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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you see couple playing in hotel lounge
As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you
Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation |
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Sex in the lounge?
Obviously there are many people who go to hotels in order to have a break or just to shag. I think the majority won't be looking for a 3rd and a couple in the Lounge but could even be 2 fab singles on their social, before retiring to the bedroom.
As with most social situations, it pays to read the signs that they are giving off. If flirting with you, then flirt back etc. |
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"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge
As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you
Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "
I can just stop after the first sentence. This has never ha to me. I would guess it hasn't happened to many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour
Holding hand robing hands and kising"
I’d say that fairly common it happens in bars.
From the question in your original post, I would definitely just leave them to it. Not everyone is a swinger. Unless they invite you over… |
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"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour
Holding hand robing hands and kising"
If I was doing that with a partner of mine and someone came over, depending on what they said, I'd be at best a little irritated and at worse really pissed off.
Leave them to it, it has nothing to do with you. |
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"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge
As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you
Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "
You would be well advised to relise that just because people are having a moment together in public it does not mean that they are swingers or that they want any other person involved.
Under no circumstances should you approach them, unless they invite you to. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour
Holding hand robing hands and kising
That's not soft play, that's just public display of affection "
Damn by that standard I'm playing in public a lot  |
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"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour
Holding hand robing hands and kising
That's not soft play, that's just public display of affection
Damn by that standard I'm playing in public a lot "
Shame on you  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour
Holding hand robing hands and kising"
Bloody hell- so you see a normal couple in a hotel foyer sharing a moment of affection & you think you might get chance to get invited in for a shag?? What sort of hotels are you frequenting, because I suspect if you're watching them like a creeper, you're gonna end up with your head in a sling!!!
Why am I imagining a scene for a new Borat movie... |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge
As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you
Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "
OP. I worked in Hotels for 47 years till retiring this year and what you are suggesting isn't something I've witnessed or heard of.
Or is it just a figment of your overactive imagination?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i had the luck to see a couple playing in a hotel i would be right over and ask them if i could sit right next to them for a better look. Obviously after i bought them a drink lol  |
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"To watch non swinging couples being affectionate and think you could approach them for sex is not ok. Do not do this. "
I think this thread goes to show how desensitised it can make peopoe from what's OK and what's tremendously inappropriate in an "outside fab" setting.
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The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity. |
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"To watch non swinging couples being affectionate and think you could approach them for sex is not ok. Do not do this.
I think this thread goes to show how desensitised it can make peopoe from what's OK and what's tremendously inappropriate in an "outside fab" setting.
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Aye, it's completely bizarre |
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"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."
I was going to write something very similar. Absolute lack of sexual maturity if you view normal PDA's as 'soft play'.
I can categorically say back when I was married if you came over to me whilst I was holding hands, kissing my other half, you'd get a fairly short message of bugger off at best, resetting of the nose at worst. |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."
Your level of rudeness astonishes me. |
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"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity.
Your level of rudeness astonishes me."
Really?
Wow - you must be easily astonished
Read some of the other posts the OP has put on here.
I think its a fair and restrained opinion.
Look at it this way
You've just had a nice meal in a hotel where you have taken a lady on a date . You adjourn to the bar lounge and are enjoying a nightcap. You've had a wonderful evening and you take her hand and tell her that. She responds with a kiss.
Suddenly someone appears and sits down close to you and asks if he can watch you or maybe go to a room and join you.
What's your reaction? |
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"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."
I completely agree. Not sure about the spectrum bit, but I think if this is genuinely what OP thinks would be reasonable behaviour then it shows he’s completely out of touch with reality. I find it alarming. |
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