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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on here over a month now, and have settled into a reasonable set of expectations and habits.
If I "work" the forums, and essentially actively engage in the site I can get around 45-50 "profile views" a day. Half that if I just leave it and lurk.
I know this isn't necessarily a useful thing to know (and it's just a by product of taking part which is where the meat is) and I also know I get a lot of views (Where a lot is obviously "some more") from those that keep there visibility off the radar when looking, but what do you get on a good/bad day? Just out of interest?
I'm going to imagine that the average woman gets more by at least a full factor then the average guy... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No bragging, from me (obviously, with such low interest) or from replies please. Just interesting to see how the demographics work. For info, I don't block anyone by filters. |
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Well, I’ve stated I’m not interested in single men so that takes down the amount of potential views straight away. I’m also quite sure that it ensures they don’t show up on my “who viewed me” because I’ve had quite a lot of gay men fab my pics. I’d say I average about 4/5 views a day. A lot more if, like you say, I actively engage in the forums and in particular the ones that are designed to bring traffic to the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here over a month now, and have settled into a reasonable set of expectations and habits.
If I "work" the forums, and essentially actively engage in the site I can get around 45-50 "profile views" a day. Half that if I just leave it and lurk.
I know this isn't necessarily a useful thing to know (and it's just a by product of taking part which is where the meat is) and I also know I get a lot of views (Where a lot is obviously "some more") from those that keep there visibility off the radar when looking, but what do you get on a good/bad day? Just out of interest?
I'm going to imagine that the average woman gets more by at least a full factor then the average guy..."
I confess to perving your bum in stealth mode several times.
I never look at how any people viewed me. Its seems like pretty useless information as a larger number of those won't even message or wink etc anyway.
I have looked at it when a pic has done well. But that's not me being popular that's just the pic. So doesn't say anything anyway. I hate the thought of being popular with a passion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest  . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day.
No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???”
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Genuinely laughing at that.
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day.
No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???”
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Boobs or not i’d perv you xx. You smoking hot welsh rarebit!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, if I'm online our profile gets more views. These tend to be local men rather than forumites though so I'm not sure if forum participation affects this though.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find that when we add some new pictures, our views get to about 2000 in a day. Although the same isn't said for videos, possibly because you have to be a site supporter to view them. If I've been on the forums we have a small peak too. We're on 329 right now. On days when we're not actively joining in with the forums or adding pictures, we can be at about 80 - 100.
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We're on 204 for today and a random mix of locations. I've been on here more than usual (especially this morning) because I'm ill. We seem to average between 100-200 views on a regular day. Have no idea what that means  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I confess to perving your bum in stealth mode several times.
I never look at how any people viewed me. Its seems like pretty useless information as a larger number of those won't even message or wink etc anyway.
I have looked at it when a pic has done well. But that's not me being popular that's just the pic. So doesn't say anything anyway. I hate the thought of being popular with a passion. "
I think my perving is usually less stealthy, you've had a few  from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages, and love the forum. However I can’t imagine I’ll be popular on here. I don’t really ‘do’ sexy chat on here, and feel like I’m always shooting the fantasy stuff down in flames Plus, I have feminist tendencies which I’m not sure are entirely in keeping with Fab at times ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think views have any real link to popularity. Some folk are just nosy like me. "
Agreed, it was a shitty word choice but there's limited space in the thread title. |
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343 views today, mostly repeat visits lol I don’t know if that’s because I’m (slightly) active in the forums or not. If I add a new picture the number will go up a fair bit but it seems to stay between the 2-300 on average. I’m not to fussed on how many view me, I like to see who it was and I may go have a peek myself. I guess I’m mostly killing time here and just waiting to find something that piques my interest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy talking to people but equally I enjoy lurking. Wouldn't say I'm popular but I definitely try and engage with people when I feel like it.
Although alot have said they've noticed me around abit! Thanks for giving me a flittering thought |
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The majority of women perve in ninja mode.
You say your popularity level is low because you only get 45-50 daily views.
I post in the forums almost every single day and I have yet to get more than 12-15 visible views on any given day. Today I have one. Yesterday I had 3.
I don't see it as a popularity contest because regardless of how many people view I don't get fabs or winks and virtually no messages so if I was worried about being popular I wouldn't be here very long. |
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"I get lots of messages, and love the forum. However I can’t imagine I’ll be popular on here. I don’t really ‘do’ sexy chat on here, and feel like I’m always shooting the fantasy stuff down in flames Plus, I have feminist tendencies which I’m not sure are entirely in keeping with Fab at times ..."
I do that too  either have a conversation with me or go away, I’m not here to help you wank! I love sex but I don’t love talking about it with someone I haven’t yet met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More people look if you're online, if you update your status and if you post pics or a video esp boobs. It equates to more messages too but it's the conversations in the forums which = messages from men I am more likely to be interested in.
I posted a story last week and that has led to more everything. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't count views as a measure of popularity, more the endless curiosity of the horny man. I tend to get a lot when I display a new veri or photo but that's not because they're thinking "Oh I love Meli, wonder what she's been up to", more, "I'm a nosy sod, I'll take a peek".
Aside from views, I would say I'm popular with those I like/respect and that's all I really care about (bar not wanting to be disliked by many). |
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All depends on which pic is up for us.
Pic of C with boobs out - M6 traffic
Pic of C with legs out, boobs covered - M1 traffic
Pic of me…B roads traffic
To be honest it really makes no difference how many view you get. It’s the FAB’s/views from the people that you want to interact with that make a difference…
K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The majority of women perve in ninja mode.
You say your popularity level is low because you only get 45-50 daily views.
I post in the forums almost every single day and I have yet to get more than 12-15 visible views on any given day. Today I have one. Yesterday I had 3.
I don't see it as a popularity contest because regardless of how many people view I don't get fabs or winks and virtually no messages so if I was worried about being popular I wouldn't be here very long. "
Good points, and I did try to not frame as if I wanted or felt I deserved more - my enjoyment is in the forums not how many men (the vast majority) look at me, but I do find it interesting how the numbers stack up (i.e how bad it is for the women!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all. Average about 10-15 non stealth visits a day and don’t think too much to it.
I don’t consider myself popular. I just fly under the radar, make the odd quirk and then disappear "
Like a theif in the shadows, a precious morning mist, a soul mate you never knew you passed on a ship in the night! and so on and so forth |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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Depends how you define popular...
High number of meets/views/fabs/messages?
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A constant and communicative relationship with one or two people?
The latter sounds a much more appealing state of popularity to me. The fact that the other person chooses you over almost endless other options, because you offer them all that they desire. Whether that's physically, mentally or both |
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day.
No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???”
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Interesting to see if that works for me. Just uploaded new pics showing my boobs. Don't think I'll have the same success though... |
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"To be honest it really makes no difference how many view you get. It’s the FAB’s/views from the people that you want to interact with that make a difference…
K"
And that's the point really isn't it. I have quite a few filters on, and set criteria for responding...
I rarely break double figures on views, unless there is a forum photo challenge...
But the interest I do get, and the folk i do contact, do usually result in a conversation, not just 1 or 2 messages.
And I prefer it this way, keeps the Fab-min down, and focuses attention to those that I would like to meet! |
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day.
No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???”
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Talk about click bait... and not a boob to be seen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not popular at all, no one calls, no one rings anymore, no one leaves a message… ohh yeah I forgot they can’t get through  "
Oh Sandy, baby, someday
When high school is done
Somehow, someway
Our two worlds will be one
Oooh ooooh |
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Eew I wouldn’t like to feel popular, it would mean I’ve not voiced my opinion enough in the forums hehe! Which Mr would no doubt be happier about , sure he braces for impact every time he looks through my responses! On a serious note tho, we tend to get the most views etc if we’re online after 11pm, clearly when the beer goggles are on Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular get at least 10 views per day, 3 pic fabs & 0-1 messages a week.
Have also been on page 16 of the mens hot pics on several occasions.
Hard to not get big headed with stats like that but I try and remain grounded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hang on. Actually. Ask me again on "Wiggle Wednesday" I've got a good video if you haven't seen it (had it up but taken it down for Wednesdays fun haha). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea about popularity. Not an useful measure in my book unless running for President or selling ‘records’.
Noticed about 80 to 100 views over the weekend and a few emails, winks and the odd few friend requests.
Probably as a result of some bullshit one of us (mostly mr) posted on the forum which caught someone’s eye.
Who knows. Maybe should hire an agent to do some market research on these things
(Mr). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hang on. Actually. Ask me again on "Wiggle Wednesday" I've got a good video if you haven't seen it (had it up but taken it down for Wednesdays fun haha). "
50 of those visits will be me mashing refresh |
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On an average day I get 300-400 views - currently on 281. If I post a picture it's a lot more.
I'm not a popular forumite - I'm very much on the sidelines here but most of my views, conversations and meets don't come from the forums anyway (I think there's only one regular forum contributor I've met in my time here) so I suspect even if I threw myself into it heart and soul and joined in on every single thread it wouldn't make a huge amount of difference to what, for me, is the end goal (meeting people).
I'm on the forum because I find it fun, nothing deeper than that! |
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"I've been on here over a month now, and have settled into a reasonable set of expectations and habits.
If I "work" the forums, and essentially actively engage in the site I can get around 45-50 "profile views" a day. Half that if I just leave it and lurk.
I know this isn't necessarily a useful thing to know (and it's just a by product of taking part which is where the meat is) and I also know I get a lot of views (Where a lot is obviously "some more") from those that keep there visibility off the radar when looking, but what do you get on a good/bad day? Just out of interest?
I'm going to imagine that the average woman gets more by at least a full factor then the average guy..."
Well, 40-50 views you know of.
I’ve had 16 views today and 1 (unsolicited) message.
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"From my experience, guys like myself that can accommodate, and that's not just in hotels and back of cars, tend to rate high in the popularity stakes, and do not to go short of offers. "
Can't wait to get my house in January time then! |
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible.
I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here.
Your never invisible xx"
I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"I bizzarely had 40 in one day once. I put a story of the forums but other than that I had no idea why. I even got some friend requests out of them. Wish I knew how because I'd do it again."
Here, here! It's frustrating getting something right, but not realising was it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find if I show my boobs off with a face pic I get about 10,000 views, endless pointless mails and a inbox bigger than the national debt, lol, so I just get my boobs out lol x |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible.
I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here.
Your never invisible xx
I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak "
Mr Mystique? |
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"I find if I show my boobs off with a face pic I get about 10,000 views, endless pointless mails and a inbox bigger than the national debt, lol, so I just get my boobs out lol x"
I get a similar reaction when I post a clear face pic - so I only have half of the bad side |
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible.
I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here.
Your never invisible xx
I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak Mr Mystique?"
He didn't give me his name and he was wearing a gimp mask so I'm clueless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It never occurred to me once in years on here to see how many people view my profile. I think that speaks volumes to the imbalance of male to female ratios on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the forums so notice when we use them that we have more views on our profile …. Which is normal I guess .
Otherwise we don’t get many views at all… which is fine with us . Don’t think about it ti much to be honest |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t judge popularity by the number of views. People could be looking at you for a whole host of reasons
Being popular just means they know who you are, not necessarily that you are liked |
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"I’m not popular at all, no one calls, no one rings anymore, no one leaves a message… ohh yeah I forgot they can’t get through
Oh Sandy, baby, someday
When high school is done
Somehow, someway
Our two worlds will be one
Oooh ooooh "
Serenaded  how delightful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'm popular on here at all
If I crank up the forum input then I get around 100 views a day but there nearly all men...lol
If I just leave it be I get around 15 a day ....still mostly men ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very popular actually and everyone wants to be me or be my friend and it is exhausting. I'm number 2 top forumite also. It's not easy being as great as me but someone has to do it I suppose. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'm very popular actually and everyone wants to be me or be my friend and it is exhausting. I'm number 2 top forumite also. It's not easy being as great as me but someone has to do it I suppose."
Who's no
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"I'm very popular actually and everyone wants to be me or be my friend and it is exhausting. I'm number 2 top forumite also. It's not easy being as great as me but someone has to do it I suppose."
How do you stay so humble too?! |
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