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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
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Is anyone in here in a actual Fuckbuddy/friends with benefits situation? With a couple?
It seems most couples are looking for one offs and i get why etc
But as a single guy who isnt interested in loads of one offs etc.
Id like to meet a couple who i become friends with and meet semi regular etc.
Is that to much of a target? Lol |
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We can see the benefits, sometimes it's nice to know what you're getting, to look forward to seeing someone in as much as a friendship as a play scenario that you both get on with.
That said it's not something that works overly well with us as by the time we factor in work, kids and families we don't manage regular. |
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
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"We can see the benefits, sometimes it's nice to know what you're getting, to look forward to seeing someone in as much as a friendship as a play scenario that you both get on with.
That said it's not something that works overly well with us as by the time we factor in work, kids and families we don't manage regular."
Yer there the kind of benefits I think im looking for, but a friend would understand life happens to lol |
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
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"We are looking for local singles for regular play sessions…the more we play the more trust gained, the more we can do.
K"
Yer i think a good level of trust allows things to move to things you might not do with a one off. Even its simple things like conversation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used this site to find a mature man friend (with benefits), for my wife. She was more comfortable feeling she had an exclusive arrangement with one bloke. She wasn't comfortable with one off random encounters.
There was a small social element to it as well. Texts, occasional meets for coffee or a walk etc. The main purpose of the arrangement was that my wife got the intimacy and sexual satisfaction she was missing.
In addition there was the cuckold element that was actually more arousing psychologically for me and her man friend.
After approximately four years he lost interest, all good things come to an end.
The disadvantage of our arrangement, was my wife had formed an emotional attachment, which was difficult for her to move on from, when it ended.
It was a learning curve, finding mature, unattached guys, who want an exclusive arrangement with a married woman, is much harder than we anticipated.
A more flexible approach, rather than exclusive, is probably why swingers find the process less complicated.
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"Is anyone in here in a actual Fuckbuddy/friends with benefits situation? With a couple?
It seems most couples are looking for one offs and i get why etc
But as a single guy who isnt interested in loads of one offs etc.
Id like to meet a couple who i become friends with and meet semi regular etc.
Is that to much of a target? Lol"
We are a couple looking for more than 1 off meets.
Fuck buddy would be great for us. |
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We see the merits in both situations, but generally prefer to find guys we can continue to meet.
Repeat meets are often more relaxed, easier to get in to and allow for a little more experimentation as everyone works out what they want from the evening.
- John |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a female friend with benefit that we have known for about 3 years.
We play with her together, my boyfriend has met her alone, we have joined her with her lover, I plan to meet her alone and we all plan to attend a club together. We also meet up for coffee to keep in touch as friends.
We would also like to find the same friendship with a guy.
NBVN x |
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This is exactly what I’m looking for too, I’m finding it hard to find couples who want this also though.
Very interesting to see lots of couples struggle to find this even with the huge number of guys on here. Just goes to show even with a ton of choice some things can be like finding a needle in a haystack. |
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A few years ago, when I had a couple profile with my FWB, we had several good reliable guys who we met over time.
They would be invited back often to augment our play or a meet with a couple or other single female to produce pleasurable mfmf+mmm type scenarios.
My FWB used to call these guys jokingly her "harem" and they always came to see us if they were free because we had so much fun and laughter together. They became friends in the end which made the play even more relaxed and pleasurable. If a single guy can be a regular with a couple there are many benefits for both sides. |
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Oh it's been brilliant, we have gone from friends, swingers, fbs to lovers. We have been together nearly 7 years. We still have our own lives but meet when we can. It works for us, husband is fully happy with it. All 3 of us go to clubs, parties and weekends away and we are all on the same wave length. |
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"Is anyone in here in a actual Fuckbuddy/friends with benefits situation? With a couple?
It seems most couples are looking for one offs and i get why etc
But as a single guy who isnt interested in loads of one offs etc.
Id like to meet a couple who i become friends with and meet semi regular etc.
Is that to much of a target? Lol"
It took me 4 years to actually meet my first couple and was messaging for most of those years, I was to say the least very apprehensive and didn't believe it to be true really.
How wrong I was...
They are a brilliant couple and as soon as we met we all clicked as with the chatting we had done before, the sexual tension in the room was electric as with the length of time it took us to actually meet and I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
It's good when you find like minded couples on here and even better when you become good friends  |
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