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over a year ago
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I know what people tend to think of bi males, but what about bi fems?
On here bi women appear to be sought after and something that a lot of people want to find. I'm just wondering if that's not always the case.
My questions:
1. Have any bi fems had issues with straight couples not wanting to meet them as she's bi?
2. Do people in the 'outside' (non-swinging) world know that you are bi?
3. Have you had issues with people in the 'outside' world because you're bi?
My answers-
I haven't had issues with straight couples. (Yet.)
Some people in the 'outside' world know I'm bi because I was 'outed' some years ago. Blokes for some reason remember it and like to pass that information on. 
I have had a few women be weird with me and made comments. Also been called a lesbian which was amusing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what people tend to think of bi males, but what about bi fems?
On here bi women appear to be sought after and something that a lot of people want to find. I'm just wondering if that's not always the case.
My questions:
1. Have any bi fems had issues with straight couples not wanting to meet them as she's bi?
2. Do people in the 'outside' (non-swinging) world know that you are bi?
3. Have you had issues with people in the 'outside' world because you're bi?
My answers-
I haven't had issues with straight couples. (Yet.)
Some people in the 'outside' world know I'm bi because I was 'outed' some years ago. Blokes for some reason remember it and like to pass that information on.
I have had a few women be weird with me and made comments. Also been called a lesbian which was amusing.
Absolutely irrational I know but I think a lot of "straight" men myself included find the thought of two ladies exciting but think there is something a bit distasteful about two men. Bonkers I know but thats the way I am wired up.
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By (user no longer on site)
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i was reported to social services about 8 years ago by a woman who lived on my street because i am bi and i have 3 daughters
She said she didnt think it was right that someone who slept with women was looking after little girls
It actually devastated me, i didnt know what to say when they turned up, i was quite literally speechless
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"i was reported to social services about 8 years ago by a woman who lived on my street because i am bi and i have 3 daughters
She said she didnt think it was right that someone who slept with women was looking after little girls
It actually devastated me, i didnt know what to say when they turned up, i was quite literally speechless
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That's disgusting. Presumably they chatted to you then left you to it? Some people can be so phobic it's ridiculous.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i was reported to social services about 8 years ago by a woman who lived on my street because i am bi and i have 3 daughters
She said she didnt think it was right that someone who slept with women was looking after little girls
It actually devastated me, i didnt know what to say when they turned up, i was quite literally speechless
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Jeez, what a world! Cant believe that! Some people just cant live and let live. |
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"i was reported to social services about 8 years ago by a woman who lived on my street because i am bi and i have 3 daughters
She said she didnt think it was right that someone who slept with women was looking after little girls
It actually devastated me, i didnt know what to say when they turned up, i was quite literally speechless
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that is awful to hear, I'd be devastated too  |
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She was a dinner lady at my kids school, at the time i was having a relationship with a woman and because she (the dinner lady who reported me) lived on my street he had noticed that this woman was coming to my house a lot and she was actually questioning my kids on the play ground about who this woman was and if she stayed over and where she slept
when i went to the school and told them about this they did nothing, the head actually said the dinner lady had done nothing wrong she just had my kids best interests at heart and they was within their rights to question kids if they feel they are in danger
so its ok to ask a 9 and a 10 year old who sleeps in their parents bed by all accounts  |
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Please don't take this the wrong way but I do think people should be able to question if they think kids are at risk.
However... In the case of two women in a relationship I don't think that's cause for concern. Totally ridiculous in fact! Just blatant homophobia. 
I guess people at our school don't know I'm bi as it's a small place with (some) small minded people and I know that someone would do something similar if they found out. |
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"Please don't take this the wrong way but I do think people should be able to question if they think kids are at risk.
However... In the case of two women in a relationship I don't think that's cause for concern. Totally ridiculous in fact! Just blatant homophobia.
I guess people at our school don't know I'm bi as it's a small place with (some) small minded people and I know that someone would do something similar if they found out. "
I understand your point but i do not think a school dinner lady has the right to question any kids,if they think somethings wrong they should report to the school,after all all dinner ladies are usually the parents of children at the school,employed to moniter the playground usually so teachers can get there lunch,they are not trained in any way |
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