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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From personal experience being woken up to my cock being sucked is amazing  but going down on a woman in the morning sleeping beside her girlfriend,wife one night stand is it different or the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know licking pussy is absolutely great and I would do it for my pleasure just as much as for her pleasure  but I would be wary to do it just incase she doesn't want it 
If you understand what I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got woken up a few nights ago by the wife feverishly wanking me off. Once she realised I was awake started telling me some very salacious details that had me soon cumming. |
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"Ladies what is your opinion  "
I actually prefer the guy let's me wake up on my own accord before playing i feel it's disrespectful and selfish he's putting his horny wake up on me before I've even had chance to wake up fully but that's just me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies what is your opinion
I actually prefer the guy let's me wake up on my own accord before playing i feel it's disrespectful and selfish he's putting his horny wake up on me before I've even had chance to wake up fully but that's just me x "
Thank you  I know men love being woken up to a blowjob but I felt if I did it to a woman it would feel wrong  |
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"Ladies what is your opinion
I actually prefer the guy let's me wake up on my own accord before playing i feel it's disrespectful and selfish he's putting his horny wake up on me before I've even had chance to wake up fully but that's just me x
Thank you I know men love being woken up to a blowjob but I felt if I did it to a woman it would feel wrong "
I actually think maybe just maybe there is some men who actually think the same lol I would never play with a guy while he's asleep some men may not love being woke up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs Cheeky loves it and often encourages me to do so.
By that, I mean she'll mention I've not done it for a while, in that slightly disappointed tone.
I really should do it more often, it brings out the best mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my first experience of being woken by my ex and got to say at first didn't like it as I woke up cumming in her mouth . My first thoughts were shit ive had a wet dream at 53 years old and how am I going to explain to her ive ruined her clean sheets . Took me back yo being a teenage boy again . Once I got over the shock it was fine and turned into a regular thing |
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I had a ex who absolutely loved waking up to me playing with her. She would drop hints and all sorts. Sometimes after she would get up with out even talking to me and go off about her business but then all day she would tease me telling me how horny it had made her and what a good mood it had put her in and saying that she bet she had left me horny and eager to see her.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been discussed a few times recently, and the upshot was, if you have full and clear consent (either way, man to woman, or vice versa), then go for it! |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
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Twice this week, both me and Mrs have woken up having sex, neither of have any idea who started it but it's been very hot and naughty.
Guess it's better than sleep walking
One of us must have been dreaming about something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Done it with a few fwbs along the way and we all enjoyed it! best when it wasn't expected ie you hadn't just talked about it the night before and half knew it was coming
And obviously as long as their was a chat along of the lines of you can do that whenever you want then it's all good |
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"Consent issues are a minefield here and need a chat at the outset .
Perhaps you could leave a post-it note before you go to sleep?"
 . Could you fit “if you feel the need to wake me up with oral I promise I won’t have you arrested” on a post it note? Or do you mean “suck/lick here” stuck to your bits? |
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Most of us have probably indulged in this pleasure, and I'm delighted to deliver, but my biggest problem is that when I wake up I'm usually bursting for pee, so the desired effect that the lady might have in mind for me could be easily lost as I need to go and relieve myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads go either way. You may get a bunch of people telling you how much they love it or you may get another bunch calling you a r@pist.
The latter response us slightly more likely if the OP is male but it's not a given
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Consent issues are a minefield here and need a chat at the outset .
Perhaps you could leave a post-it note before you go to sleep?
. Could you fit “if you feel the need to wake me up with oral I promise I won’t have you arrested” on a post it note? Or do you mean “suck/lick here” stuck to your bits? "
Either, depending on your choice, but at least if you change your mind overnight the licker has a defence, ie 'well your note says..'...Or maybe colour coded..Red Note-No Way, Amber Note-Be Prepared to stop, Green note-Go For It.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?"
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that |
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that"
Wtf. That’s not normal |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that"
That seems a bit extreme and little controlling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that
Wtf. That’s not normal "
I don't think so either, but it's the view held by quite a few in her circle of female friends too....good luck with those relationships.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that"
But that’s from one extreme to the other, and neither would be ok for me.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer giving a fella a BJ rather than receiving morning oral on myself. BUT I do love it when the fella gets the horn and he starts playing with my boobs/nipples, massaging my bum or rubbing his cock against me. We’re definitely shagging if that happens, regardless of the time!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it In bed by myself right now though and I can't reach to suck myself off so I'll have to stick to listening to the birds in the trees and drinking tea |
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"I prefer giving a fella a BJ rather than receiving morning oral on myself. BUT I do love it when the fella gets the horn and he starts playing with my boobs/nipples, massaging my bum or rubbing his cock against me. We’re definitely shagging if that happens, regardless of the time!
Same!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me, I struggle to function in a morning, at least until I’ve been conscious for an hour or so. I love the idea of really lazy/sleepy sex but I’m a bit too grumpy until I’ve woken up fully. |
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"I understand…
But I still go ahead…
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??
Really? Please be joking?
There are no jokes anymore. I know a young couple, early 30's who are getting married next year. She won't allow any physical contact whatsoever without consent, and I mean like a hug or peck on the cheek when he comes in. Can't hold hands without asking first, no way he can just playfully smack her on the bum in passing. I couldn't live like that
But that’s from one extreme to the other, and neither would be ok for me.
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maybe its a D/s relationship and he enjoys that she must give him permission - failing that I hope she enjoys being constantly dumped as I can see a lot of that in her future and her circle of friends.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nooooooooooooo, not for me at ALL!
As mentioned in a previous thread. I was once awoken this way and thought I was pissing the bed. In a panick,I jumped to get out of bed and to the toilet asap and in doing so speared my dick deep within the girls throat. Now she's flailing around spluttering and gasping, I'm shocked,confused and panicking...am I pissing still? What's wrong with her? She then spewed over the bed,over me. I'm both disgusted and concerned, asking if she's ok and WTAF is going on. She's recovered and starts screaming at me asking why the fuck I did that and she thought she was gunna die then proceeds to try and batter holy hell outta me! I'm now trying to run away from her fury,naked,splattered in puke and while still trying to figure out if I pissed the bed!
NEVER AGAIN |
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"Never been licked or arosed by a blowy, I have been woken up by an aggressive wank though! Think I took awhile to wake up and she was getting pissed off... Still, I kind of liked it. "
This kinda cracked me up, had visions of her getting more and more pissed off hissing 'wake the fuck up' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I trust someone enough to fall asleep with them then yes, they could wake me up like this anytime "
I had this happen to a friend of mine with her boyfriend. He basically said "you don't say no to sex, so why should it matter if you're asleep?". Because she didn't have a chance to decide if she wanted her body to be used like that, that's why. Second time he did it, she kicked him out. |
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"Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time."
But that defeats the object though surely! The thread was being woken up that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time.
But that defeats the object though surely! The thread was being woken up that way. "
I realise that. I was just making a point that you shouldn't do that or have it done to you, no matter how nice it seems in your thoughts. |
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"Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time.
But that defeats the object though surely! The thread was being woken up that way.
I realise that. I was just making a point that you shouldn't do that or have it done to you, no matter how nice it seems in your thoughts."
I don’t agree, if you’ve discussed it beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies what is your opinion
I actually prefer the guy let's me wake up on my own accord before playing i feel it's disrespectful and selfish he's putting his horny wake up on me before I've even had chance to wake up fully but that's just me x
Thank you I know men love being woken up to a blowjob but I felt if I did it to a woman it would feel wrong "
I love sucking M awake, I'd love him to waken me by licking my pussy more often. It is a personal preference, but I think if you're in a relationship/regular fwb and you make it known that you like it then all is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time.
But that defeats the object though surely! The thread was being woken up that way.
I realise that. I was just making a point that you shouldn't do that or have it done to you, no matter how nice it seems in your thoughts.
I don’t agree, if you’ve discussed it beforehand. "
Agree, if it was with a random and I hadn't said anything, then I possibly wouldn't like it. At the end of the day, if you waken up to someone doing it and you don't want to or aren't in the mood, then you say no and that should be end of |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always wait until they've woken up enough to decide whether they want you to. If not; even if you've discussed it the night before, it's non-consented at the time.
But that defeats the object though surely! The thread was being woken up that way.
I realise that. I was just making a point that you shouldn't do that or have it done to you, no matter how nice it seems in your thoughts.
I don’t agree, if you’ve discussed it beforehand.
Agree, if it was with a random and I hadn't said anything, then I possibly wouldn't like it. At the end of the day, if you waken up to someone doing it and you don't want to or aren't in the mood, then you say no and that should be end of"
It's a dodgy fine line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I trust someone enough to fall asleep with them then yes, they could wake me up like this anytime
I had this happen to a friend of mine with her boyfriend. He basically said "you don't say no to sex, so why should it matter if you're asleep?". Because she didn't have a chance to decide if she wanted her body to be used like that, that's why. Second time he did it, she kicked him out."
Good for her! What a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I trust someone enough to fall asleep with them then yes, they could wake me up like this anytime
I had this happen to a friend of mine with her boyfriend. He basically said "you don't say no to sex, so why should it matter if you're asleep?". Because she didn't have a chance to decide if she wanted her body to be used like that, that's why. Second time he did it, she kicked him out.
Good for her! What a dick. "
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