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Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally 
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it   
How full is your inbox ?
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over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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I am new so not much, trying to fit in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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Not met anyone since July. I just get messages from people telling me that they do not match what I'm looking for. "Hey, I'm not ginger, tattooed, skinny or pale but....." |
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over a year ago
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I only get activity in the sense of views or messages when I add new photos, and I don't do that too often, only so many angles can show a hairy body and bulging belly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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Ours has never been busy busy.
We do get a few messages, but they're mainly from people we've already met.
Tbf we're not proactive, we rarely send wink or messages first ourselves x
Classic case of you get out of it what you put in x |
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over a year ago
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My inbox had been busier these past few days but recently I would go days without messages
Guys assume that because I'm a Woman I get inundated but that isn't the case |
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If I post a picture I get fabs winks and views but otherwise it’s been pretty quiet. However as someone said above, you get out what you put in and I don’t wink or message very often if ever at all. Just joining in on the forums while I wait for someone to catch my eye  |
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"My inbox had been busier these past few days but recently I would go days without messages
Guys assume that because I'm a Woman I get inundated but that isn't the case "
Yep the few that message will comment on how I must have hundreds of messages… I’ve had less than ten in the last week |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It depends what it’s a drought of!
I’ve gone through periods in the past where it seems that lots of people want to meet, others where people want to just chat, others where it’s neither.
I currently seem to be in a period where people want to converse, which I’m happy with.
It’s all pretty inexplicable though and rarely based on anything that I’ve done, in which case then (as for most) the situation will shift again.
It’s a mystery of the world and as frustrating as it is to be in the lull and becalmed in the doldrums, it will change |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"My inbox had been busier these past few days but recently I would go days without messages
Guys assume that because I'm a Woman I get inundated but that isn't the case "
Same here I don't get a load of messages |
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
Not met anyone since July. I just get messages from people telling me that they do not match what I'm looking for. "Hey, I'm not ginger, tattooed, skinny or pale but.....""
I’m pale and under 30 |
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
I am new so not much, trying to fit in."
My advice would be …. Don’t try fit in . Stand out from the crowd  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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All the time |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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The same as the first day I joined, empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
Not met anyone since July. I just get messages from people telling me that they do not match what I'm looking for. "Hey, I'm not ginger, tattooed, skinny or pale but....."
I’m pale and under 30 "
I am aware of that. Your grey sweats photo has been fabbed ;-p
You also are in Barnsley which is very far from me.
All the pale skinny gingers are up north. |
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Some days I get 100’s messages in a day then nothing for ages! Messages go up if I post a pic.
Realise boobs pics get the most messages
Often the same guys sending the same message over and over again! It’s quite sad really! Don’t think they realise I get all their message showing |
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"Some days I get 100’s messages in a day then nothing for ages! Messages go up if I post a pic.
Realise boobs pics get the most messages
Often the same guys sending the same message over and over again! It’s quite sad really! Don’t think they realise I get all their message showing "
I can see why you get lots of messages when you put a pic up  |
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"Apparently I message myself 4 years ago and not had another since 
Definite chance of a meet though
Unless you’re not your your type 
Or suddenly blocked  "
Haha does nothing for self confidence if you can’t pull yourself |
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"No but when I hunt its for a special reason and will take months of observations and conversations before I commit to sexualising our time together "
I like the Hunter vibe ….
Nice to be hunted every now and again
Go get’em tiger |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"No but when I hunt its for a special reason and will take months of observations and conversations before I commit to sexualising our time together
I like the Hunter vibe ….
Nice to be hunted every now and again
Go get’em tiger "
... cougar ...or panther ...or jaguar
All wild cats matter |
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"No but when I hunt its for a special reason and will take months of observations and conversations before I commit to sexualising our time together
I like the Hunter vibe ….
Nice to be hunted every now and again
Go get’em tiger
... cougar ...or panther ...or jaguar
All wild cats matter "
Do you roar
Or purrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always activity even when I hide my profile which is irritating. It's the quality that goes into a drought, takes a heck of a long time to find some gem that appears out of nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If my drought was real, it would be drier than the Sahara desert.
I get views but no replies, no messages and no winks.
Any help would be much appreciated |
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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My inbox has been quiet for several months now, I am very definitely in a Fab drought!  I was feeling like I had been ‘blackballed’ in some way, but fortunately the forum shows me I’m not alone in being alone, so onwards and upwards, glasses half full people |
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"If I post a picture I get fabs winks and views but otherwise it’s been pretty quiet. However as someone said above, you get out what you put in and I don’t wink or message very often if ever at all. Just joining in on the forums while I wait for someone to catch my eye "
theres a wink from us.. |
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By *enm83Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
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I do have dry spells, but I would rather have that then having hundreds of messages on a daily basis like a lot of women do. |
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"There's always activity even when I hide my profile which is irritating. It's the quality that goes into a drought, takes a heck of a long time to find some gem that appears out of nowhere."
I’d love a diamond to appear but the chances are slim .
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"If my drought was real, it would be drier than the Sahara desert.
I get views but no replies, no messages and no winks.
Any help would be much appreciated "
I don’t think I’m the person to help sir hopefully a lady or a couple can give you some pointers |
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I get the odd message now and then and, as the poster above said the usual 56 day message of "Hey, thanks for renewing!"
More frustrating for me is sending out a well composed message, structured on said members profile, only to be left unread (understandable if they get loads of messages) or deleted without so much as a "No thanks" But I've been here long enough to brush myself down and continue to take the time to construct a decent, informative message to prospective new friends. |
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I get a lot of messages when I'm online (tits privilege) but sometimes have long periods of time where I struggle to turn a chat into a social, let alone anything more.
All part of the fun of fab: just when you're about to give up something happens to make it fun again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people think that by having a fab profile means that you’ll be having meets with different people every night and by like a kid in a candy shop with the most amazingly hot women then they are very fucking wrong.
I doubt there is anyone on here who has a Hugh Hefner like life where their inbox is constantly full with requests from women and couples all with party invitations.
The harsh reality is that most single guys have to send out around 500 messages to get that rarity of a “Thanks but you’re not my type” reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently going through messages, hence the hidden profile so I don't get more.
I was on 300 this morning and I'm almost half that.
I can't even look at winks etc that's just too much.
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"Currently going through messages, hence the hidden profile so I don't get more.
I was on 300 this morning and I'm almost half that.
I can't even look at winks etc that's just too much.
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I’ll add one to your collection when you come out of hiding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My Inbox has always been drier than the Gobi Desert after it's been through a tumble dryer..
And I'm bad at making 1st contact messages
Sounds pretty dry
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It's desolate lol |
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"Yup some days lots of responses to messages and views and some days like today no responses no views. I blame it on it being a Monday "
Yeah I don’t feel sexy on Mondays I understand why people don’t bother on Mondays |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"No but when I hunt its for a special reason and will take months of observations and conversations before I commit to sexualising our time together
I like the Hunter vibe ….
Nice to be hunted every now and again
Go get’em tiger
... cougar ...or panther ...or jaguar
All wild cats matter
Do you roar ...Or purrr
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Now that entirely depends |
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"No but when I hunt its for a special reason and will take months of observations and conversations before I commit to sexualising our time together
I like the Hunter vibe ….
Nice to be hunted every now and again
Go get’em tiger
... cougar ...or panther ...or jaguar
All wild cats matter
Do you roar ...Or purrr
Now that entirely depends "
Oooo come on …. What does it depend on ? x |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Yes, currently in the Sahara
I'm going Antarctic
Your legs are too hot they’d melt the ice "
Awh, thank you x
... mind that would be a whole new global warming issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, currently in the Sahara
I'm going Antarctic
Your legs are too hot they’d melt the ice
Awh, thank you x
... mind that would be a whole new global warming issue "
At least it'd be a welcome issue lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you go through spells where you get no activity responses winks on fab ?
I’ll admit I haven’t been on that much recently and that would have an effect naturally
My inbox has tumbles rolling around it
How full is your inbox ?
Not met anyone since July. I just get messages from people telling me that they do not match what I'm looking for. "Hey, I'm not ginger, tattooed, skinny or pale but.....""
Wtf |
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"Yes, currently in the Sahara
I'm going Antarctic
Your legs are too hot they’d melt the ice
Awh, thank you x
... mind that would be a whole new global warming issue "
Haha you say issue I’d say fun time |
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We are in a drought the past few weeks have been quiet for us also with messages and meets has been ages.
We find unlike has been mentioned we are busier in the week and very quiet the weekends. Have started to go to clubs and are loving them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re not getting as many now that people are allowed out again but still get a few. We seem to get more if we log on at like 2am. I’m guessing mostly d*unk horny men  |
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"We are in a drought the past few weeks have been quiet for us also with messages and meets has been ages.
We find unlike has been mentioned we are busier in the week and very quiet the weekends. Have started to go to clubs and are loving them. "
I’ve only been to a couple of clubs , the local one has closed down |
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"We’re not getting as many now that people are allowed out again but still get a few. We seem to get more if we log on at like 2am. I’m guessing mostly d*unk horny men "
Haha don’t you love those guys ?
They’re great ! |
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"I thought I’d be knee deep by now .. 2 and a half weeks back and nothing. Nada. Not a sausage. And I thought this was a fuck site!?  "
No you’re wrong if that’s what you’re here for ,
It’s swinging ….
Mostly social and a little fun and games every now and again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought I’d be knee deep by now .. 2 and a half weeks back and nothing. Nada. Not a sausage. And I thought this was a fuck site!?
No you’re wrong if that’s what you’re here for ,
It’s swinging ….
Mostly social and a little fun and games every now and again "
But I tell people their pics are amazing, they could be model and even send them multiple close up cock shots and everything…. I just don’t get it? Are people here to fuck or what!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a few messages from single ladies and couples (most resulting in fun in some way - meeting or cam).
Seem to get a load of guys messaging at the moment though which is a bit odd considering I'm 100% straight and have said so in the profile. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm currently in a fab drought now, thank fuck for clubs
Take down your face pics babe.
That should improve things a bit.
Oooooft banterful "
It was said with love |
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