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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does the amount a person earns and their financial stability matter to the women of Fab or is this area just a preference to some like many other preferences 
For me it’s more to do with the woman’s personality and outlook on life above finance  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.  "
That’s what I’m all about but it popped into my head as there’s a few fabbers, not forumites, who have the idea of a sugar daddy and it got me thinking which hurt a lot  |
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"Does the amount a person earns and their financial stability matter to the women of Fab or is this area just a preference to some like many other preferences
For me it’s more to do with the woman’s personality and outlook on life above finance "
Of course not. I would never dream of judging someone because of their financial situation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would this even come into the equation "
It doesn’t for me, I was raised in humble dwellings so I’m very much not money oriented  just a wonder of mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask. "
If the world was full of people like you it would be far more pleasant.
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If I’m dating I don’t care what you earn so long as you can fund yourself, I’m only looking for someone’s time but I won’t be the only person travelling or paying for dinner all the time. I’m happy enough at home cooking rather than anyone struggling to keep up. And yes a few dates have turned out that they thought I was financially going to take care of them… |
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.
That’s what I’m all about but it popped into my head as there’s a few fabbers, not forumites, who have the idea of a sugar daddy and it got me thinking which hurt a lot "
Don’t stretch yourself . There are many folk that like nice hotels and weekends away etc.. that’s simply not within my means so I avoid anyone that refers to anything that will cost. I want to know someone on a different level than that so they’ll see me in my stretchy pants glory like it or not..  |
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I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole. |
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.
If the world was full of people like you it would be far more pleasant.
Mr"
It would be far too dark and sarcastic. Not wise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I’m dating I don’t care what you earn so long as you can fund yourself, I’m only looking for someone’s time but I won’t be the only person travelling or paying for dinner all the time. I’m happy enough at home cooking rather than anyone struggling to keep up. And yes a few dates have turned out that they thought I was financially going to take care of them… "
Ahhhh ok makes sense but added to my mindset now is this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.
That’s what I’m all about but it popped into my head as there’s a few fabbers, not forumites, who have the idea of a sugar daddy and it got me thinking which hurt a lot
Don’t stretch yourself . There are many folk that like nice hotels and weekends away etc.. that’s simply not within my means so I avoid anyone that refers to anything that will cost. I want to know someone on a different level than that so they’ll see me in my stretchy pants glory like it or not.. "
Mmmmmm delightful thoughts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole. "
How many women did that?
I think I'd be the one hiding in the corner of the restaurant with my head in my hands at all the people flocking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole. "
Glad to hear your not an arsehole anymore but I get the flocking bit as a friend of mine was very flash with the cash and he attracted a lot of ladies however it was in his debt sadly  |
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.
That’s what I’m all about but it popped into my head as there’s a few fabbers, not forumites, who have the idea of a sugar daddy and it got me thinking which hurt a lot
Don’t stretch yourself . There are many folk that like nice hotels and weekends away etc.. that’s simply not within my means so I avoid anyone that refers to anything that will cost. I want to know someone on a different level than that so they’ll see me in my stretchy pants glory like it or not..
Mmmmmm delightful thoughts "
It isn’t pretty but Fuck it. It’s me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jesus no. I work for a charity. I’m broke. I don’t give a crap what anyone else’s does or earns. Just be a decent human is all I ask.
That’s what I’m all about but it popped into my head as there’s a few fabbers, not forumites, who have the idea of a sugar daddy and it got me thinking which hurt a lot
Don’t stretch yourself . There are many folk that like nice hotels and weekends away etc.. that’s simply not within my means so I avoid anyone that refers to anything that will cost. I want to know someone on a different level than that so they’ll see me in my stretchy pants glory like it or not..
Mmmmmm delightful thoughts
It isn’t pretty but Fuck it. It’s me."
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"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole.
How many women did that?
I think I'd be the one hiding in the corner of the restaurant with my head in my hands at all the people flocking."
In Costa Del Sol lost count, Portugal was a bit better but was there years in the summer it was great, fresh meat every week. Bulgaria was interesting because the women there were completely forthcoming and said I like your money you make good family man.
Mixture of sunshine, lots of money, champagne, cocaine. Makes people different as I said I was a complete and utter selfish arsehole back then. Thankfully grown up a lot. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole.
How many women did that?
I think I'd be the one hiding in the corner of the restaurant with my head in my hands at all the people flocking."
I often wondered if I won the lotto what type of person I'd be. My dad was typically vulgar with his wealth despite being poor earlier in life. Me, right now would hate it if I became materialistic but money does change some people so who knows. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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As long as they aren't still living with their parents.. (just because it could get super awkward)
I'm not about the money. You should want to be with someone for their time and company. Sex (for me) is an emotional and physical relationship, not a monetary transaction. |
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"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole.
Glad to hear your not an arsehole anymore but I get the flocking bit as a friend of mine was very flash with the cash and he attracted a lot of ladies however it was in his debt sadly "
Sadly yes and Instagram and such like don't help, they want the champagne with sparklers and the look at me experience, but are borrowing to get it.
I didn't borrow but looking back it is revolting how much I spent. |
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"I'm not loaded anymore but I did quite well when younger selling property overseas. Lived in a whole bunch of countries and had a great time.
If I made less than £30k a month it was a bad month. Now I'm by no means ugly but not the best looking guy in the world, rock up outside a bar in a lambo order a bottle of Krug and see how many women flock to you.
Glad I'm not that person anymore as looking back at it, I was an arsehole.
How many women did that?
I think I'd be the one hiding in the corner of the restaurant with my head in my hands at all the people flocking."
Same. I can stand ostentatiousness. We couldn't care less what people earn. We're meeting the person, not their bank manager. |
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I often wondered if I won the lotto what type of person I'd be. My dad was typically vulgar with his wealth despite being poor earlier in life. Me, right now would hate it if I became materialistic but money does change some people so who knows. "
It does change you and I would challenge anyone to say it doesn't, particularly if it comes all of a sudden and is a huge change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would not make one iota bit of difference in my selection process. Cleanliness, assertive / good attitude, ability to perform and satisfy would set precedence.
Only gold diggers would put bulge in wallet before fun...!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would not make one iota bit of difference in my selection process. Cleanliness, assertive / good attitude, ability to perform and satisfy would set precedence.
Only gold diggers would put bulge in wallet before fun...!
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There are many diggers out here but I just don’t get my head around it tbf, like many have suggested and eluded too it’s all about the person not the funds
Unless the person is blatantly after a money tree |
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"Does the amount a person earns and their financial stability matter to the women of Fab or is this area just a preference to some like many other preferences
For me it’s more to do with the woman’s personality and outlook on life above finance "
Are we supposed to pay them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does the amount a person earns and their financial stability matter to the women of Fab or is this area just a preference to some like many other preferences
For me it’s more to do with the woman’s personality and outlook on life above finance
Are we supposed to pay them? "
Pay for who? |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I dislike not paying my way, so when someone is well off it can be a little frustrating finding the right balance.
I like going on random coffee dates and get baffled at guys automatically trying to pay. Surely times have moved on now. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, it doesn't matter to me.
I'm aware I'm in a quite privileged position but it's not what I expect nor need from others. I do like nice hotels but I don't ever want others to finance that side of things for me. Echoing Saff, being a decent person is what I want. And chemistry and compatibility by the bucketload.
I did go through a phase of City boys in my younger years but my vagina quickly grew out of that thank fuck. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I like to meet people who are down to earth people who I can have a laugh with. How much they earn is their own business and nothing to do with me or my decision to meet them.
The only time it has ever come into play is when someone thinks constantly going on about money and how much they have or high powered they think their job is and showing off in a way to put others down ,that to me is a complete turn off and reeks of snobbery which is a trait I despise in anyone. And it's a sure fire way to make me not want to interact or meet the person . |
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over a year ago
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"I dislike not paying my way, so when someone is well off it can be a little frustrating finding the right balance.
I like going on random coffee dates and get baffled at guys automatically trying to pay. Surely times have moved on now. "
I do like to offer to pay though personally, not because of wealth but if someone has accepted an invitation from me to coffee or to dine I think it’s a nice gesture |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like to meet people who are down to earth people who I can have a laugh with. How much they earn is their own business and nothing to do with me or my decision to meet them.
The only time it has ever come into play is when someone thinks constantly going on about money and how much they have or high powered they think their job is and showing off in a way to put others down ,that to me is a complete turn off and reeks of snobbery which is a trait I despise in anyone. And it's a sure fire way to make me not want to interact or meet the person ."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In here it shouldn’t impact as long as people pay their share really should it? But as you note OP some people want sugar daddy’s "
They do and that’s their desire but I can’t fathom it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it dosent that’s what makes fab grate you can meet people from all walks off life that you wouldn’t normally form the poor to the rich form the loner to popular person from a unknown person to a celebrity |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I dislike not paying my way, so when someone is well off it can be a little frustrating finding the right balance.
I like going on random coffee dates and get baffled at guys automatically trying to pay. Surely times have moved on now.
I do like to offer to pay though personally, not because of wealth but if someone has accepted an invitation from me to coffee or to dine I think it’s a nice gesture "
I'm usually the one setting the pace and doing the inviting though... |
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How much someone makes is non of my business and doesn't interest me.
I get by and pay my own way. If I can't I don't play.
Swings and roundabouts with real friends though. Sometimes it could be on me other times on them.
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"I dislike not paying my way, so when someone is well off it can be a little frustrating finding the right balance.
I like going on random coffee dates and get baffled at guys automatically trying to pay. Surely times have moved on now.
I do like to offer to pay though personally, not because of wealth but if someone has accepted an invitation from me to coffee or to dine I think it’s a nice gesture
I'm usually the one setting the pace and doing the inviting though... "
Dutch it would be in that case |
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me either in so far as, as long as someone can occasionally get a round in or go halves so I don't feel like a mug then all is well.
I know what it's like to be comfortable and also know what it's like to be skint, it's all about the person. |
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To be honest I think it depends on what people are looking for. One-off encounters and it shouldn't matter. Something more involved and it might come into play...I think for an FWB situation you need to have roughly the same disposable income level to be able to mutually enjoy doing things together, without one person feeling that they either need to spend more than they can afford, or changing the places they visit/things they like to do to suit a lower budget. |
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"Would not make one iota bit of difference in my selection process. Cleanliness, assertive / good attitude, ability to perform and satisfy would set precedence.
Only gold diggers would put bulge in wallet before fun...!
There are many diggers out here but I just don’t get my head around it tbf, like many have suggested and eluded too it’s all about the person not the funds
Unless the person is blatantly after a money tree "
Money is a very powerful persuader, only the brave would not be altered by its enticement. Unfortunately, greed is what governs the minds of some peeps. To these peeps owning a Patek Philippe watch is more important than feeding a hungry person. Why would anyone want to be with a person of this nature, no matter how beautiful in appearance they maybe on the outside, their heart and soul would be corrupt... |
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