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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Disregard things like what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Disregard things like what? "

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Do you actually reread your posts at all and check that they make sense to others?

I love salad but word salad, not so much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort."

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes. "

Things seen from a distance may need binocs

Veris find the positive out of a meet..at least they were there.

Some also are very on point and written as experienced!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you actually reread your posts at all and check that they make sense to others?

I love salad but word salad, not so much"

Is it all developing in a way that makes sense to you?

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By *S2004Man  over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Ok . It’s Sunday, I am a little tired, what the hell is this thread about??????

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

I prefer a veri that is written later on, not rushed out whilst they are still on a high from the meet.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

I like my veris as they are not the run of the mill on the whole which is a good reflection of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I prefer a veri that is written later on, not rushed out whilst they are still on a high from the meet."
Why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

"

Jeez.

I'll choose to have whatever verifications on my profile in whichever way I wish - and if that means having new OR previously met Fab friends offer to leave me veris, I'll gracefully accept and display at my leisure not anyone else's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like my veris as they are not the run of the mill on the whole which is a good reflection of me. "
Express more if you can here.

Why are they a good reflection of you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes. Things seen from a distance may need binocs

Veris find the positive out of a meet..at least they were there.

Some also are very on point and written as experienced! "

Good point about them being there.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

Jeez.

I'll choose to have whatever verifications on my profile in whichever way I wish - and if that means having new OR previously met Fab friends offer to leave me veris, I'll gracefully accept and display at my leisure not anyone else's. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

Jeez.

I'll choose to have whatever verifications on my profile in whichever way I wish - and if that means having new OR previously met Fab friends offer to leave me veris, I'll gracefully accept and display at my leisure not anyone else's. "

One size may not fit all.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’d provide the same veri whether we still had the taste of them on our lips or it was a few days later.

We don’t give graphic veri’s and we also wouldn’t want to receive them…they are just a reminder of a time spent with someone. Not for others to know the blow by blow (pun intended) details…

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 "
Report back mid-brew cannot happen as nearness disallows such..on the train home or at home if I've left it in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’d provide the same veri whether we still had the taste of them on our lips or it was a few days later.

We don’t give graphic veri’s and we also wouldn’t want to receive them…they are just a reminder of a time spent with someone. Not for others to know the blow by blow (pun intended) details… "

You do your style of veri.

Take note though presumptions can often fall flat when researched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’d provide the same veri whether we still had the taste of them on our lips or it was a few days later.

We don’t give graphic veri’s and we also wouldn’t want to receive them…they are just a reminder of a time spent with someone. Not for others to know the blow by blow (pun intended) details… "

A few days later is only a few days later..I have done the same myself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Veris are solely to say someone turned up and they were who they said they were.

Anything else is just meh.

They are also very open to manipulation and should be used as just one tool on many this site and community offer to keep yourself safe and satisfied

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 "
What is your idea of the perfect verification?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Veris are solely to say someone turned up and they were who they said they were.

Anything else is just meh.

They are also very open to manipulation and should be used as just one tool on many this site and community offer to keep yourself safe and satisfied"

This person turned up and they were who they said they were: Veri done!

Open to manipulation (of course they are)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Veris are solely to say someone turned up and they were who they said they were.

Anything else is just meh.

They are also very open to manipulation and should be used as just one tool on many this site and community offer to keep yourself safe and satisfied This person turned up and they were who they said they were: Veri done!

Open to manipulation (of course they are)"

Ya thats the type of veri I'd read.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

[Removed by poster at 14/11/21 12:52:10]

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Veris are solely to say someone turned up and they were who they said they were.

Anything else is just meh.

They are also very open to manipulation and should be used as just one tool on many this site and community offer to keep yourself safe and satisfied This person turned up and they were who they said they were: Veri done!

Open to manipulation (of course they are)

Ya thats the type of veri I'd read.

"

This person turned up and commented on the thread and (I add) I take your words at face value.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 What is your idea of the perfect verification?"

Perfect veri for me shows personality. Bedroom summmary not required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/11/21 12:52:10]"
Oops! maybe she read mine!!!!!!

The comment was:

About veris that give you an idea of the personality of the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 What is your idea of the perfect verification?

Perfect veri for me shows personality. Bedroom summmary not required."

OK..I thought you had done a convenient runner?

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 What is your idea of the perfect verification?

Perfect veri for me shows personality. Bedroom summmary not required. OK..I thought you had done a convenient runner?"

Ha no.. pressed delete by mistake.. pesky nails.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

"

My apologies for having written in the heat of the moment.

What I meant is the heat is still felt upon the body (and mind) and it has not dissipated yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 What is your idea of the perfect verification?

Perfect veri for me shows personality. Bedroom summmary not required. OK..I thought you had done a convenient runner?

Ha no.. pressed delete by mistake.. pesky nails. "

OK.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine are social and comedy. I’d be offended if someone got their phone out to report back mid brew… I prefer to reflect on the day, not rush right in to mark them out of 10 "
Are any of my verifications too explicit?

What also is too explicit?

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

I've been onto bletchley park and we think we've deciphered the message.

You're not happy about late verifications and verifications that don't include the details you wanted them too?

I could easily do without the trip advisor style reviews. And the treat her well guys etc etc.

There's 3 questions I want answering and that's it.

1. Are they who they say there are?

2. Did they turn up?

3. Did they murder you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've been onto bletchley park and we think we've deciphered the message.

You're not happy about late verifications and verifications that don't include the details you wanted them too?

I could easily do without the trip advisor style reviews. And the treat her well guys etc etc.

There's 3 questions I want answering and that's it.

1. Are they who they say there are?

2. Did they turn up?

3. Did they murder you?

"

My verifications are just fine by me..so where does extra detail come into it personally for me?

Do my veris read like trip advisor?

I just prefer certain things which if you had read the whole you would have seen.

Your 3 things are the stimulating you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've been onto bletchley park and we think we've deciphered the message.

You're not happy about late verifications and verifications that don't include the details you wanted them too?

I could easily do without the trip advisor style reviews. And the treat her well guys etc etc.

There's 3 questions I want answering and that's it.

1. Are they who they say there are?

2. Did they turn up?

3. Did they murder you?

My verifications are just fine by me..so where does extra detail come into it personally for me?

Do my veris read like trip advisor?

I just prefer certain things which if you had read the whole you would have seen.

Your 3 things are the stimulating you."

Yes, I also prefer my verifications

sooner rather than later or much much later..like some old profile legends.

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

One of my previous meets here deleted his profile (twice) he has recently returned and asked if I would provide a historical verification….. I declined saying I would be happy to do so if and when we met again. I guess others have declined too as there are none on his profile yet.

I’d say this of anyone - if you delete your profile you can’t expect people to keep verifying you on a previous basis if you start a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I look at my verification and it’s up to me to display it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Okay...if you say so. I'm not quite sure why people put so much weight behind them personally but each to their own.

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By *herry OnatopWoman  over a year ago

Just over there

What's your take on hiding verifications op?

Personally I like receiving funny or to the point verifications, relevant and honest. The same if I give.

What I take from them is irrelevant as I'm not the other person so whether he had her screaming and gushing or had a lovely meal is of no relevance.

I think a tick box system with questions like, Did they turn up? Were they as profile depicts? Then a box for adding a little fluff if you so wish. A bit like categorising pics.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've been onto bletchley park and we think we've deciphered the message.

You're not happy about late verifications and verifications that don't include the details you wanted them too?

I could easily do without the trip advisor style reviews. And the treat her well guys etc etc.

There's 3 questions I want answering and that's it.

1. Are they who they say there are?

2. Did they turn up?

3. Did they murder you?

My verifications are just fine by me..so where does extra detail come into it personally for me?

Do my veris read like trip advisor?

I just prefer certain things which if you had read the whole you would have seen.

Your 3 things are the stimulating you. Yes, I also prefer my verifications

sooner rather than later or much much later..like some old profile legends."

I'd verify anyone I'd met, no matter how long it was since I'd seen them. They are still a real human being.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

Monsieur La Résistance, do you verify everyone you meet?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"What's your take on hiding verifications op?

Personally I like receiving funny or to the point verifications, relevant and honest. The same if I give.

What I take from them is irrelevant as I'm not the other person so whether he had her screaming and gushing or had a lovely meal is of no relevance.

I think a tick box system with questions like, Did they turn up? Were they as profile depicts? Then a box for adding a little fluff if you so wish. A bit like categorising pics."

I like that idea.

So you can put. Was man in pics but 20 years older and 6 stone heavier.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If someone wants to leave a veri then that's their choice, as is when they do it. Same goes for me. I don't get hung up on veris at all. They aren't important to me. If we had a good time it doesn't matter if they tell the rest of fab about it or not, and if they didn't enjoy it as much as they wanted to or could then same goes. Same for me.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

A veri is written by someone you meet, if they choose to write one. Along with what they choose to say, that is nothing to do with me and their thoughts alone on how they saw the interaction.

Social veris I publish, any others are hidden, as that is between myself and them, it’s our memory not the fab community’s.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes. "

I love the way you write

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick


"I prefer a veri that is written later on, not rushed out whilst they are still on a high from the meet. Why?"

Because then the are more true to how they feel and how it went, rather than just how they felt at the moment when full of endorphins.

I want to leave a good lasting impression, rather than a fleeting moment of elation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Monsieur La Résistance, do you verify everyone you meet?"
Jah

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One of my previous meets here deleted his profile (twice) he has recently returned and asked if I would provide a historical verification….. I declined saying I would be happy to do so if and when we met again. I guess others have declined too as there are none on his profile yet.

I’d say this of anyone - if you delete your profile you can’t expect people to keep verifying you on a previous basis if you start a new profile "

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We will usually write a verification the next day, sometimes a couple of days later. As for there value they mean little other than to show we are genuine and do turn up. We are not fans of the graphic verification also we like the verification to be a true reflection of who we are.

We have hidden one of our early verifications right from the start as it was so over the top we didn't actually recognise ourselves.

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By *onb21Woman  over a year ago

Cardiff

Isn't the main purpose of a verification to confirm that someone is who they say they are? A meet a year or more ago can still provide this and be authentic.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

Much prefer verifications a few days after. Much better to reflect on what happened rather than write in the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's your take on hiding verifications op?

Personally I like receiving funny or to the point verifications, relevant and honest. The same if I give.

What I take from them is irrelevant as I'm not the other person so whether he had her screaming and gushing or had a lovely meal is of no relevance.

I think a tick box system with questions like, Did they turn up? Were they as profile depicts? Then a box for adding a little fluff if you so wish. A bit like categorising pics."

I have never hidden any I have recieved on any profile.

If I've met someone I've met them and nothing to hide.

I just don't like the feel of tucking some away.

Relevant and honest is a good basis for a verification I agree.

A tick box system is a good idea but could be a bit soulless?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are they all verifications? I like to call some of them ‘reviews’

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Much prefer verifications a few days after. Much better to reflect on what happened rather than write in the heat of the moment. "
Maybe a couple of hours after the heat of the moment not during or before finishing otherwise it could prove fake!

That's the gist of OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Are they all verifications? I like to call some of them ‘reviews’ "
It's always good to have some bullet points to hand when carrying a weapon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Isn't the main purpose of a verification to confirm that someone is who they say they are? A meet a year or more ago can still provide this and be authentic. "
Yes, can still be authentic but best not started with: I met this lady a while ago...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We will usually write a verification the next day, sometimes a couple of days later. As for there value they mean little other than to show we are genuine and do turn up. We are not fans of the graphic verification also we like the verification to be a true reflection of who we are.

We have hidden one of our early verifications right from the start as it was so over the top we didn't actually recognise ourselves."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I prefer a veri that is written later on, not rushed out whilst they are still on a high from the meet. Why?

Because then the are more true to how they feel and how it went, rather than just how they felt at the moment when full of endorphins.

I want to leave a good lasting impression, rather than a fleeting moment of elation.

"

You should read the book War Report: From D-Day to VE-day..timely reporting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they all verifications? I like to call some of them ‘reviews’ It's always good to have some bullet points to hand when carrying a weapon."

do you have a license for that?

“Yes, here in my pocket… reach in for it yourself!”

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A veri is written by someone you meet, if they choose to write one. Along with what they choose to say, that is nothing to do with me and their thoughts alone on how they saw the interaction.

Social veris I publish, any others are hidden, as that is between myself and them, it’s our memory not the fab community’s. "

Were you there if it was nothing to do with you!?

You have REALLY distanced yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Are they all verifications? I like to call some of them ‘reviews’ It's always good to have some bullet points to hand when carrying a weapon.

do you have a license for that?

“Yes, here in my pocket… reach in for it yourself!” "

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I prefer a balanced holistic verification.

Says more about the connection and not about look at me.

I’m sure your verification is great, effervescent, glowing.

Find it a lot on Ebay.

However, hats off, you have managed something that others will never achieve.

May the next encounter be as equally rewarding to you both.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"A veri is written by someone you meet, if they choose to write one. Along with what they choose to say, that is nothing to do with me and their thoughts alone on how they saw the interaction.

Social veris I publish, any others are hidden, as that is between myself and them, it’s our memory not the fab community’s.

Were you there if it was nothing to do with you!?

You have REALLY distanced yourself!!"

As in they choose what to write on how they saw the interaction, their words & thoughts not mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A veri is written by someone you meet, if they choose to write one. Along with what they choose to say, that is nothing to do with me and their thoughts alone on how they saw the interaction.

Social veris I publish, any others are hidden, as that is between myself and them, it’s our memory not the fab community’s.

Were you there if it was nothing to do with you!?

You have REALLY distanced yourself!!

As in they choose what to write on how they saw the interaction, their words & thoughts not mine. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I prefer a balanced holistic verification.

Says more about the connection and not about look at me.

I’m sure your verification is great, effervescent, glowing.

Find it a lot on Ebay.

However, hats off, you have managed something that others will never achieve.

May the next encounter be as equally rewarding to you both."

I've had a far more verified old (deleted) profile than this one,

so if I was trumpet sounding I would have preferred that!

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)  over a year ago

manchester

To be fair I’ve been on the scene for years and have hundreds of verifications. Only recently I realised I didn’t have one from someone I must have known around the scene for like, 12 years.

We gave each other one when we realised.

I don’t think his was any less relevant than someone I met once a week ago.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple  over a year ago

Halifax


"

I love salad but word salad, not so much"

Deep

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

"

OP, are you saying that if someone sent you a verification three weeks after meeting with you that you would disregard it because you prefer your verifications to be immediate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"To be fair I’ve been on the scene for years and have hundreds of verifications. Only recently I realised I didn’t have one from someone I must have known around the scene for like, 12 years.

We gave each other one when we realised.

I don’t think his was any less relevant than someone I met once a week ago. "

12 years..and I'm sure you mentioned that connectivity.

There is a more loose fitting version put out by many 'returnees' around these here parts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

OP, are you saying that if someone sent you a verification three weeks after meeting with you that you would disregard it because you prefer your verifications to be immediate?

"

3 weeks would be a bit extreme, but I prefer them in my desk as soon as reasonable/possible.

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By *ear in the chairMan  over a year ago

yeah there

I love my veri's. More because they are soft rather than explicit and memories of times shared with people I've got close to that both of us are unabashed to say. If others read them or care that's up to them, I can only do me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your title says "why veri's are so VERY important" yet none of your posts have explained this, you've simply stated your preference for when a veri should be written?

By all means have a preference but don't expect others to feel the same.

Mr

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By *ichaelangelaCouple  over a year ago

notts

Veri’s mean nothing. You can choose which or how many you display and no one will show a bad verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I love my veri's. More because they are soft rather than explicit and memories of times shared with people I've got close to that both of us are unabashed to say. If others read them or care that's up to them, I can only do me "
He actually remembers them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A prefer a verification to be left in their heads. I hate them and ask people not to verify me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Your title says "why veri's are so VERY important" yet none of your posts have explained this, you've simply stated your preference for when a veri should be written?

By all means have a preference but don't expect others to feel the same.

Mr"

Their value is partly linked to my preference shown here but only partly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Veri’s mean nothing. You can choose which or how many you display and no one will show a bad verification "
You can choose (I don't hide any) never have.

I've been around longer than this profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A prefer a verification to be left in their heads. I hate them and ask people not to verify me. "
Can you express why you hate them?

A request.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The verifications you give, and receive, as as individual as your own profile is. And in the same way, there are no rules. You can type an essay, or receive a sentence, the only thing you are in control of is whether you choose to give one, and whether you choose to display one you are given. That's it, the whole story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it. "

Do the veris match up to their forum posts makes me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The verifications you give, and receive, as as individual as your own profile is. And in the same way, there are no rules. You can type an essay, or receive a sentence, the only thing you are in control of is whether you choose to give one, and whether you choose to display one you are given. That's it, the whole story."
Your whole story..though many points are true.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?"

The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat."

Heathens they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat."

Those profiles that beg for veris from those who 'may or have' met them before.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat."

Nope, I've not got a clue what you're trying to say but thanks for trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat.

Heathens they are. "

Piracy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat.

Nope, I've not got a clue what you're trying to say but thanks for trying."

That's OK..and you have a pirates name..Topsy!

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?"

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want "

Loves ya PP

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple  over a year ago

Near Bergerac

I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want "

Someone could be cunty soon after the act or a while later..a cunt will be a cunt!

If your idea was the case a sooner after verification has now become a way to get cunts to behave themselves!

What a discovery!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes.

I love the way you write "

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By *G CoupleCouple  over a year ago

kent

Verifications are valuable to some but not others.

They only prove that they have turned up but don't guarantee they will turn up.

Very easy to manipulate.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!"

Thank you, I was trying to work out how it was constructed!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis? The real attack here is against the oft returnees and the new record of their past encounters that read like pieces of driftwood they use to keep themselves afloat. Those profiles that beg for veris from those who 'may or have' met them before."

I take that sh*t with a pinch of salt seeing as their on the high seas and cut adrift from the mainland of fab!

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want Someone could be cunty soon after the act or a while later..a cunt will be a cunt!

If your idea was the case a sooner after verification has now become a way to get cunts to behave themselves!

What a discovery!!"

Eh?

Yeah a cunt is a cunt.

There's also that thing where people do things they didn't expect to be doing during a meet, and only once replaying in their mind how they ended up doing it, they realise they were manipulated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Verifications are valuable to some but not others.

They only prove that they have turned up but don't guarantee they will turn up.

Very easy to manipulate. "

Excellent and true.

BUT can increase confidence in reliability.

The flip side being.

I have had a well verified profile fuck up in a way that wouldn't look good for them among reasonably minded people.

No other info shall be shared here on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want Someone could be cunty soon after the act or a while later..a cunt will be a cunt!

If your idea was the case a sooner after verification has now become a way to get cunts to behave themselves!

What a discovery!!

Eh?

Yeah a cunt is a cunt.

There's also that thing where people do things they didn't expect to be doing during a meet, and only once replaying in their mind how they ended up doing it, they realise they were manipulated. "

Yes.

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi op. Tbh I’ve been around long enough and definitely got more than enough veris - so they’re no longer a big deal. These days I don’t tend to verify people unless they verify me first - not as a negative reflection of our meet - but purely because I think I’ve long ‘proved’ that I am who I say I am and meet when I say I will - and I prefer my sex life/acts to be a little more private.

If a verification is important to someone then I’ll happily verify them - but it will never be graphic. I judge the success of a meet by whether or not we both really want to see each other again - not by the verification they leave me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

OP thinks veris should be written straight away (you know that stage where people are still wearing endorphin goggles and haven't fully had time to replay in their head and see if the calories were worth the meal)

Other peeps prefer a veri to be written a little while after the act, to get a clearer picture once the endorphin goggles have been put back in the box. Someone could be cunty after the act once they've got what they want Someone could be cunty soon after the act or a while later..a cunt will be a cunt!

If your idea was the case a sooner after verification has now become a way to get cunts to behave themselves!

What a discovery!!

Eh?

Yeah a cunt is a cunt.

There's also that thing where people do things they didn't expect to be doing during a meet, and only once replaying in their mind how they ended up doing it, they realise they were manipulated. Yes."

..can happen.

I once arrived at a meet where I didn't know I wouldn't be the sole guest.

I found out when two (unmentioned) others were present apart from the couple who invited me and she was hot stuff so I..can happen!

I have recovered well since that deception?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi op. Tbh I’ve been around long enough and definitely got more than enough veris - so they’re no longer a big deal. These days I don’t tend to verify people unless they verify me first - not as a negative reflection of our meet - but purely because I think I’ve long ‘proved’ that I am who I say I am and meet when I say I will - and I prefer my sex life/acts to be a little more private.

If a verification is important to someone then I’ll happily verify them - but it will never be graphic. I judge the success of a meet by whether or not we both really want to see each other again - not by the verification they leave me. "

This isn't my first ride on the fab roadshow

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi op. Tbh I’ve been around long enough and definitely got more than enough veris - so they’re no longer a big deal. These days I don’t tend to verify people unless they verify me first - not as a negative reflection of our meet - but purely because I think I’ve long ‘proved’ that I am who I say I am and meet when I say I will - and I prefer my sex life/acts to be a little more private.

If a verification is important to someone then I’ll happily verify them - but it will never be graphic. I judge the success of a meet by whether or not we both really want to see each other again - not by the verification they leave me. This isn't my first ride on the fab roadshow "

I have also had repeat meets

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"One of my previous meets here deleted his profile (twice) he has recently returned and asked if I would provide a historical verification….. I declined saying I would be happy to do so if and when we met again. I guess others have declined too as there are none on his profile yet.

I’d say this of anyone - if you delete your profile you can’t expect people to keep verifying you on a previous basis if you start a new profile "

Amen! There are guys I now avoid who have literally been on and off here a dozen times. They never bloody learn and it’s incredibly tedious.

I also - by dint of having met a lot of people - get messages from guys who assure me we met and shagged on their previous profile who I genuinely can’t remember (either I’m a total tart or I’m getting dementia - probably both!) - they still try to get me to re-verify them! One guy was so persistent that in the end I commented that if he’d been THAT good I’d have remembered! He never bothered me again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One of my previous meets here deleted his profile (twice) he has recently returned and asked if I would provide a historical verification….. I declined saying I would be happy to do so if and when we met again. I guess others have declined too as there are none on his profile yet.

I’d say this of anyone - if you delete your profile you can’t expect people to keep verifying you on a previous basis if you start a new profile

Amen! There are guys I now avoid who have literally been on and off here a dozen times. They never bloody learn and it’s incredibly tedious.

I also - by dint of having met a lot of people - get messages from guys who assure me we met and shagged on their previous profile who I genuinely can’t remember (either I’m a total tart or I’m getting dementia - probably both!) - they still try to get me to re-verify them! One guy was so persistent that in the end I commented that if he’d been THAT good I’d have remembered! He never bothered me again! "

At last a voice of exasperated reasoning!!!!!!!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hi op. Tbh I’ve been around long enough and definitely got more than enough veris - so they’re no longer a big deal. These days I don’t tend to verify people unless they verify me first - not as a negative reflection of our meet - but purely because I think I’ve long ‘proved’ that I am who I say I am and meet when I say I will - and I prefer my sex life/acts to be a little more private.

If a verification is important to someone then I’ll happily verify them - but it will never be graphic. I judge the success of a meet by whether or not we both really want to see each other again - not by the verification they leave me. This isn't my first ride on the fab roadshow I have also had repeat meets "

I’m sure you have. I was simply offering my ‘take’ on the subject of verifications - not making judgments on how others use or perceive them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Meh. You do you.

I forgot what a meet is anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi op. Tbh I’ve been around long enough and definitely got more than enough veris - so they’re no longer a big deal. These days I don’t tend to verify people unless they verify me first - not as a negative reflection of our meet - but purely because I think I’ve long ‘proved’ that I am who I say I am and meet when I say I will - and I prefer my sex life/acts to be a little more private.

If a verification is important to someone then I’ll happily verify them - but it will never be graphic. I judge the success of a meet by whether or not we both really want to see each other again - not by the verification they leave me. This isn't my first ride on the fab roadshow I have also had repeat meets

I’m sure you have. I was simply offering my ‘take’ on the subject of verifications - not making judgments on how others use or perceive them. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A prefer a verification to be left in their heads. I hate them and ask people not to verify me. Can you express why you hate them?

A request."

Cos to me they’re pointless. I’d get meets even if I didn’t have any so serves no purpose. Plus nobody is ever gonna leave a bad verification, one persons idea of a great night would be another persons idea of a shit night.

All guys are cool on the day of the meet possibly the day after and then they turn into knobs. So yeah. Pointless.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?"

You and me both.

The synopsis is that: Mr. Champion Lover Extraordinaire would like a product review/critique within 3-5 business days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One of my previous meets here deleted his profile (twice) he has recently returned and asked if I would provide a historical verification….. I declined saying I would be happy to do so if and when we met again. I guess others have declined too as there are none on his profile yet.

I’d say this of anyone - if you delete your profile you can’t expect people to keep verifying you on a previous basis if you start a new profile

Amen! There are guys I now avoid who have literally been on and off here a dozen times. They never bloody learn and it’s incredibly tedious.

I also - by dint of having met a lot of people - get messages from guys who assure me we met and shagged on their previous profile who I genuinely can’t remember (either I’m a total tart or I’m getting dementia - probably both!) - they still try to get me to re-verify them! One guy was so persistent that in the end I commented that if he’d been THAT good I’d have remembered! He never bothered me again! "

Let's Keep Britain Tidy or at least our personal surroundings as this poster helps to do.

I am refering to the type she has had to deal with in her post.

That happens on my side of the fence too..but it's less frenzied by the sound of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

You and me both.

The synopsis is that: Mr. Champion Lover Extraordinaire would like a product review/critique within 3-5 business days."

Champion lover extraordinaire is MIA from this thread, that's a different discussion.

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By *leanor1717Woman  over a year ago

Gillingham


"I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!

Thank you, I was trying to work out how it was constructed!!"

I'm getting a headache trying to work out what OP meant at the start but more so the sometimes nonsensical OP replies to comments. Reminds me of trying to get sense out of my ex-husband

I don't care if a veri is historical, done after a week, two days or an hour. Doesn't matter at all. If it bothers you that much then pass that person by?!

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it. Do the veris match up to their forum posts makes me laugh! "

Why did it make you laugh? Many people have an online persona. What they portray in their profile and on forum posts may differ from their veris. They could talk about wanting 1 to 1 and good connections etc, but then display veris from dogging meets.. which would seem at odds. Or talk about socials being necessary then have veris for last second meets. That difference could influence if I want to meet them or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!

Thank you, I was trying to work out how it was constructed!!

I'm getting a headache trying to work out what OP meant at the start but more so the sometimes nonsensical OP replies to comments. Reminds me of trying to get sense out of my ex-husband

I don't care if a veri is historical, done after a week, two days or an hour. Doesn't matter at all. If it bothers you that much then pass that person by?! "

"Sometimes nonsensical" I can live with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it. Do the veris match up to their forum posts makes me laugh!

Why did it make you laugh? Many people have an online persona. What they portray in their profile and on forum posts may differ from their veris. They could talk about wanting 1 to 1 and good connections etc, but then display veris from dogging meets.. which would seem at odds. Or talk about socials being necessary then have veris for last second meets. That difference could influence if I want to meet them or not."

I tend to roll with the forum absent crowd in certain matters so it made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it. Do the veris match up to their forum posts makes me laugh!

Why did it make you laugh? Many people have an online persona. What they portray in their profile and on forum posts may differ from their veris. They could talk about wanting 1 to 1 and good connections etc, but then display veris from dogging meets.. which would seem at odds. Or talk about socials being necessary then have veris for last second meets. That difference could influence if I want to meet them or not."

Not me! I'm innocent of such transgressions!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A prefer a verification to be left in their heads. I hate them and ask people not to verify me. Can you express why you hate them?

A request.

Cos to me they’re pointless. I’d get meets even if I didn’t have any so serves no purpose. Plus nobody is ever gonna leave a bad verification, one persons idea of a great night would be another persons idea of a shit night.

All guys are cool on the day of the meet possibly the day after and then they turn into knobs. So yeah. Pointless. "

You probably would get meets without verifications from hungry scavenging wolves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A prefer a verification to be left in their heads. I hate them and ask people not to verify me. Can you express why you hate them?

A request.

Cos to me they’re pointless. I’d get meets even if I didn’t have any so serves no purpose. Plus nobody is ever gonna leave a bad verification, one persons idea of a great night would be another persons idea of a shit night.

All guys are cool on the day of the meet possibly the day after and then they turn into knobs. So yeah. Pointless. You probably would get meets without verifications from hungry scavenging wolves."

Others might look upon your non-verified self as a possible fake profile dependent on its profile text information.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you actually reread your posts at all and check that they make sense to others?

I love salad but word salad, not so much"

It's not difficult to read and understand:

That geezer wants to see veris wrote quite soon after the meet! He doesn't want to see someone returning on a new profile, with an old meet verification from many moons ago!

In other words recent verifications within a 24 hour meet....

Now please don't criticize my shit grammar. I'm trying my best with my old O'level English.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you actually reread your posts at all and check that they make sense to others?

I love salad but word salad, not so much

It's not difficult to read and understand:

That geezer wants to see veris wrote quite soon after the meet! He doesn't want to see someone returning on a new profile, with an old meet verification from many moons ago!

In other words recent verifications within a 24 hour meet....

Now please don't criticize my shit grammar. I'm trying my best with my old O'level English..... "

Not that difficult for us simple folk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't show or do graphic veris. For me it's part of a picture of the other person if I am deciding to meet them. Do the veris match up to their profiles or forum posts?

As for timescales.. I am displaying veris from friends I have reconnected with after several years. The connection is/was still there. They thought it important enough to write about me, I thought it delightful enough to display it. Do the veris match up to their forum posts makes me laugh!

Why did it make you laugh? Many people have an online persona. What they portray in their profile and on forum posts may differ from their veris. They could talk about wanting 1 to 1 and good connections etc, but then display veris from dogging meets.. which would seem at odds. Or talk about socials being necessary then have veris for last second meets. That difference could influence if I want to meet them or not."

That idea is standard, I'm pretty sure most people do what you do!

Glad you explained further, because I was wondering what you meant from your original post

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!"

It's Weetabix you need and three of them. Not soggy cornflakes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like funny veris personally. I like to do a veri on the same day so still fresh in my mind. I don't like graphic ones, I don't feel there is any need for them.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like funny veris personally. I like to do a veri on the same day so still fresh in my mind. I don't like graphic ones, I don't feel there is any need for them.

Danish x"

The fresh in the mind concept has taken a bit of a battering around here as many prefer a more sober reflection..has alcohol been imbibed then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If someone wants to leave a veri then that's their choice, as is when they do it. Same goes for me. I don't get hung up on veris at all. They aren't important to me. If we had a good time it doesn't matter if they tell the rest of fab about it or not, and if they didn't enjoy it as much as they wanted to or could then same goes. Same for me.

"

I see veris as a reference for those who seek the same or a similar experience to that which is expressed on them.

Profile text or pics etc could cover that but I think a veri does it better.

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes. "

Brilliant!

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I use veris as a verification someone is real.... and I love a comedy one

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think someone must be using 'cut and paste' from Google Translate for their posts.

A truly bizarre thread.

I used up a whole bowl of cornflakes before I was halfway through..!

Thank you, I was trying to work out how it was constructed!!

I'm getting a headache trying to work out what OP meant at the start but more so the sometimes nonsensical OP replies to comments. Reminds me of trying to get sense out of my ex-husband

I don't care if a veri is historical, done after a week, two days or an hour. Doesn't matter at all. If it bothers you that much then pass that person by?! "

For a person who understands so little of OP your veri writing timescale is SO acceptable to that OP

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My hidden ones are for our memories only, I like reminiscing over our encounters and have my friends pics for the same reason, each one tells a story of an adventure

Social veris are purely for fun nights out

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes.

Brilliant! "

Take note that was written by someone who describes themselves as a voyeur around here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My hidden ones are for our memories only, I like reminiscing over our encounters and have my friends pics for the same reason, each one tells a story of an adventure

Social veris are purely for fun nights out "

Your not the only one who reminisces!

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Disregard things like what?

I prefer verifications that belong to the profile you are on (not from an old one)

I also prefer verifications that are written very soon after an encounter of whatever sort.

Surely it's the same person, whether the same profile or not?

Shag goggles are great for veris. They write nice things when still high on their spunk fumes.

Brilliant! Take note that was written by someone who describes themselves as a voyeur around here! "

Eh?

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

"

I don’t like receiving sexually explicit veris and definitely don’t display any from forumites. I have lots if someone really wants to be mosey abs I like them, they can ask me to show them

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

I don’t like receiving sexually explicit veris and definitely don’t display any from forumites. I have lots if someone really wants to be mosey abs I like them, they can ask me to show them "

Yes, I too am not a fan of the more (out there) detailed descriptions.

That's a fair way of operating by allowing others to ask you to show them.

I have requested the same off others a couple of times as proof of something or other.

They were supplied.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My verifications arrived on my profile much much sooner than weeks or months later.

They were written in the heat of a moment that (really) happened (them) having had something tangible to report on.

When you disregard certain things about verifying that gets my antennae up!

When you cheapen the process that gets my antennae up!

Whatever you do about verifications (if you involve yourself in them?)

Do it quickly!

I don’t like receiving sexually explicit veris and definitely don’t display any from forumites. I have lots if someone really wants to be mosey abs I like them, they can ask me to show them Yes, I too am not a fan of the more (out there) detailed descriptions.

That's a fair way of operating by allowing others to ask you to show them.

I have requested the same off others a couple of times as proof of something or other.

They were supplied.

"

BUT I like the practical (still active) around here sign that verifications may show so wouldn't hide them for ANYONE.

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By *mma29Couple  over a year ago

wirral


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?"

When the seagulls follow the trawler, it is because they think sardines will be thrown.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

When the seagulls follow the trawler, it is because they think sardines will be thrown.

Thank you."

Sounds humourous!

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By *mma29Couple  over a year ago

wirral


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

When the seagulls follow the trawler, it is because they think sardines will be thrown.

Thank you. Sounds humourous!"

It was said by Eric cantona many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've read through the whole blasted thread and I still don't have a scooby.

Would anyone be willing to offer a synopsis?

When the seagulls follow the trawler, it is because they think sardines will be thrown.

Thank you. Sounds humourous!

It was said by Eric cantona many years ago. "

I liked Eric's ramblings!

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