So last night I got a message on another site from a guy saying 'god you're rough, I'd hate to wake up next to you!'
Now, me bring me, I simply responded saying' good job you will never get the offer to huh'
We sparred for a bit, me pointing out how dull his life must be if he had to go round messaging people he didn't like etc
Then all of a sudden he asked me to send him a pic of my pussy  saying all the stuff before was a joke and he had an odd sense of humour 
Seems like a very strange way of getting someone to fuck you to me!!! |
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over a year ago
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I've had messages similar to that on this site, I've mailed them to ask why the felt the need to be insulting .... the reply is usually the same. To Be Noticed.
They freely admit that they get more mail answered if they are rude rather than nice.
Like naughty children really aren't they? any attention is better than no attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes men think they can say something and think its ok to say something like that !!!
your better off off that other site if thats the messages you get! |
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"Sometimes men think they can say something and think its ok to say something like that !!!
your better off off that other site if thats the messages you get!"
Don't use it that often to be fair althougb did meet one nice guy on there.
I guess they are right about getting more responses that way as I love winding them up haha
But he was deadly serious about wanting to meet me |
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"I've had messages similar to that on this site, I've mailed them to ask why the felt the need to be insulting .... the reply is usually the same. To Be Noticed.
They freely admit that they get more mail answered if they are rude rather than nice.
Like naughty children really aren't they? any attention is better than no attention. "
Sad, but true for some. I received a message titled "black bitch" sent solely to get my attention.
...it worked...unfortunately for him!  |
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Yes I've had this happen too but it is a childish way to attract attention n provoke a response so I tend to do the opposite n just delete n block soon reaches them a lesson! I even had one guy, after this happening set up a new profile to apologise n explain he didn't mean to cause offence, was just trying to actually strike up a convo by provoking a negative, to turn it into a positive later through banter. |
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"I've had messages similar to that on this site, I've mailed them to ask why the felt the need to be insulting .... the reply is usually the same. To Be Noticed.
They freely admit that they get more mail answered if they are rude rather than nice.
Like naughty children really aren't they? any attention is better than no attention. "
... anmd just like 'naughty children', there is actually some really clever psychology going on in the background - which is why you respond that type of message.
Won't work with everyone, but it will with many - as, psychologically, it hits the they sender wants to press.... and that's mainly the 'Reply' one...
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
If someone believes that insulting me will result in me messaging them then they'll be pretty surprised when I report their message as abusive and block them.
Can't be arsed to spar with them - I prefer to spend time messaging people I will meet. |
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Ive had the odd message like that before, where they send you a message thats a bit rude and you scratch your head and think why?? for them to say its just their sence of humor and they said it to get my attention and it works! which is true but they got my attention for the wrong reasons
Now i can take a joke if its someone i know and i know they are messing and its just banter, but from someone you have never messaged before mailing them with a insult just isnt going to work surely? |
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"Ive had the odd message like that before, where they send you a message thats a bit rude and you scratch your head and think why?? for them to say its just their sence of humor and they said it to get my attention and it works! which is true but they got my attention for the wrong reasons
Now i can take a joke if its someone i know and i know they are messing and its just banter, but from someone you have never messaged before mailing them with a insult just isnt going to work surely?"
NN - it's the same psychology as in the annoying cold-call sales call we all unfortunately get. The WORST thing you can do is have a go back at the caller, as in doing so, you have started that strange thing called a ..... CONVERSATION. And, once that has been done, no matter how obtuse or at odds with the the true intent, the caller can (if skilled enough) turn it to their advantage - it happens time after time..
So... remember that next time someone sends you one of those messages... and just bin it (unless they have great public pics of course....  Lol!!!!
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