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How not to get ignored all the time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel ignored in the Forum only or on the site in general?
Site in general "
If you want my opinion it’s don’t just rely on the site… Get out to clubs and socials meet people that way  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all
The first question would be, what are you doing to get noticed?"
Don’t have a bad profile I don’t think
Always read other profiles
Polite
Don’t just send dick pics
So no idea really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you feel ignored in the Forum only or on the site in general?
Site in general
If you want my opinion it’s don’t just rely on the site… Get out to clubs and socials meet people that way "
Unfortunately with work and child care I’m lucky get time go to clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel ignored in the Forum only or on the site in general?
Site in general "
It isn't easy. Patience and if you watch the Forum for a bit, see how you can join in and be seen here first. Join in the fun photo challenge threads, that sort of thing. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Really not having luck on here at all
The first question would be, what are you doing to get noticed?
Don’t have a bad profile I don’t think
Always read other profiles
Polite
Don’t just send dick pics
So no idea really "
Firstly just my opinion because depending what you're looking for some people get fed up receiving dick pictures so wait until asked for.
I understand that you read their profile but still make your message interesting so that person has something to respond with but remember it's ok reading their bio but does what your looking for match theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel ignored in the Forum only or on the site in general?
Site in general
If you want my opinion it’s don’t just rely on the site… Get out to clubs and socials meet people that way
Unfortunately with work and child care I’m lucky get time go to clubs "
Out of curiosity, if you don’t have time for clubs, how would you have time for a meet? You chances of the latter would increase i expect if you put some effort into the former.
Hard fact is you are one of 100s of men on the site per female or couple. So those who put the effort in have a better chance. Above any advice you might get about messages, profile tips etc making real contacts and a few veris at a club will likely pay off better.
Good luck, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all
The first question would be, what are you doing to get noticed?
Don’t have a bad profile I don’t think
Always read other profiles
Polite
Don’t just send dick pics
So no idea really "
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All very good qualities but, unfortunately, what works in the real world doesn't always work here. Women appreciate the features you have highlighted about yourself but it isn't always enough.
I can only recommend that you try and establish a presence here first. Make some friends and go from there. As you've said, you don't have the luxury of much spare time for clubs.
Mostly, as much as what this site is intended for, don't make sex your goal with each chat. It's a bonus. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Get to a social or club and start networking, as the veris come in, slowly this momentum will, to be honest,take a while even months to build up.
Once you've got your face in the mix. Things should pick up.
Get some spikey gloves as they are a really aa brilliant ice breaker and an excuse to say "allow me to give you a test drive...".
Check my pics out.
Cake and smiles are always welcome. |
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Count your blessings and smile more. People have had a tough couple of years, so it's taking time to regain composure. Don't pressure yourself, be your best friend.  . Learn a little bit as you progress, including from other mens' profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums are a great way to get to know people. If you see people you like the look and sound of, shoot them a message. On here, you will always send far more messages than you get replies or meet ups from, but keep on keeping on.
Shame you don't live closer, because after looking at your profile and photos, if you like BBWs, I'd be asking for Sir's permission to meet you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all "
I did a similar thread recently and it was pretty helpful apparently I come across a complete dick head !
So if I can give you any advice avoid my approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all
I did a similar thread recently and it was pretty helpful apparently I come across a complete dick head !
So if I can give you any advice avoid my approach "
What do you mean come across. You ARE a complete dickhead. But I wouldn’t have you any other way. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all
I did a similar thread recently and it was pretty helpful apparently I come across a complete dick head !
So if I can give you any advice avoid my approach
What do you mean come across. You ARE a complete dickhead. But I wouldn’t have you any other way. X"
Are you bringing are drama on to the threads women !!!!
Let’s see how this pans out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really not having luck on here at all
I did a similar thread recently and it was pretty helpful apparently I come across a complete dick head !
So if I can give you any advice avoid my approach
What do you mean come across. You ARE a complete dickhead. But I wouldn’t have you any other way. X
Are you bringing are drama on to the threads women !!!!
Let’s see how this pans out "
No babe just staring the obvious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HOLY FUCKING SHIT
This dude got a veri an hour after starting the thread.....
If this gets out imagine how many more of these a day there will be.
ADMIN HEEEEELLLPPPP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"HOLY FUCKING SHIT
This dude got a veri an hour after starting the thread.....
If this gets out imagine how many more of these a day there will be.
ADMIN HEEEEELLLPPPP"
I remember a guy bought me a 9 inch pizza with chips and a can of pop if I met him by the kebab house where I live and verified him as genuine after so I did! Poor guy was so fucking handsome every woman he was messaging was accusing him of being a model or using fake pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"HOLY FUCKING SHIT
This dude got a veri an hour after starting the thread.....
If this gets out imagine how many more of these a day there will be.
ADMIN HEEEEELLLPPPP
I remember a guy bought me a 9 inch pizza with chips and a can of pop if I met him by the kebab house where I live and verified him as genuine after so I did! Poor guy was so fucking handsome every woman he was messaging was accusing him of being a model or using fake pics. "
You told me you wouldn't mention that we met at a kebab house? |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"HOLY FUCKING SHIT
This dude got a veri an hour after starting the thread.....
If this gets out imagine how many more of these a day there will be.
ADMIN HEEEEELLLPPPP"
Excellent result. As he's no longer being ignored I'll save my advice for those more in need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And people replied to the thread. *missed a trick there 
People are talking to you now op, see, start a conversation and they will come. (They changed this quote for a film in the 90s). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel ignored in the Forum only or on the site in general?"
It’s good to be ignored in the forum , you can say something controversial & get away with it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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OP, try and make your profile the best it can be. And then, instead of messaging lots of women where you think you wouldn't mind having a go, message a couple who genuinely interest in you and you think you're compatible with. You won't feel so much like you're being ignored all the time.
There is a definite
...imbalance? Difference. Difference in the number of men and women so that can make it more complicated to get a response. If it does feel fruitless/isn't bringing you happy, log off and do things that do.
*this might all be a moot point because you've met someone now.  |
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