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over a year ago
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I'm someone who takes hygiene very seriously, I like to shower before a meet. If you were about to have sex with someone and found out their hygiene resembles that of Oscar the Grouch. What would you do? Do you just bare with it or would you say something but that could possibly hurt feelings.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank god, we've never been in this situation 
I really don't know what i'd do. Probably adopt a British Stiff upper lip and just grin and bear it! Oral would be minimal/avoided  |
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It has happened to me. Hygiene level on two socials was hugely different to hygiene level when I went to his house.
It was extremely awkward but I explained that there was a level of odour I wasn't comfortable with and I left. Even had he offered to shower (he didn't) I'd have been concerned about crusty bedding - there was no way I would've been willing to carry on. |
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"I'm someone who takes hygiene very seriously, I like to shower before a meet. If you were about to have sex with someone and found out their hygiene resembles that of Oscar the Grouch. What would you do? Do you just bare with it or would you say something but that could possibly hurt feelings.
Let's have a discussion about it."
I would excuse myself and leave  I also love clean smelling people to play with, I put in the effort so expect the same. God nothing worse then playing with the stench yuk! |
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I travelled 3 hours on the coach then an hour on the tube straight after work this weekend for a meet so I stank - so I made it clear I need to pop in the shower before we play! I’m nowhere near ocd about cleanliness but I don’t understand how people wouldn’t want to be fresh and clean. I’ve had guys ask for ass play and it was NOT fresh and clean. Like ffs if I wanted to ask for that, I’d be scrubbing myself in the shower for 20 mins first!! |
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Never been in this situation thank goodness. I’d be off though. Couldn’t do it. Not sure what I’d say but I wouldn’t stay. I can’t see it happening though as I would have always met someone first before it got to anything else. |
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"It has happened to me. Hygiene level on two socials was hugely different to hygiene level when I went to his house.
It was extremely awkward but I explained that there was a level of odour I wasn't comfortable with and I left. Even had he offered to shower (he didn't) I'd have been concerned about crusty bedding - there was no way I would've been willing to carry on."
Eeeeewwww....what is wrong with some people... Can't stand bad hygiene |
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"Take it to the shower and make sure they were cleaned up  "
No chance. If she turned up minging, you don't know when she last showered. A lack of personal hygiene does not bode well. |
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