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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????"
1. Tattoo contest ?
2. Fuckability?
3. Employment ?
4. Content of the tattoos
5. What you are like as a person ?
6. Sticking all tattoo donners in the same box ?
What do you mean ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????"
I have no tattoos but do judge people that have them.
You look like spent half your life in prison  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Judging people on tattoos is a thing of the past , there almost a fashion accessory nowadays . Seen some amazing tats on woman to "
I don't know that it is really a thing of the past
I'm put off by face, hand or neck tattoos, amongst others |
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You know when you see a psycho who has HATE done with his penknife and filled in with quink ink and then a crucifix right in the middle of his forhead and maybe some nobbly hand with long nails dragging someone to the grave..... and maybe a knife dripping blood .....
I don't seek them out to sick next to at the tea n biscuit morning.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
I have no tattoos but do judge people that have them.
You look like spent half your life in prison "
Maybe we have! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know when you see a psycho who has HATE done with his penknife and filled in with quink ink and then a crucifix right in the middle of his forhead and maybe some nobbly hand with long nails dragging someone to the grave..... and maybe a knife dripping blood .....
I don't seek them out to sick next to at the tea n biscuit morning.
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.... because it would look really odd with you both having identical tattoos.....  |
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"You know when you see a psycho who has HATE done with his penknife and filled in with quink ink and then a crucifix right in the middle of his forhead and maybe some nobbly hand with long nails dragging someone to the grave..... and maybe a knife dripping blood .....
I don't seek them out to sick next to at the tea n biscuit morning.
.... because it would look really odd with you both having identical tattoos..... "
Exactly!! And I don't share my biscuits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
I have no tattoos but do judge people that have them.
You look like spent half your life in prison "
Are you using sarcasm here? I can't tell.
Tats ate incredibly sexy IMO. |
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????"
Twice.
Once openly in a store I was told I looked aggressive. Secondly by an ex colleague who formed a bias opinion when I took my jacket off at the pub wearing a t shirt revealing a full sleeve on one arm and ink on other arm. Put my jacket back on and not long after got another job. None of the ink is offensive in any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not now I don't but 35 years ago I got a far few looks and occasionally some would cross the road . I only had 10 tattoos on my arms and a few others . I stood out then not anymore as so many have them now |
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Yes in Waitrose. Woman on the till was super friendly and smiley to the older lady she served before me.
She saw me and looked at my tattoos and her whole demeanour changed, barely spoke, all it did was make me be extra nice and friendly to show her not to judge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love yours op. There's quite a few heavily tattooed guys in my hotlist 
I don't think anyone has judged me for mine. Although I don't have many. I'd be heavily tattooed if I had the money and ideas. Got some in the pipeline for next year. |
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"Yes in Waitrose. Woman on the till was super friendly and smiley to the older lady she served before me.
She saw me and looked at my tattoos and her whole demeanour changed, barely spoke, all it did was make me be extra nice and friendly to show her not to judge! "
Boils my piss that. Ink on women is very fashionable these days. Probably a bit jealous and doesn’t have the bottle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
I have no tattoos but do judge people that have them.
You look like spent half your life in prison
Are you using sarcasm here? I can't tell.
Tats ate incredibly sexy IMO. "
Am being sarcastic and thinking of getting a tear drop underneath my eye and swastika on for head my self
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was my daughters last year in primary school this year and they did a leaving show for her class outside and it was a boiling day. In the morning I put a summer dress on and my daughter said mam can you wear something else I was like what’s wrong with this dress and she was like nothing, you look nice but you’re not like the normal mothers you got boobs and tattoos  |
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"I have a very unusual and unique one visible and when people realise what it is, they grin or squirm.
Nobody has been openly negative about my tattoos.
Now you’re teasing let’s see it  "
Yeah...no. |
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"I have a very unusual and unique one visible and when people realise what it is, they grin or squirm.
Nobody has been openly negative about my tattoos.
Now you’re teasing let’s see it
Yeah...no."
Ok…God loves a trier  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????"
I'm judging you. In a 'yes I fucking would' kind of way! I LOVE them. Tattooed people always go to the top of my list. Shame you're so far away 
Char |
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
I'm judging you. In a 'yes I fucking would' kind of way! I LOVE them. Tattooed people always go to the top of my list. Shame you're so far away
Char"
Why thank you |
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
1. Tattoo contest ?
2. Fuckability?
3. Employment ?
4. Content of the tattoos
5. What you are like as a person ?
6. Sticking all tattoo donners in the same box ?
What do you mean ?"
Had a women on here saying i was a nice guy but was put of by my one or two tattoos |
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Of course you get judged on your tattoos. Just like you get judged on your choice in clothes, hairstyle and pretty much any other outward expression of your personality.
You may be judged positively, or maybe negatively, but how you decorate your body will influence people's first impression of you. And you do the same to other people. It's what we do as a species, it's how we form quick alliances and manage to find people with common and shared interests and passions.
Tattoos are just one element of what you are judged on, not the only thing. |
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
1. Tattoo contest ?
2. Fuckability?
3. Employment ?
4. Content of the tattoos
5. What you are like as a person ?
6. Sticking all tattoo donners in the same box ?
What do you mean ?Had a women on here saying i was a nice guy but was put of by my one or two tattoos"
Then you weren't judged. She just told you she prefers people without tats.
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only have the one, a hummingbird dipping into a petunia flower, on the back of my right shoulder, and it's not on display much, so I would say no.
Those who have seen it tend to say they actually like/love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos. "
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie   |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie "
Oh the heads swelling
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t have any, but actually really like them on men
I don't have any, but actually really like them on women. "
I have loads, but actually really like guys with none! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t have any, but actually really like them on men
I don't have any, but actually really like them on women.
I have loads, but actually really like guys with none! "
Interesting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie
Oh the heads swelling
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Na we go back Annie just says it how it is that im a handsome fucker !
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie
Oh the heads swelling
Na we go back Annie just says it how it is that im a handsome fucker !
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You go back yeah ok
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get judged all the time
But it’s my body and I will ink up any part I want to "
Who does most of the judging? I’d have thought nobody would bat an eyelid these days.
Anyway, they look good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie
Oh the heads swelling
Na we go back Annie just says it how it is that im a handsome fucker !
You go back yeah ok
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on here yeah ?
Can’t see why that comes across interesting tho |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie
Oh the heads swelling
Na we go back Annie just says it how it is that im a handsome fucker !
You go back yeah ok
on here yeah ?
Can’t see why that comes across interesting tho "
Its not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get judged all the time
But it’s my body and I will ink up any part I want to
Who does most of the judging? I’d have thought nobody would bat an eyelid these days.
Anyway, they look good "
I do get some weird looks when I go out had me paranoid for a long time now I just ignore it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
Yeah they think without them I’d look shit
Your face makes you handsome not the tattoos.
Well I’ll definitely take that one Annie
Oh the heads swelling
Na we go back Annie just says it how it is that im a handsome fucker !
You go back yeah ok
on here yeah ?
Can’t see why that comes across interesting tho
Its not "
It’s not yeah ok  |
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"Have you ever been judge because you have tattoos????
1. Tattoo contest ?
2. Fuckability?
3. Employment ?
4. Content of the tattoos
5. What you are like as a person ?
6. Sticking all tattoo donners in the same box ?
What do you mean ?Had a women on here saying i was a nice guy but was put of by my one or two tattoos
Then you weren't judged. She just told you she prefers people without tats.
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This. If someone doesn’t like something it doesn’t mean they’re judging. We all have things we don’t like, is that judging? If it’s something I don’t like I don’t tend to give it as a reason, I just say not for me. I guess if people give reasons some see it as judging. This is why I prefer not to. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I'd say in this day and age a person is less likely to be judged for it than a few years back.
Most everyone now has at least one, if not several. People like me with virgin skin are the new exotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been once to my face by a previous manager who told me that my ink will limit my career progression.
This is the same woman who told me I dressed too flamboyant for the office because I wore a pair of leopard print stilettos to liven up my black pencil skirt and blouse.
I pointed out that my ink and style of dress is within the dress code policy.
The same manager bought me silver sequins stiletto Christmas decorations that year because when she saw them she thought of me and just had to buy them for me 
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get judged on mine both positively and negatively.
I find it's the older generation or just plain snobs that are negative whereas the younger are positive...shows how the opinion of society is changing as tats become more mainstream I guess.
Negative example actually happened last week. I was coming back to my car with a trolley load of shopping and a couple getting out of the car next to me gave me some proper stinkeye. I smiled as I opened the boot to my more expensive vehicle and hear the lady say to the guy "he must be a d#rug dealer" Judged purely on the fact I was in trackies,trainers and t-shirt with my tats out. I just smiled at her,gave her a wink and drove off leaving her looking disgusted
Positive judgement; I was at a park with my kids, a fellow parent commented how much she liked my tats,we struck up a convo based on that and she gave me her number...few days later we had our own play date
We all get judged on all aspects of our appearance and we all also judge others the same way. We do it here, we do it everwhere. I sometimes catch myself doing it and have to give myself a mental slap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get judged on mine both positively and negatively.
I find it's the older generation or just plain snobs that are negative whereas the younger are positive...shows how the opinion of society is changing as tats become more mainstream I guess.
Negative example actually happened last week. I was coming back to my car with a trolley load of shopping and a couple getting out of the car next to me gave me some proper stinkeye. I smiled as I opened the boot to my more expensive vehicle and hear the lady say to the guy "he must be a d#rug dealer" Judged purely on the fact I was in trackies,trainers and t-shirt with my tats out. I just smiled at her,gave her a wink and drove off leaving her looking disgusted
Positive judgement; I was at a park with my kids, a fellow parent commented how much she liked my tats,we struck up a convo based on that and she gave me her number...few days later we had our own play date
We all get judged on all aspects of our appearance and we all also judge others the same way. We do it here, we do it everwhere. I sometimes catch myself doing it and have to give myself a mental slap!"
Love the car story!
I find tattooed people can be the worst tattoo snobs, if they aren't a style that they approve of.  |
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