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over a year ago
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Someone has just replied to my message saying she’s not interested because I’m gay, I replied to correct her and tell her I’m bi and she replied stating that if a man takes cock then he’s gay, it’s irrelevant if he likes women as well (those aren’t her exact words, she didn’t put it as eloquently as that). I’ve never encountered anyone with that view point before and I’m quite shocked that someone thinks like that. Has anyone else ever heard anything similar being said, or does anyone agree with her? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And I bet she’s got bisexual on her profile, but cause she’s a girl no one will care  "
I didn’t notice what her profile said actually, I’ve just tried to check and I can’t access her profile, so it looks like she’s blocked me. If I had to guess though I’d say that she has a different opinion of bi women than she does of bi men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah, you’re both right, she’s not worth worrying or caring about. I was shocked and angry when I first read it but I’ve calmed down now.
I tend to pity people like her, it can’t be nice having so much nastiness and intolerance swirling around her head all the time.
The worst thing isn’t that she thinks like that, it’s that she felt it was ok to say that to me, without any consideration of my feelings at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If she is not bi she might be concerned she will catch the gay. I say this as a bi guy x"
I would have worn a condom so that she wouldn’t have caught it off me.... |
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over a year ago
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I mean, she was incorrect in her thoughts, but I can assure you that many women aren't interested in meeting guys who suck cock
Others, however, positively encourage it
Swings & roundabouts
I wouldn't sweat it
You're just two incompatible people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I mean, she was incorrect in her thoughts, but I can assure you that many women aren't interested in meeting guys who suck cock
Others, however, positively encourage it
Swings & roundabouts
I wouldn't sweat it
You're just two incompatible people"
I see a lot of profiles saying they aren’t interested in bi men and that’s fine as we all have our preferences and I respect them but I’m sure the majority of them wouldn’t completely dismiss my sexuality and tell me I’m something that I’m not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean, she was incorrect in her thoughts, but I can assure you that many women aren't interested in meeting guys who suck cock
Others, however, positively encourage it
Swings & roundabouts
I wouldn't sweat it
You're just two incompatible people
I see a lot of profiles saying they aren’t interested in bi men and that’s fine as we all have our preferences and I respect them but I’m sure the majority of them wouldn’t completely dismiss my sexuality and tell me I’m something that I’m not. "
It's no one elses place to tell you how to label your sexuality
Many will though, there are tens of threads about it every month
Am I this? Am I that?
Just look at the split in response to those threads
As I said, you were simply incompatible - and she was ignorant in her response |
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"If she is not bi she might be concerned she will catch the gay. I say this as a bi guy x
I would have worn a condom so that she wouldn’t have caught it off me...."
I think some think that just speaking to you then they will catch the gay. Its very communicable apparently |
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"Someone has just replied to my message saying she’s not interested because I’m gay, I replied to correct her and tell her I’m bi and she replied stating that if a man takes cock then he’s gay, it’s irrelevant if he likes women as well (those aren’t her exact words, she didn’t put it as eloquently as that). I’ve never encountered anyone with that view point before and I’m quite shocked that someone thinks like that. Has anyone else ever heard anything similar being said, or does anyone agree with her?"
I've had the same and probably get more,I just crack on.
There's no point in getting down about it,it's I'll judgement on their behalf.
Every day is a school day  |
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"Someone has just replied to my message saying she’s not interested because I’m gay, I replied to correct her and tell her I’m bi and she replied stating that if a man takes cock then he’s gay, it’s irrelevant if he likes women as well (those aren’t her exact words, she didn’t put it as eloquently as that). I’ve never encountered anyone with that view point before and I’m quite shocked that someone thinks like that. Has anyone else ever heard anything similar being said, or does anyone agree with her?
I've had the same and probably get more,I just crack on.
There's no point in getting down about it,it's I'll judgement on their behalf.
Every day is a school day "
Ill not I'll,Autocorrect fookah  |
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"I think it was Aristotle who once said ‘Opinions are like arseoles, everyone got one’ or some other Greek Philosopher said it. 
Either way she’s entitled to hers and you’re entitled to ignore it. "
Harry Callahan,my dear x |
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