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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect  "
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned |
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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned"
I have.......rather say something than say nothing and she thinks she's doing it right..... |
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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned I have.......rather say something than say nothing and she thinks she's doing it right....."
I agree! Most guys don’t though
I had a fwb that gave terrible blowjobs, when I tried to direct her a litttle she got offended and said “everyone says I give the best blowjobs!”
Yeah course they do, they wanna fuck you not kill the mood!
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Is a blow job only great if you manage to cum?"
No, but if you can’t cum from it, was it great to start with?
I’ll admit too, it might not even be their fault. If you masturbate a lot and use a death grip even the best blowjob could struggle |
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"Okay random and probably laughable but I’ve never managed to is it just me or are there others"
I've met two guys the same as you and I have managed to get them to cum from a BJ. Needless to say, I meet up with them regularly now. |
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over a year ago
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"Is there any substance in the argument that possibly men are better sucker's?
Best blowjobs I’ve ever had have been from T’s.
Best me to it 
True though"
Women suck at blowjobs |
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"Is there any substance in the argument that possibly men are better sucker's?
Best blowjobs I’ve ever had have been from T’s.
Best me to it
True though
Women suck at blowjobs"
That would be A good start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s been very hard (snigger) for me to climax with oral sex…lots of reasons, to many to discuss here.
*I’ll take it up with my therapist. Anyone for role play?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any substance in the argument that possibly men are better sucker's?
Best blowjobs I’ve ever had have been from T’s.
Best me to it
True though
Women suck at blowjobs
That would be A good start "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If im tied down and can't push her off then always as I find too sensitive and always try to curl up or push her off . Got to say only had one women do it and she was just too good for me to cope with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not surprising at all. There's a whole lot going on in that space and it can be a bit overwhelming. And the assumption that men can always cum regardless is not true..!
There's definitely something to be said for talking with partners about this, because your partner might think it's something that they're doing wrong. And also, its really important as well to get your partner to understand that a blowjob can feel absolutely incredible and still you don't come and that's ok.
Relax, enjoy the sensations, stay close, communicate. Find the way that works for you, try seated rather than lying or standing. If you want to try something else say so without feeling judged or feeling you're letting your partner down.
And remember it's about both of you having lots and lots of hot, sweaty fun
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(speaking from experience BTW...) |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Is a blow job only great if you manage to cum?
No, but if you can’t cum from it, was it great to start with?
I’ll admit too, it might not even be their fault. If you masturbate a lot and use a death grip even the best blowjob could struggle "
I think kissing is great
I've never cum from kissing alone
It doesn't make it any less great though |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
On way x
Don’t you’ll embarrass me when I only last 6 seconds
We can do other things
No???
Hold hands "
Definitely go out to eat x |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Is a blow job only great if you manage to cum?
No, but if you can’t cum from it, was it great to start with?
I’ll admit too, it might not even be their fault. If you masturbate a lot and use a death grip even the best blowjob could struggle
I think kissing is great
I've never cum from kissing alone
It doesn't make it any less great though "
Probably because you aren’t having your penis stimulated
If your penis is being stimulated id like to think you’d eventually cum if it’s good enough |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Is a blow job only great if you manage to cum?
No, but if you can’t cum from it, was it great to start with?
I’ll admit too, it might not even be their fault. If you masturbate a lot and use a death grip even the best blowjob could struggle
I think kissing is great
I've never cum from kissing alone
It doesn't make it any less great though
Probably because you aren’t having your penis stimulated
If your penis is being stimulated id like to think you’d eventually cum if it’s good enough "
Your brain does have a bit to do with it.... |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Is a blow job only great if you manage to cum?
No, but if you can’t cum from it, was it great to start with?
I’ll admit too, it might not even be their fault. If you masturbate a lot and use a death grip even the best blowjob could struggle
I think kissing is great
I've never cum from kissing alone
It doesn't make it any less great though
Probably because you aren’t having your penis stimulated
If your penis is being stimulated id like to think you’d eventually cum if it’s good enough
Your brain does have a bit to do with it...."
The better the blowjob the less my brain is on |
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Never could until I met my now wife and told her. She spent long time learning what really works for me. It's hard work and takes long time and I don't always cum from blow job. But when she really goes for it, it's amazing feeling |
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over a year ago
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About 40% of the time I don't cum at all.
Thats due to nerve damage from a vasectomy 17 years ago when i was 30.
I have no problems with maintaining an erection so obviously when this happens the lady loves it as i just go on and on untill my stamina runs out ??????. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
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Haha I was just about to say the same. Way to get a woman to go all out on you. |
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
Haha I was just about to say the same. Way to get a woman to go all out on you."
To be fair. If I were single and had a good body. I’d try that old chestnut too. |
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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned"
I guess it depends on how it’s given? I’d much rather my partner actually talk to me and tell me how it’s feeling - as always, good communication works for the benefit of everyone…. |
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
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Is that like "I bet you £5 I can get your breasts to move without touching them"...? |
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
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Yeah I always used to bite when given that line, not literally but like roll the sleeves up and stick kenny logins on the stereo. |
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
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Risky though, it could attract the over zealous who only want to make him cum in order to get the'title' |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there any substance in the argument that possibly men are better sucker's?
Best blowjobs I’ve ever had have been from T’s.
Best me to it
True though"
What makes them better?
I’ve never had complaints, had partners request just for one but not all guys cum from them so how does that make it different between me and & TS?
Always good to be educated |
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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned"
I would love if a guy actually vocalises what they want! I love giving a blow job but if he’s bored and giving me no interaction then he can expect I won’t bother to try again, I’m always told men want women who say what they want but then guys don’t ever guide us at all  |
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"Is there any substance in the argument that possibly men are better sucker's?
Best blowjobs I’ve ever had have been from T’s.
Best me to it
True though
What makes them better?
I’ve never had complaints, had partners request just for one but not all guys cum from them so how does that make it different between me and & TS?
Always good to be educated "
I've giving them and made guys cum. And some haven't.
I've received from men and women and I can't say there is much of a difference. Obviously some better than others but that's down to technique and what the receiver gets off on.
Horse's for course's.. |
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"This always strikes me as just a way of getting a blowie. Very clever though.
Am I the only one who thinks this?
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Nah. In fairness I get a bit paranoid over not being able to cum so I don’t encourage it |
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"I'm sure you guys wasn't experts when going down on a women??? If you ain't cum from a blowie...give her a little direction.......not everyone's perfect
Don’t think you’ve ever tried to give a woman that kinda advice?
Their ego is fragile and as the saying goes, hell know no fury like a womam scorned"
What...Maybe it's the way you ask!
I for one like a bit of encouragement and direction if I'm not doing something that they would like. |
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No guy is going to tap a woman on the shoulder in mid session and say " excuse me, would you mind focusing on the shaft more". Most women would tell you to piss off.
Even if you ask politely you are still inadvertently saying to her that what she is doing is not great. |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Really, maybe you need to meet some real women "
Just because you may not be the best at bj's doesn't mean your not a real woman.
The gus that have given me shit oral, are I believe still real men.
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"No guy is going to tap a woman on the shoulder in mid session and say " excuse me, would you mind focusing on the shaft more". Most women would tell you to piss off.
Even if you ask politely you are still inadvertently saying to her that what she is doing is not great."
Really!maybe it's the way you ask. |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Are you suggesting guys are better?
In my experience yea "
You're 'fab straight'? |
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I'm circumcised and although I can stay hard for prolonged periods of time to pleasure a woman, circumcision is a double edged sword. It takes a particularly special woman who knows what she is doing to blow a circumcised guy's mind to make him cum to completion! So I can the women on one hand who have made it happen for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The men I have made come from BJs are usually the ones that have given me a little direction and told me what they like/don't like. I didn't take it as criticism, just that different guys like different things |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Are you suggesting guys are better?
In my experience yea
You're 'fab straight'?
I’ve experimented "
Loads of guys on here do. Experimenting doesn't define u. Bravo for for being so open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've actually never been a guy that hasn't cum from a blowjob! I've met a few guys that told me they struggle to and its taken a while, I just think they talk shite to test us haha |
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"I have but I will say most women are not great at blowjobs so it’s not surprise
Are you suggesting guys are better?
In my experience yea
You're 'fab straight'?
I’ve experimented
Loads of guys on here do. Experimenting doesn't define u. Bravo for for being so open."
Me too. The term “fab straight” is a bit pathetic, desperately trying to pigeonhole and label people. Get naked, have fun, forget labels |
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One very unusual blowjob I had once ... girl just spent ages licking my dick. Just gently flicking the side of the helmet, just on the ridge. Felt ok but just built and built and built, and the climax was absolutely sensational ... all from flicking one spot |
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"One very unusual blowjob I had once ... girl just spent ages licking my dick. Just gently flicking the side of the helmet, just on the ridge. Felt ok but just built and built and built, and the climax was absolutely sensational ... all from flicking one spot "
Jesus, could you be more specific?
Not enough detail in that |
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I've had the pleasure of having received BJs from a few wives whose husbands couldn't cum that way...
....one in her late 50's had never had a guy cum in her mouth until I did so, right in front of her hubby - who sat excitedly wanking himself and calling me a "lucky bastard" as his wife greedily sucked me dry!  |
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