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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Reading the post about not being able to cum from a blowjob it got me thinking. So from a guys view what makes an amazing blowjob? Always good to get new tips  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not having to say what I like, and letting the person work it out through correctly understanding the subtle cues and body language. Last thing I ever want to hear is "Do you like that?" or "Tell me what you want me to do" - just not how I like it, I'll obviously say if I'm not enjoying something, but fill your boots and do what you like, it's not just for my enjoyment after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone else, no teeth!
I complimented someone on her technique not long ago and she said, "Well, it's common sense isn't it?"... And went on to explain that giving a great blowjob is rooted in empathy and intuitive reaction.
Ultimately, you have to think about maximising the man's pleasure using your mouth - so teasing, good suction and rhythm, attention to different parts of the cock (shaft, tip, frenulum etc), good amount of saliva, so it's nice and smooth and a good amount edging/build up. Treat it with care, not too rough, but a nice strong increase in velocity as he's reaching climax.
Pay attention to his reactions - vocal and physical - as well.
Also, works a treat if the person giving the blowjob is enjoying it too and not just going through the motions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate telling them how to do it, from previous experience they didnt like being told how to do it in a way i liked. So now i just let them do it to avoid the grief and just try to enjoy it for how it comes (no pun intended).
Ideally though, plenty of tongue contact from the tip to the back, it just feels better getting a better "wrap" around my cock when theres more tongue touching. A little teeth is okay but i dont want to feel them scrapping past the tip rim, its sorta like the equivalent of a woman feeling nails scratching the inside of their pussy. And obviously the deeper the better, more sensations to be felt along my cock |
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"As someone else, no teeth!
I complimented someone on her technique not long ago and she said, "Well, it's common sense isn't it?"... And went on to explain that giving a great blowjob is rooted in empathy and intuitive reaction.
Ultimately, you have to think about maximising the man's pleasure using your mouth - so teasing, good suction and rhythm, attention to different parts of the cock (shaft, tip, frenulum etc), good amount of saliva, so it's nice and smooth and a good amount edging/build up. Treat it with care, not too rough, but a nice strong increase in velocity as he's reaching climax.
Pay attention to his reactions - vocal and physical - as well.
Also, works a treat if the person giving the blowjob is enjoying it too and not just going through the motions. "
This Is a great response. A lot of women just suck and don’t pay attention to these things. I would add don’t forget his balls and perineum both amazing being licked. While you’re there use your hands to stroke his dick . If you’re a dirty girl get your tongue in his arse too. A great blow job is a mixture of all these elements. And done with enthusiasm and eye contact is guaranteed satisfaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would add don’t forget his balls and perineum both amazing being licked. While you’re there use your hands to stroke his dick . If you’re a dirty girl get your tongue in his arse too. A great blow job is a mixture of all these elements. And done with enthusiasm and eye contact is guaranteed satisfaction "
Yes mate, exactly. Great additions.
I'm not AS keen on hands being involved because women can be sometimes quite insenstive when handling a cock, but when done properly it definitely adds to the whole thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a bad one? Jokes tbf the only one I've not enjoyed was from a straight guy who said it was his first time and a bit toothy so the biggest thing is getting the teeth out of the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, keep a consistent rhythm with it. Don't chop and change what you're doing too much too soon because I can't get turned on that way. It's frustrating as fuck haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.
The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.
The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.
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The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time  . Seems from all these posts maybe not x |
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"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.
The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.
The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time . Seems from all these posts maybe not x"
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"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.
The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.
The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time . Seems from all these posts maybe not x"
Thats all that matters, as long as you both enjoy it and he loves it your doing a fab job. |
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Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this! |
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"Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this! "
Why does it amaze you? I haven’t. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh  "
 maybe I’ll try that |
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"Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this! "
My husband was circumcised and was the opposite,came really quickly |
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"Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this! "
Are you circumcised by any small chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not having to say what I like, and letting the person work it out through correctly understanding the subtle cues and body language. Last thing I ever want to hear is "Do you like that?" or "Tell me what you want me to do" - just not how I like it, I'll obviously say if I'm not enjoying something, but fill your boots and do what you like, it's not just for my enjoyment after all."
I don't think I've ever asked a guy if they like it. My issue isn't getting them to cum, it's edging them quickly enough to stop them cumming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
 I’m so doing this!"
Oh I’m definitely going to do this  even add on a congratulations you’ve cum |
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
Oh I’m definitely going to do this even add on a congratulations you’ve cum "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
Oh I’m definitely going to do this even add on a congratulations you’ve cum "
I think I'm going to try this too lol |
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
Oh I’m definitely going to do this even add on a congratulations you’ve cum
I think I'm going to try this too lol"
Very good I'm going to suggest this to all that give me a BJ from now on ....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any guys here believe the myth that men are better at it than women?
That arguments works both ways..... are women better at licking pussy than men? Sometimes yes ... sometimes no "
Yeah true I've had good and bad from both I suppose |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
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How I would like it, but not limited too; eye contact, careful positioning of teeth, bit of deep swallow action, longue lashing, lot's and lot's of saliva (keep bottle of water nearby if you get dehydrated ladies). Variation of rhythms.
Also when I'm on the home stretch I like her to interlock her hands onto mine... or I'll grab hers. I find it intensifies the connection just at the right time... A nice gulp, a quick peck on the tip and then passing of the wet wipe and viola I am left with a warm fuzzy feeling  |
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
You mean you don’t  "
I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream |
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
You mean you don’t
I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream "
Stop it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says
Tah-dahhhhhhhhh
I’m so doing this!
You mean you don’t
I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream
Stop it "
You wouldn’t like that then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.
The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.
The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time . Seems from all these posts maybe not x"
Exactly, it’s based from the feedback we get .
I’d never make those claims
But I do wonder if some people say “I give amazing head” based on their own judgement?!
Hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How I would like it, but not limited too; eye contact, careful positioning of teeth, bit of deep swallow action, longue lashing, lot's and lot's of saliva (keep bottle of water nearby if you get dehydrated ladies). Variation of rhythms.
Also when I'm on the home stretch I like her to interlock her hands onto mine... or I'll grab hers. I find it intensifies the connection just at the right time... A nice gulp, a quick peck on the tip and then passing of the wet wipe and viola I am left with a warm fuzzy feeling "
This, definitely. Locking hands is just ..... oh my!!!!! |
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"Controlled enthusiasm, eye contact, not neglecting the balls, tongue action, your ability to read there body language, mutual enjoyment…spit, taking your time, little moans with your mouthful xx"
She’s good |
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