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Too close for comfort.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How close to home would you consider a meet. Was contacted by a couple who live in the same village as me who want to meet, but I have to be discrete. Worried if I meet them and they don't keep the meet a secret, my friends and family could find out. How close to home do people feel is too close and how can you place your ultimate trust in people you haven't met yet?

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By *inkylipsWoman over a year ago

Debauchery

I won’t meet anyone in the same town as me. That old saying “don’t shot on your own doorstep” springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she's in the same postcode, she's too close for you bro.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple over a year ago

Essex

Go for it… your always wonder what if

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Agreed. I was tempted but too risky

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

We wouldn't meet anyone in our nearest town/villages. We value our privacy too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet anyone in our nearest town/villages. We value our privacy too much."

My thoughts exactly.

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By *razzyhorseMan over a year ago

cambridge

Each to their own but if you feel uncomfortable by it then you know where you stand.

Sometimes you have to listen to your head not your heart.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I’ve seen locals with no bother at all.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So far.... 210 miles is the closest....

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Are you married op?. If so I'd definitely not meet anyone too close, it could get messy.

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By *imbobaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

No no no no. If you value your privacy (as you say you do) it’s not worth the risk. I’ve had a few backfires and didn’t see them coming. as likely nor will you.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd just see it as being handy but that's me and my friends and family know me so I don't worry about what they already know as I'm open about it

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By *vbiker2TV/TS over a year ago

morpeth

Go for it what they going to say without revealing there doing same thing you are. It might be best meet you ever have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd quite happily meet someone who lived in the same block of flats as I do..

I don't have any issues at all but if someone asked me to be discreet.. I can be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You like swingers clubs - you could easily bump your next door neighbour / or a family member even in there. Even if it’s not near to your village. Speaking from experience here

Your couple might be thinking the same thing about you but are hopeful you’ll be decent and respect their privacy too - maybe they don’t want to travel too far away and would sooner find trustworthy local friends x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m meeting someone tomorrow who lives in the same area. I don’t see a problem.

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By *eservesherCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Local's actually better for us, we don't have lots of free time so travelling miles would be too time consuming. As long as everyone's discreet if you bump into each other in Sainsbury's then it's not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You like swingers clubs - you could easily bump your next door neighbour / or a family member even in there. Even if it’s not near to your village. Speaking from experience here

*bump into

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"If she's in the same postcode, she's too close for you bro."

BT is the postcode for NI

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Local's actually better for us, we don't have lots of free time so travelling miles would be too time consuming. As long as everyone's discreet if you bump into each other in Sainsbury's then it's not a problem."

No good for me.. Tesco round the corner and a smoker lol

Otherwise I'd say meet at the cafe

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Irrelevant of distance really. I went on holiday with a friend in September, I bumped into my ex husband the following week, he asked if I had been in a particular town last week. Yep, we had holidayed in the same town in the same week. You can bump into anyone anywhere.

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