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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it that when a man cannot accommodate women seam to think you are married. But the majority of women on her dont seam to be able to accommodate either. So am I right to jump to conclusions that they must be married?
Yes I know us men will preety much do and say anything to get our dicks wet, but maybe just some of us have a valid reason for not accommodating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are many reasons for why people can't, or don't feel comfortable accommodating.
Perhaps their Mother lives next door and they don't want her to see a string of visitors traipsing up the drive.
Perhaps they have kids at home.
Perhaps they have a particularly volatile chihuahua they don't want to subject you to.
Perhaps they just don't like the idea of inviting a virtual stranger into their home.
There could be a myriad of reasons and one should not assume they are hiding something. Here's a thought - just ask them? |
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Good question, I think because there is some men and it is some that will say or do anything to get their dicks wet, generally all men get tarred with the same brush, and in fairness men are far more likely to cheat than women.
Personally at the moment I can't but I put an explanation on my profile and have had ladies I've been speaking to comment on it and say it's nice I'm close to my parents. Roll on January though when my house is built and finished!!!! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It does seem to be a fab double standard.
I don't accom as it's mine and my partners home (he's here too).
Not accommodating alone doesn't mean someone is a cheat, they may have kids, flat share or not want strangers in their home.
There are usually other red flags if someone's sneaking around on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swings and roundabouts, no matter how genuine your reason for not accommodating, one of you has to, unless you’re into bushes hotels or cars. "
In which case this is easy to add to your bio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh every guy who I’ve met who said he couldn’t accommodate has ended up being in a relationship. Now lots put they can even when they can’t…..
And yeah I guess double standards but a lot of woman don’t accommodate because of children at home |
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Yes I know us men will preety much do and say anything to get our dicks wet, but maybe just some of us have a valid reason for not accommodating "
They might but if you want to avoid meeting married men rejecting those that can't accommodate gets rid of a very high proportion of them. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I pay no heed to the assumptions people make about many different aspects of fab. Whats the old line to assume makes an ass of u and me.
I can accommodate, that fact alone doesn't mean to say I will, its still my choice whether I do or do not. |
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Loads of reasons a man can’t accommodate. Doesn’t mean he’s married. Loads have their kids there sometimes. I wouldn’t have anyone coming to my kids home either. No chance.
Those assumptions piss me off. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It's typical fab double standards men are expected to explain why they can't and women are seen as being cautious when they can't.
I don't assume that someone is married when I see it I just think they are like me and wouldn't want to bring strangers to home straight away. I can accommodate I choose not to until I know someone well and have met them a few times .There is no way o would give a stranger my address on here. I also would not go to a guys house on a first meet I made that mistake once when we were meant to have coffee at his and never will again . |
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I don't accommodate because I float between my mums house and my caravan where I work, neither of these places would be appropriate for me to invite people to.
I'm not in a relationship, I've never cheated and never will and when I have been in one I have always hidden my profile. |
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"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!"
Hotels? Clubs?
We don't accommodate because we have young children at home and our young adult son will be moving back soon. |
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"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!"
I wonder that as well? Genuinely confuses me. Though met a girl on tinder few weeks back couldn't accommodate lived with her sisters and didn't drive, asked me to arrange an Uber for her! |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"Tbh every guy who I’ve met who said he couldn’t accommodate has ended up being in a relationship. Now lots put they can even when they can’t…..
And yeah I guess double standards but a lot of woman don’t accommodate because of children at home "
it's not just women who have children |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!
Hotels? Clubs?
We don't accommodate because we have young children at home and our young adult son will be moving back soon. "
To me, going to a hotel is travelling. Just me? |
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"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!
Hotels? Clubs?
We don't accommodate because we have young children at home and our young adult son will be moving back soon.
To me, going to a hotel is travelling. Just me?"
I agree but they might feel that a hotel in their home town doesn't constitute travel? Dunno.
Anyway, we don't accommodate either  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!"
Some people take 'can travel' to mean you will go hundreds of miles for a meet and you end up with messages from people from all over the place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the can’t accommodate or travel people that amuse me. So where are you meeting, exactly?!
Some people take 'can travel' to mean you will go hundreds of miles for a meet and you end up with messages from people from all over the place. "
Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads of reasons a man can’t accommodate. Doesn’t mean he’s married. Loads have their kids there sometimes. I wouldn’t have anyone coming to my kids home either. No chance.
Those assumptions piss me off. "
Why thank you. I've had to explain this exact point on my profile. I can accommodate, but not until I know and trust someone as this is my family home half the week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that when a man cannot accommodate women seam to think you are married. But the majority of women on her dont seam to be able to accommodate either. So am I right to jump to conclusions that they must be married?
Yes I know us men will preety much do and say anything to get our dicks wet, but maybe just some of us have a valid reason for not accommodating "
Get are dicks wet ???wtf
See I like this sense of honesty cause you seem like one of the lads that in two days time will be asking for profile advice cause you get no attention!!??
And wonder why
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh every guy who I’ve met who said he couldn’t accommodate has ended up being in a relationship. Now lots put they can even when they can’t…..
And yeah I guess double standards but a lot of woman don’t accommodate because of children at home "
This!
I’m a single mum with a nasty little ankle biting dog…  so I don’t accommodate. But I do sometimes think it’s suspish when a guy (who doesn’t have kids) doesn’t accommodate (I know, I know double standards) and mostly it turns out they are married/in a relationship. Not tarring everyone with the same brush but so far that’s what I came across so far! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe women are more cautious for many reasons and guys are so happy to have a person wanting to hook up are more open… who knows I’m just chucking it out there  "
Ah sure we’r all just spit balling opinions |
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