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Bi or curious - off putting ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the general concenious of bi males or curious males.
Seems it’s really stopping potential meets (or it could just be me  )
Not sure I want to change to straight but there does appear to be the concern from some that I will jump on a cock at the sight of one. Or is it that some just don’t wish to meet bi men.
Just thinking out loud rather than venting and interested in the thoughts of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got to admit that I think it’s really sad that some bi guys feel like that can’t be true to themselves here because it spoils their chances of a meet.
I know people will just pull out the old “it’s my preference” chestnut, but if you’re happy to meet bi women and straight guys but not bi guys, I think you have to really ask yourself when preference becomes something else.
As for me, I’m just happy when people be can be who they want to be and be proud of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve got to admit that I think it’s really sad that some bi guys feel like that can’t be true to themselves here because it spoils their chances of a meet.
I know people will just pull out the old “it’s my preference” chestnut, but if you’re happy to meet bi women and straight guys but not bi guys, I think you have to really ask yourself when preference becomes something else.
As for me, I’m just happy when people be can be who they want to be and be proud of it "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plenty of people don't want to meet bi guys, but also plenty of people especially bi couples are looking specifically for bi guys so it's all swings and roundabouts"
I absolutely understand that and equally respect it. I block those who don’t wish to meet so I know not to message etc. but why just bi guys. If both straight you never really see no bi women as a request…. Just a thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread!
I class myself as bi playful. I don’t find men attractive and don’t see myself getting into a relationship with a guy……
…….however, I love the idea of playing with cocks, especially in an anything goes situation where both sexes are just having a lot of fun.
Sadly, there isn’t a ‘bi playful’ option in Fab so, I have to identify as bi sexual. And this opens me up to lots of messages from bi and gay guys.
Now, I love the attention but, it’s a very rare situation that I’d meet a guy alone, just the two of us.
I’m really looking for women and couples and groups who are comfortable with bi playful guys……and that’s not easy to find! Especially when we have to identify on Fab as bi sexual
Wow! I didn’t realise it meant that much to me!
So, if you’re in a relationship and wanting a third, or a sexy women into naughty guys, or (very very occasionally) a horny guy looking for cock fun, come say hi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always find it odd when this thread comes up
As bar one off two profiles I have found stating it I don’t have a single problem and I have my preference set to bi |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have women said they won’t meet you because you’re bi curious? Or are you just assuming that’s the reason?
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Only a couple. It’s more couples. I never assume anything |
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Have women said they won’t meet you because you’re bi curious? Or are you just assuming that’s the reason?
Only a couple. It’s more couples. I never assume anything "
Ah ok. I don’t take much notice of couples on here to be honest. I would have thought it odd if you were talking about females as the majority seem to be prefer bi men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are certainly those who won't meet bi men, but do you really want to have to change your preferences and meet them anyway?
There is also alot more made of the orientation that men put on their profile here compared to women.
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Plenty of people on here don’t want to meet TV’s, but you very rarely get a thread created asking why.
I accept I’m not for everyone but I keep my profile honest, this is what I like and what I’m looking for and those not interested I’m fine with it.
You may only have so many categories to express your sexuality, but the profile text can add in more detail. Such as only Bi playful or cock fun only.
If you think you’re mainly straight but would indulge a bi couple with some same sex fun, then class yourself as that.
It’s all in the profile…admittedly not many read the text, but thats fab for you.  |
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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread!
I class myself as bi playful. I don’t find men attractive and don’t see myself getting into a relationship with a guy……
…….however, I love the idea of playing with cocks, especially in an anything goes situation where both sexes are just having a lot of fun.
Sadly, there isn’t a ‘bi playful’ option in Fab so, I have to identify as bi sexual. And this opens me up to lots of messages from bi and gay guys.
Now, I love the attention but, it’s a very rare situation that I’d meet a guy alone, just the two of us.
I’m really looking for women and couples and groups who are comfortable with bi playful guys……and that’s not easy to find! Especially when we have to identify on Fab as bi sexual"
THIS!!
I’m completely the same.
Not interested in guys one on one generally. But, I’m more than happy to play as part of a three, or in clubs when the mood takes me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is everyone is so desperate to label themselves? I don’t understand it. We’re all people, who fancy different things depending on the time and place. Just be open and accept the good things in life ?? |
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