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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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By *enm83Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
I do hope my profile is a fair reflection of the self, though naturally either a WhatsApp conversation, social or phone call would be needed to prove if the potential meet was comfortable with me... |
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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Only you can decide if it represents us as humans. I do think that we give a little of ourselves away with our written words no matter how carefully we edit |
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If you read mine you’d probably roll your eyes and think Nob.
Whereas I’ll be hoping you’re left with a little wet patch in your pants because I’m so incredibly funny you’ve tittered beyond your pelvic floor capabilities. |
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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Please read mine and let me know if it does give you an inkling …
I think it reflects the essentials needed to “get on”
on Fab but perhaps I’m deluded |
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"If you read mine you’d probably roll your eyes and think Nob.
Whereas I’ll be hoping you’re left with a little wet patch in your pants because I’m so incredibly funny you’ve tittered beyond your pelvic floor capabilities. "
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I'm not sure I could be more clear.
It doesn't however show my gentle side, which I absolutely do have, I just choose not to show it in my profile text as I'm not prepared to give it to those I don't know at the moment. |
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over a year ago
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No I don't think I am clear. Its a mystery para military zone which requires extensive checks and security pass.. I'm a chaos and I blab random things so it's not an entirely inaccurate portrayal..
It's just a lick of the spoon. Further testing and tasting required
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I like to think it gives people a fairly good sense of my sense of humour and what I am looking and I find that most people who get in touch can see that but there are still lots who don't read it anyway and just look at the pics.
Almost like the opposite of the old Playboy excuse of " I just buy it for the articles" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect you will get that I'm an odd ball at times (true) and what I'm looking for ... And have been lucky enough that people have reached out based on what I've said ... |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
Please read mine and let me know if it does give you an inkling …
I think it reflects the essentials needed to “get on”
on Fab but perhaps I’m deluded "
I think yours is great., sums up that you know what you want without being aggressive. Perfect balance |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My profile is written in a way to deter you, not attract you
Well that didn't work
Shit. I need to make it worse "
I'm totally taking back all the nice things I said about you |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No I don't think I am clear. Its a mystery para military zone which requires extensive checks and security pass.. I'm a chaos and I blab random things so it's not an entirely inaccurate portrayal..
It's just a lick of the spoon. Further testing and tasting required
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You are total bloody chaos wouldn’t have you any other way!! |
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I think people would have a good grasp of what we are looking for and what they can expect from us.
We’ve found having a detailed profile helps us find the people we want.
Still doesn’t stop the one liners, FAF messages though or dick pics
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'd say I need to rewrite mine...have views but nothing else...didn't really want to go in depth about myself as anyone could find out if and when we met .."
I like a feel for a person in order to make the first contact so something to latch onto is important for my mind.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think of my profile as a work in progress, and I will get round to it.
I will give anyone a knuckle bump if they can write everything I need to know about them in their profile. They can’t.
And with that in mind, I realised I probably can’t do the same for anyone here.
If someone wants to get to know me, they can talk to me, or just ask.
*I might copy this into my profile
But if I did write a proper profile, it would be 10/10. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I try to answer the most common questions and try to show I’ve got a sense of humour. Whether that comes across how i expect or would like - i guess you’d have to tell me xx "
I think it’s great. Matches the style of comments I’ve seen on the forum too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think the profile captures us in a nutshell.
However, our verifications is where the real nut is.
Well from our perspective."
That's a good point. Verifications are just portraying me through others eyes so you know how real people I have meet see me, not some online bullshit I wrote to impress you. My brain is too fuzzy to show myself off well.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always written mine to be authentic and functional.
I could probably inject more personality into it but I think it’s a fair reflection of who I am and where I am in life currently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don't think I am clear. Its a mystery para military zone which requires extensive checks and security pass.. I'm a chaos and I blab random things so it's not an entirely inaccurate portrayal..
It's just a lick of the spoon. Further testing and tasting required
You are total bloody chaos wouldn’t have you any other way!! "
Total and bloody. I'll take these adjectives with pride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I wrote mine with relative care and effort (and keep tweaking) mainly on the basis that you just should, and I feel better knowing I’m not being a lazy chancer, but I don’t think it’s made my experience on here better for it, not one person had ever messaged in a way that shows they read to the end |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I like to think of my profile as a work in progress, and I will get round to it.
I will give anyone a knuckle bump if they can write everything I need to know about them in their profile. They can’t.
And with that in mind, I realised I probably can’t do the same for anyone here.
If someone wants to get to know me, they can talk to me, or just ask.
*I might copy this into my profile
But if I did write a proper profile, it would be 10/10. "
that’s 20 seconds of life I’ll never get back!! |
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"If you read mine you’d probably roll your eyes and think Nob.
Whereas I’ll be hoping you’re left with a little wet patch in your pants because I’m so incredibly funny you’ve tittered beyond your pelvic floor capabilities.
Nob "
Pissy pants |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Tbh I wrote mine with relative care and effort (and keep tweaking) mainly on the basis that you just should, and I feel better knowing I’m not being a lazy chancer, but I don’t think it’s made my experience on here better for it, not one person had ever messaged in a way that shows they read to the end"
I like your vajazzle… it’s a good profile. Shows you’re eloquent too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last time I asked I got told it was too long. The profile, that is. Never had an accusation of anything else being too long.
So after a brief spell away, I came back and wrote anew. Still came out like ‘War And Peace’, but I can’t say what needs saying in any less.
I think it conveys the general idea of what I want. Specifics? Probably not, because….. TL;DR. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to think of my profile as a work in progress, and I will get round to it.
I will give anyone a knuckle bump if they can write everything I need to know about them in their profile. They can’t.
And with that in mind, I realised I probably can’t do the same for anyone here.
If someone wants to get to know me, they can talk to me, or just ask.
*I might copy this into my profile
But if I did write a proper profile, it would be 10/10.
that’s 20 seconds of life I’ll never get back!! "
20 secs? So you ready it twice? |
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"I try to answer the most common questions and try to show I’ve got a sense of humour. Whether that comes across how i expect or would like - i guess you’d have to tell me xx
I think it’s great. Matches the style of comments I’ve seen on the forum too " what a lovely thing to say xx thankyou xx |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I like to think of my profile as a work in progress, and I will get round to it.
I will give anyone a knuckle bump if they can write everything I need to know about them in their profile. They can’t.
And with that in mind, I realised I probably can’t do the same for anyone here.
If someone wants to get to know me, they can talk to me, or just ask.
*I might copy this into my profile
But if I did write a proper profile, it would be 10/10.
that’s 20 seconds of life I’ll never get back!!
20 secs? So you ready it twice? "
You were that good.
I’m disappointed in you. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I think mine is ok, although being a single bloke on Fab unless the first sentence offers cake, it’s lost in the noise "
See based on my conversations with close mates we always read profiles and are more drawn to people within our preferences. You have a great profile |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"To be fair to me my profile is usually quite good and very specific and maybe a bit too lengthy. I just can’t be arsed at the moment. I plan to make more effort in the new year "
Spanks bum.. must do better Nora. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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My profile is about as clear as a piece of frozen mud suspended in a beaker of tar in a dark room with no windows and the lights off. |
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I don't think there's much of my personality in my profile, but I'm pretty clear on what I'm looking for so at least reading it *should* cut down on the "meet now, I'm within half a mile" messages.
It doesn't, but it should. |
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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I hope I do, but it's impossible to know if it comes across well. If the amount of profile views vs actual contact is to be taken then its a complete failure. I get zero contact on Fab, but do well in person at socials and clubs, but no matter how many rewrites I do the result is the same. Same reason why I no longer bother messaging anyone either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think my profile reflects who I am, I hope I'm a lot nicer in person than how my profile reads. Neither does it say what I want, because I haven't a clue |
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"I don't think my profile reflects who I am, I hope I'm a lot nicer in person than how my profile reads. Neither does it say what I want, because I haven't a clue "
Just don’t forget the d in Todgermoore when you’re posting your likes!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's much of my personality in my profile, but I'm pretty clear on what I'm looking for so at least reading it *should* cut down on the "meet now, I'm within half a mile" messages.
It doesn't, but it should."
Oh I think "titsy Ronnie Corbett" has personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like your vajazzle… it’s a good profile. Shows you’re eloquent too "
Thanks, although I’ve never seen the words vajazzle and eloquent used in the same sentence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very happy with mine. Obviously few men read it and message me anyway..but then I can point at my profile and say "you didn't read it" as I reject them. |
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"I think mine is ok, although being a single bloke on Fab unless the first sentence offers cake, it’s lost in the noise
See based on my conversations with close mates we always read profiles and are more drawn to people within our preferences. You have a great profile "
Aww, thank you! |
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"I don't think my profile reflects who I am, I hope I'm a lot nicer in person than how my profile reads. Neither does it say what I want, because I haven't a clue "
Yours was too long for me to get to the end |
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"To be fair to me my profile is usually quite good and very specific and maybe a bit too lengthy. I just can’t be arsed at the moment. I plan to make more effort in the new year
Spanks bum.. must do better Nora. "
Yes miss |
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These days, when it's visible, mine basically says "bugger off I'm not interested"...but in a nice way
I've had various different styles of profile in the past, from long and descriptive to short and sarcastic. And on the whole I've found that it does generally alter the kind of messages that you receive (yes, there will always be a minority that obviously haven't read a single word...even with a hidden profile I still get messages )
I'm not sure any of them would have told you too much about me though, some I hope would have at least conveyed what I was looking for at the time. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that mine is a fairly decent representation of who I am. It doesn’t set out what I’m directly looking for but if a person likes my profile, that generally means that we’ll get on at the very least. In that sense it works well.
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I think that mine is a fairly decent representation of who I am. It doesn’t set out what I’m directly looking for but if a person likes my profile, that generally means that we’ll get on at the very least. In that sense it works well.
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And yet you’re so not that serious in real life
Testies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a few people message me from it and some had read it as well, so Fab miracles definitely happen.
I think it's accurate, mind you, you wouldn't know if I'm only being fab honest though! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My profile babbles a load of shite.
So it's much like me....
But I think it's pretty clear. Maybe. Like mud.
Apt for a dirty mind then? I think it’s very you.. "
Full of shite and a deviant comedy genius? |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"My profile babbles a load of shite.
So it's much like me....
But I think it's pretty clear. Maybe. Like mud.
Apt for a dirty mind then? I think it’s very you..
Full of shite and a deviant comedy genius? "
Sums it up I think |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I think that mine is a fairly decent representation of who I am. It doesn’t set out what I’m directly looking for but if a person likes my profile, that generally means that we’ll get on at the very least. In that sense it works well.
And yet you’re so not that serious in real life
Testies "
Don’t get testie with me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm open to everything. sex, connection, friendship, chatting. I think mine says enough about me for people to decide if they want to find out. Maybe.
If they want to know I have a big cock then they will ask right? Or should I put that on the profile?
If someone looks at mine and isn't bothered then we are not meant to have any of the aforementioned desires I reckon |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
Buckley North Wales |
Our's is wordy. But I hope, it is sufficiently well structured and organized, to be easily understood with clear key salient points.
We endeavour to be honest and upfront about who we are. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My profile babbles a load of shite.
So it's much like me....
But I think it's pretty clear. Maybe. Like mud.
Apt for a dirty mind then? I think it’s very you..
Full of shite and a deviant comedy genius?
Sums it up I think "
Well you know me.... I'm succinct |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I guess most people are happy with the content of their profiles. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think its more how it's received than how it's meant.
Like many, I'd love some proper feedback on mine, but obviously I know it CAN'T appeal to everyone. There are some right shockers on the site and I'd be happier knowing mine wasn't thought of that way.
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"I don't think there's much of my personality in my profile, but I'm pretty clear on what I'm looking for so at least reading it *should* cut down on the "meet now, I'm within half a mile" messages.
It doesn't, but it should.
Oh I think "titsy Ronnie Corbett" has personality "
If not it at least draws attention to my tits, which is always good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's much of my personality in my profile, but I'm pretty clear on what I'm looking for so at least reading it *should* cut down on the "meet now, I'm within half a mile" messages.
It doesn't, but it should.
Oh I think "titsy Ronnie Corbett" has personality
If not it at least draws attention to my tits, which is always good "
Two tits with one stone
I also deliver Ronnie--esque stories |
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You could write I’ll give you a million quid if you reply with “xyz” hidden in the middle and I bet it would go unnoticed for ages…
There are those that are interested in you & then those that want only to get their rocks off…
Hopefully the former will read, digest & message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope as depends on what gender you are depends on what I am looking for
Woman looking for more social side rather than just straight up play
Couples some social and play ither or is fine
Tv/ts more friends and see what happens
Guys just straight up play
In past profile I write big profile and it got ignored so don’t really see the point
Profile text is just there as a stander gude line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last profile blurb was nothing short of war and peace (along the lines of "I am a dynamic figure, often seen scaling walls and crushing ice..." if you don't know it, google it!), trying too hard, I think now.
Current one (I hope) is a little more 'me'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it extremely hard to write a bio , it difficult to get the right blend of seriousness and humour without sounding like a dick.
The written word can be taken in some many ways from different people perspective and sometimes the context is lose.. well that’s my view anywho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like everything just a bit sarcastic and fun but haven't looked at it in ages so it's probably meh
Nice when someone says a few things they are into so you can check mutual interests or strike up a convo |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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I think it tells others what I seek and gives the reader a sense of my personality. After that its up to them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think ours is quite blunt, direct yet polite and non ranty.
I often get told I'm a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it and that comes across in the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t know you tell me! I think it’s sums me up but happy to add or remove bits
Couldn’t get past the profile pic soz "
Perv
I liked it, think it sums you up as you come across in the forum |
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"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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Nah, ours is shit at the moment. It's not been touched for over a year text-wise. I just keep adding pictures of my boobs at random intervals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I wrote a profile that reflected who I was and what I am looking for, but from 90% of my message it doesn't seem to have worked. So I am guessing it does seem to matter what a woman puts on her profile. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
"Well that would be a novelty wouldn’t it?!?
But if I did… would I get a feel for you as a human and what you actually want from fab?!?!
Having written bibles, scrapped it entirely, come back with a short sarcastic version.. I do wonder if the profile is actually important for the kind you want to attract…
So how do you play it?!? Do you clearly portray what you want?!?!
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Not sure how my profile looks to others and I don't really bother much how people see me there.
That's why its best to attend socials/lifestyle clubs so folks can get to know me and me them. Saves so much time. If reaching out on fab I encourage no expectation coffee/drink meets too, obviously when time is right to propose, to test how serious people on fab are. Most flake out at that point. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
"Mine keeps getting shorter and shorter, edit by edit.
Have been tinkering with a new burbage, but all is not quite ready to be revealed just yet.. "
Less is best, in my view. I hope to keep my profile limited as much as possible. |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
Mine is fairly succinct - says probably too much about me, but not lengthy. A bit dull, I suppose, totally unlike how I am in real life. But, no-one ever reads it anyway! |
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