraid to put yourself fully out there.....whenever you are comfortable to do so again "
I've still way too much work to do before I can allow that vulnerability again. I'm not strong enough to withstand another crushing blow to the soul. If I ain't prepared to give myself fully I'm doing the other person a disservice, however if I did give myself fully I'm well aware I'd likely take my last breath if they screwed me over, not because of them, but because I would no longer have any faith or trust in myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another."
Your descriptions… I just can’t !!! Literally seeing it all through what you said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having pjs warmed and ready to go, coz they know you're gonna be cold when you get home/out of the shower.
Organising things. Going places. Being considered and thought about. Being appreciated.
Drawing a heart in the mash on the top of a shepherd's pie and making sure they see it and know it's been made with love, that you were thinking about them when you made it.
this thooo!!! The heart in the mash !!! I kinda wish we were lesbians so we could be together foreverrrr
I swear down this is no exaggeration. My bathroom gets freezing in the winter, proper proper cold. I have been known to set my alarm before my exs was due to go off so I could go and sit on the toilet... not because I needed the toilet... but to warm the seat for them so they weren't uncomfortable having a morning poo.
How sad is that?!.
I like your idea. I'd make a half decent lesbian. "
U big softie!!!
In Japan they have toilet seats that warm up so you wouldn’t have to do that for them!
Haaaa x I think we’d be such a power couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The little things, laughing together before falling asleep, random cuddles, being able to be in silence comfortably, cuddles on the sofa, when Netflix and chill is exactly that, knowing that one person has your back and will stick by you through your ups and downs and of course the sex, taking the time to know each others body's makes for amazing sex.
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
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Have to say Taylor Swift is much more than what she is portrayed as. Genuinely talented songwriter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last guy I was seeing had slight stalker-ish tendencies, but I’d bloody love a dialled back version of him 
It’s really nice to be considered and thought about. And someone to go all out to make an effort for you.
He did, but it was all too much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Have to say Taylor Swift is much more than what she is portrayed as. Genuinely talented songwriter. "
That song is just unreal!!! The lyrics just hit home so bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've still way too much work to do before I can allow that vulnerability again. I'm not strong enough to withstand another crushing blow to the soul. If I ain't prepared to give myself fully I'm doing the other person a disservice, however if I did give myself fully I'm well aware I'd likely take my last breath if they screwed me over, not because of them, but because I would no longer have any faith or trust in myself."
Ive been through the same heartbreaks, its tough, especially when you doubt yourself as well and possibly lose something special you couldve had with someone, or when you cant trust anyone anymore, i have problems with trust too, it sucks balls. But you definitely sound different from what ive seen in your profile and on this thread, quite unique in your own way with A LOT to give, definitely not someone any average joe deserves
Holding out for something true and deserving is better than allowing yourself to be swept up by infatuation, even if you have to wait a long time for that to happen. The best thing you can do is be true and honest about how you feel, the difficulty finding trust, and the need to be 100% sure when giving yourself fully. The right man will understand you and be patient enough to wait until youre ready to take that plunge again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, someone to take control at times. I’m this instance, I’m not meaning it in a sexual way (though that’s nice too!), but : ‘right, I’ve booked us a table at X time at X restaurant, because I know you’ll love the food there/ at such-and-such a pub because the cocktails are to die for’.
Rather than me having to do it. I have come to the conclusion that I don’t like wishy-washy men!
Can you believe that before a first date, one guy called me to ask about the parking round my way! So unattractive - deal with it yourself! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
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You are referring to her 10 minute version of the old song? I don’t like it. The original was far better. She really needs to get over him it was only a 3-month relationship from years ago.
I really like Taylor Swift’s early albums but re-writing all her previous songs and re-releasing them is a bad idea, just greedy and she is not a good producer either , those sings were produced that way to make her so rich and famous , her record company knew best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
You are referring to her 10 minute version of the old song? I don’t like it. The original was far better. She really needs to get over him it was only a 3-month relationship from years ago.
I really like Taylor Swift’s early albums but re-writing all her previous songs and re-releasing them is a bad idea, just greedy and she is not a good producer either , those sings were produced that way to make her so rich and famous , her record company knew best "
Yes, the video is amazing!! Go check it out on YouTube … she directed it and Sadie from stranger thing stars in it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im glad im not the only person here who kinda misses these random little things !!! X
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Me too, i love making that effort, not in a soppy clingy way, but to show them how much they mean to me. I can be a bit of a hopeless romantic and displaying my passionate love for them. But thats just how i do things, comes with the package of being a scorpio i guess |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning spoons, sharing a bath, working out together (bedroom sports included)
FFS thinking about it makes me want all that now  "
Awwwwwwwsss *sends hugs*
I know right!!
Even if we are all secret pervsss on here, I’m glad it’s still full of hopeless romantics |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Uuuuughh this thread is just hitting me right in the feels!
It’s the thoughts, the intimacy, the little jokes that you share and the shorthand of understanding how the other one feels or is thinking.
The little things and the big things that show that the other person cares, thinks about you and considers you. Sadly nothing else can replace that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning spoons, sharing a bath, working out together (bedroom sports included)
FFS thinking about it makes me want all that now "
Love sharing a bath.. Especially when he washes my body and hair. A lady of leisure, I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That first and last text each night.
The head in my chest with her in my arms
Cooking for each other
The in jokes when you really get someone’s humour
The looks
The hand holding
Knowing each other’s love language
The extra effort made for each other
The open and honest conversations
No having to hide emotions
The support
Knowing that someone wants you to be happy
Quite a bit I guess
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That first and last text each night.
The head in my chest with her in my arms
Cooking for each other
The in jokes when you really get someone’s humour
The looks
The hand holding
Knowing each other’s love language
The extra effort made for each other
The open and honest conversations
No having to hide emotions
The support
Knowing that someone wants you to be happy
Quite a bit I guess
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I’m a mess already reading this!! Can relate on so many times urgh
Im being a big softie today!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That first and last text each night.
The head in my chest with her in my arms
Cooking for each other
The in jokes when you really get someone’s humour
The looks
The hand holding
Knowing each other’s love language
The extra effort made for each other
The open and honest conversations
No having to hide emotions
The support
Knowing that someone wants you to be happy
Quite a bit I guess
I’m a mess already reading this!! Can relate on so many times urgh
Im being a big softie today!!!! "
Nah you suit being a big softie x |
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I really like cooking a meal for when they come home. The timing so it’s fresh and hot when they get in, planning a little cheeky pudding for after. I like the cook, but for someone else is so much better and just to see the smile on someone’s face when they walk in after a day at work to be present with a hug and a meal was always the best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Uuuuughh this thread is just hitting me right in the feels!
It’s the thoughts, the intimacy, the little jokes that you share and the shorthand of understanding how the other one feels or is thinking.
The little things and the big things that show that the other person cares, thinks about you and considers you. Sadly nothing else can replace that"
Totally agree with what you said. I don’t know what’s got into me but I’m glad I ain’t the only one here x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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That video though. 
The wearing red lipstick to try and look more grown up. The feeling out of place at adult dinner parties, surrounded by pseudo intelligentsia, like you're still a child and not worthy.
It's like a homage to those with daddy issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love sharing a bath.. Especially when he washes my body and hair. A lady of leisure, I know "
This! I get excited when i get to do this. I love having that time for intimate bonding that doesnt have to involve anthing sexual. Ill do it even if im not taking a bath with them. Just roll up and the sleeves and get soapy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That video though.
The wearing red lipstick to try and look more grown up. The feeling out of place at adult dinner parties, surrounded by pseudo intelligentsia, like you're still a child and not worthy.
It's like a homage to those with daddy issues. "
Did you say daddy issues?
Jeez, that’s my middle name haha
I love that video, living in my head atm  doing my own supercut with my ex arseholes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That video though.
The wearing red lipstick to try and look more grown up. The feeling out of place at adult dinner parties, surrounded by pseudo intelligentsia, like you're still a child and not worthy.
It's like a homage to those with daddy issues. "
I went to a dinner party recently, and came home and bawled because I missed my ex husband being there! We’ve been apart for years, and I’m totally over it, but there was just something about that particular setting ...
A feeling of vulnerability maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That video though.
The wearing red lipstick to try and look more grown up. The feeling out of place at adult dinner parties, surrounded by pseudo intelligentsia, like you're still a child and not worthy.
It's like a homage to those with daddy issues.
I went to a dinner party recently, and came home and bawled because I missed my ex husband being there! We’ve been apart for years, and I’m totally over it, but there was just something about that particular setting ...
A feeling of vulnerability maybe?"
I totally get it!!! I had the same thing a few months ago randomly when eating out and I almost cried at the end of the dinner cos I missed someone who would have been there x
By the way I’m over that guy too
You aren’t alone , sometimes memories just come rushing back but remember it’s just a supercut in your head, of the good moments . |
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another.
Your descriptions… I just can’t !!! Literally seeing it all through what you said "
Aww, yeah they're lovely things to share with someone.
Also, making slow sensual love while there's a storm going on outside.
Snuggling up all cosy together in bed on a weekend, when it's cold and rainy outside. No rush to go anywhere, talking shit about life, love and the world.
Those little flashes of vulnerability/naughtiness when you catch other's eye and have that rush of excitement/horniness knowing exactly what the other is thinking.
Carefree walks in the park. Or finding a little patch of grass to sit on and just enjoying each other's company with no pressure to do anything else. |
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another.
Your descriptions… I just can’t !!! Literally seeing it all through what you said
Aww, yeah they're lovely things to share with someone.
Also, making slow sensual love while there's a storm going on outside.
Snuggling up all cosy together in bed on a weekend, when it's cold and rainy outside. No rush to go anywhere, talking shit about life, love and the world.
Those little flashes of vulnerability/naughtiness when you catch other's eye and have that rush of excitement/horniness knowing exactly what the other is thinking.
Carefree walks in the park. Or finding a little patch of grass to sit on and just enjoying each other's company with no pressure to do anything else. "
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another.
Your descriptions… I just can’t !!! Literally seeing it all through what you said
Aww, yeah they're lovely things to share with someone.
Also, making slow sensual love while there's a storm going on outside.
Snuggling up all cosy together in bed on a weekend, when it's cold and rainy outside. No rush to go anywhere, talking shit about life, love and the world.
Those little flashes of vulnerability/naughtiness when you catch other's eye and have that rush of excitement/horniness knowing exactly what the other is thinking.
Carefree walks in the park. Or finding a little patch of grass to sit on and just enjoying each other's company with no pressure to do anything else. "
Yes to all those!!!
Also, waiting for the other person to watch our fave series’ new episode!! Like can’t pre watch it, have to be watched together
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Cooking meals together
Early morning spooning
Laughing at each others silly jokes
Talking about anything and everything
Holding hands
Being held when you’re crying but you don’t know why and he understands (teared up just a little)
So many things that you just “get” about each other, two people who apart are imperfect but together you’re perfect.
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I miss feeling part of a team.. someone to lend a hand with practical & emotional stuff.
Holding hands whilst walking along together.. I often go for long walks at the weekend & seeing couples & families strolling along together always gets to me & exacerbates the feeling of being on my own.
Having a cup of tea brought to me in bed.. my ex bf was ace and always brought me tea in the morning.
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"That first and last text each night.
The head in my chest with her in my arms
Cooking for each other
The in jokes when you really get someone’s humour
The looks
The hand holding
Knowing each other’s love language
The extra effort made for each other
The open and honest conversations
No having to hide emotions
The support
Knowing that someone wants you to be happy
Quite a bit I guess
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"So I’ve just finished watching on repeat, one of Taylor Swift’s latest music vids “All too well”
And I have been left emotionally drained and , it sort of gave me a bit of my own flash back from failed past relationships. The good: the amazing holiday period at the beginning… the commitment and all… as well as the bad: when having fights and eventually breaking up.
Literally still tearing up badly
Anyway, what are the Little romantic things that you miss when you are in a relationship?
It doesn’t have to be specific to a person, but more generally. What are the things that make u miss being exclusive to someone?
I think what I miss the most is being excited to organise things together, like dinner together or dinner with friends. Or a holiday or even birthday celebrations.
Also the constant cuddles or kissing and hugs and feeling close to someone!
And obviously the excitement you get , u know that butterfly feeling in your stomach when you know they are the one.
I love being single don’t get me wrong, but somehow seeing stuff like that really make me wanna go “man… I kinda miss that stuff”
Waking up at the same time, catching each other's eyes and smiling knowingly.
When they know you so well, they know exactly what to say or do to make you laugh or smile.
People watching together.
Snuggling up on the sofa under a blanket in winter time and watching utter crap on telly.
Falling asleep intertwined with one another.
Your descriptions… I just can’t !!! Literally seeing it all through what you said
Aww, yeah they're lovely things to share with someone.
Also, making slow sensual love while there's a storm going on outside.
Snuggling up all cosy together in bed on a weekend, when it's cold and rainy outside. No rush to go anywhere, talking shit about life, love and the world.
Those little flashes of vulnerability/naughtiness when you catch other's eye and have that rush of excitement/horniness knowing exactly what the other is thinking.
Carefree walks in the park. Or finding a little patch of grass to sit on and just enjoying each other's company with no pressure to do anything else.
Yes to all those!!!
Also, waiting for the other person to watch our fave series’ new episode!! Like can’t pre watch it, have to be watched together
*fugly cries*"
Having an impromptu little waltz in the kitchen when they're walking past as you're cooking.
Playing silly games together, that only you know the rules to.
Coming home to a warm house after a hard day at work, with them waiting for you with a hug and smile. |
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"I miss feeling part of a team.. someone to lend a hand with practical & emotional stuff.
Holding hands whilst walking along together.. I often go for long walks at the weekend & seeing couples & families strolling along together always gets to me & exacerbates the feeling of being on my own.
Having a cup of tea brought to me in bed.. my ex bf was ace and always brought me tea in the morning.
Sigh…. "
Jeez I miss a guy bringing me coffee in bed … |
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"I miss feeling part of a team.. someone to lend a hand with practical & emotional stuff.
Holding hands whilst walking along together.. I often go for long walks at the weekend & seeing couples & families strolling along together always gets to me & exacerbates the feeling of being on my own.
Having a cup of tea brought to me in bed.. my ex bf was ace and always brought me tea in the morning.
Sigh….
Jeez I miss a guy bringing me coffee in bed … "
You don’t realise how nice it is being brought a cuppa until you have to haul your ass outta bed everyday to get it yourself! |
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I miss being in shape and making an effort with myself. When theres no guy on the scene I let myself go to shit. Just feel like what’s the point in shaving my fanny if nobody is gonna see it. What does it matter if I eat 22 dinky donuts nobody cares if I’m slim. |
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"I miss being in shape and making an effort with myself. When theres no guy on the scene I let myself go to shit. Just feel like what’s the point in shaving my fanny if nobody is gonna see it. What does it matter if I eat 22 dinky donuts nobody cares if I’m slim. "
I tend to let myself go if I am super at ease in a relationship , some fucking how. But that’s why it is destined to go downhill haha |
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Mine, said and is going to put an action in place for an appointment I have in Dec.
I'm not going into details as it's personal. However, I'm chuffed and knocked for 6 (in a good way) for what he's said and going to do.
It's not the tradinaol romantic thing. But it filled my heart with joy. |
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