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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man? "
We wish we knew. It's bloody annoying. It's as if they don't realise that the lady of another couple has to be attracted to the man. It makes finding suitable couples very difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man? "
Do you ever ask them why directly?
That’s a serious question by the way, I’ve always wondered the same thing but have never asked them why. I think I might start asking them in future. |
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man?
Do you ever ask them why directly?
That’s a serious question by the way, I’ve always wondered the same thing but have never asked them why. I think I might start asking them in future. "
Thought I would ask here to reach a wider audience? |
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man?
Do you ever ask them why directly?
That’s a serious question by the way, I’ve always wondered the same thing but have never asked them why. I think I might start asking them in future.
Thought I would ask here to reach a wider audience? "
Probably the same as most singles joining for one week and then not active for three months! |
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Weve put one of each. And have a face pic in our friends photos.
But yes I also find this annoying. I know that my partner wouldn’t want loads of pics of him up. So we are going to keep it to a minimum so there’s not loads of me. I have my singles profile with more pics of me (Mrs) |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man? "
Because our photos are to showcase what we like to do, which isn’t finding other couples to swap with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This question pops up in the forums regularly.
For us, it's or dynamics.
In short, Mr plays only with Mrs Cheeky, where as Mrs is keen to join in with others.
Away from that, generally speaking, I think Men tend to be more visual and therefore more likely to be the one taking the pictures.
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As Cheeky duo above said, this is getting to be a weekly question.
We are mainly looking for single men and ts/tv's for me. So no real need for Mr pics.
We only play with couples in clubs. As he's there, they can see him, so again no need for pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because it's a couples profile, doesn't mean they both play. Hotwife couple profiles especially it's only the woman who plays, hence why only pictures of her.
Whatever the reason, it's their profile and their choice. Don't worry about it  |
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It is their profile to do as they wish but yes if both are actively looking to play then it would help them having pics of both.
We don’t worry about other profiles - if there’s no pics of Mr on their profile and we are keen we message and ask. If they are reluctant to show pics, we’ll move on. So it’s a filter.
K
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Because Hotwives are a very popular dynamic in couples where as him/them playing is rarer, they are there you just have to search for them, I normally check the profile text first on couples profiles then go to the pics, if I think we are suited  |
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"This question pops up in the forums regularly.
For us, it's or dynamics.
In short, Mr plays only with Mrs Cheeky, where as Mrs is keen to join in with others.
Lovely mixture very sexy couple
Away from that, generally speaking, I think Men tend to be more visual and therefore more likely to be the one taking the pictures.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It's a bugbear of mine (I'm half a couple) if they want to meet other couples or ladies, they should have 1 or 2 of the man too.
If we get any winks/messages now from these profiles, we delete, experience has shown in the past when I finally do get a pic, there's been no attraction.
I'm straight, so seeing the male is really important to me.
It makes me think it's all about the woman of the profile having fun, unless there is just her that plays, then I get where there's no shots of the mr.
Everyone is free to run their profile how they wish though, just avoid the ones that don't suit. |
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"It is their profile to do as they wish but yes if both are actively looking to play then it would help them having pics of both.
We don’t worry about other profiles - if there’s no pics of Mr on their profile and we are keen we message and ask. If they are reluctant to show pics, we’ll move on. So it’s a filter.
K
K"
Very sexy pics. Great profile x  |
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"It's a bugbear of mine (I'm half a couple) if they want to meet other couples or ladies, they should have 1 or 2 of the man too.
If we get any winks/messages now from these profiles, we delete, experience has shown in the past when I finally do get a pic, there's been no attraction.
I'm straight, so seeing the male is really important to me.
It makes me think it's all about the woman of the profile having fun, unless there is just her that plays, then I get where there's no shots of the mr.
Everyone is free to run their profile how they wish though, just avoid the ones that don't suit. "
Thank you for that. I get a lot of couples message me and I find they don't have a lot of the man just thought I'd ask. Xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe he's a munter.
Just kidding 
Totally get it if it's just the woman looking to play or they're looking for MMF and the guy isn't bi but if they're both looking to play it is a bit weird. "
Munter
Many a true word is spoken in jest.  |
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"So sorry to ask never seen in in threads before. Thanks for all the polite replies. That has answered my questions.  "
Never be sorry. People forget that not everyone has been on here forever and seen all the threads on here. Welcome to the forums x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So sorry to ask never seen in in threads before. Thanks for all the polite replies. That has answered my questions. "
Keep asking questions. If people don't want to answer they shouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe he's a munter.
Just kidding
Totally get it if it's just the woman looking to play or they're looking for MMF and the guy isn't bi but if they're both looking to play it is a bit weird. "
All this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guilty of this. Simply, my husband hates pictures. I've managed to nab a few with him in and have a private face pic but otherwise he doesn't like them. |
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Each to their own on how they run their profiles and it can all depend on what a couple is looking for
We have a mix of both of us although I’d say 70% are of me. Our friend pics are of us together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Mrs P) put in all the leg work on here so i'm going to milk the spotlight for all it's worth theres loads of friends only photos of him though, annoyingly hes much better looking than me so I keep him hiding in the darkness |
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K"
I love this description |
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K
I love this description "
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah the mrs also struggles with this, either none of the man or just one dick pic. I always tell her but it’s a profile and the people behind choose what goes on it, if it’s not for you move on find a more suited one. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K
I love this description
LvM"
It's pretty accurate You're a great attention whore Lorenzo. x |
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K
I love this description
LvM
It's pretty accurate You're a great attention whore Lorenzo. x"
I am grateful for the attention whoring that provides a steady stream of nice pictures to look at |
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K
I love this description
LvM
It's pretty accurate You're a great attention whore Lorenzo. x
I am grateful for the attention whoring that provides a steady stream of nice pictures to look at "
Then I shall continue to whore it up ladies
LvM |
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Our public pictures were originally just one of each of us to give an idea of what we look like, but found I enjoyed sharing my pics, and it then maybe got a little out of hand. Call it a vanity project.
Our private pictures are a good mix of both of us and are shared with people we are interested in meeting or talking to.
So to our mind, the public pictures don’t really matter, nobodies entitled to see any pics of us, unless we are planning on meeting or talking to them, in which case they absolutely get to see both of us.
We also attach pics of both of us when we send a message to people we’re interested in, so don’t really see it as important what is publicly on show for people just browsing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the wife never takes the pics she refuses and lets me do as i want - our pic sessions quickly result in fucking and dildo action and often pics fucked up as was our recent video etc becuse i get too excited and cant wait to dildo her but use the love egg befroehand |
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"Not ours, my OH is an attention whore so he posts more pictures of himself that he does of me in his defence it's normally to participate in daily forum body part threads.
K"
And both very sexy x |
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"So sorry to ask never seen in in threads before. Thanks for all the polite replies. That has answered my questions.
Never be sorry. People forget that not everyone has been on here forever and seen all the threads on here. Welcome to the forums x"
Thank you for the warm welcome some people need to follow the rule (if you have nothing nice to say) |
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"Our public pictures were originally just one of each of us to give an idea of what we look like, but found I enjoyed sharing my pics, and it then maybe got a little out of hand. Call it a vanity project.
Our private pictures are a good mix of both of us and are shared with people we are interested in meeting or talking to.
So to our mind, the public pictures don’t really matter, nobodies entitled to see any pics of us, unless we are planning on meeting or talking to them, in which case they absolutely get to see both of us.
We also attach pics of both of us when we send a message to people we’re interested in, so don’t really see it as important what is publicly on show for people just browsing."
Very true no one is entitled. Was just meaning the couples who messaged me x |
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This may be another useful insight for you OP.
As a couple we don’t live together so time is limited with taking photos of both of us though it is important to us that we do so.
When they are just photos of one half of a couple it does raise some red flags for us especially if they do live together.
Beard x
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We noticed that a few times, but we would be forward and ask them directly, we don’t just base everything on the profile, because it’s just a small part of the people behind it. Obviously first impressions count etc. |
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"This may be another useful insight for you OP.
As a couple we don’t live together so time is limited with taking photos of both of us though it is important to us that we do so.
When they are just photos of one half of a couple it does raise some red flags for us especially if they do live together.
Beard x
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Thank you you have joint pics on tho and are a very sexy couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to keep ours quite balanced but I have noticed Danish gets more attention than I do. So chances are that's the reason because the guys dont get much out of it, whereas, the women get gratification in the way of fabs.
I can count how many fabs any of my pictures get but compared to Danish I might as well have none
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"This may be another useful insight for you OP.
As a couple we don’t live together so time is limited with taking photos of both of us though it is important to us that we do so.
When they are just photos of one half of a couple it does raise some red flags for us especially if they do live together.
Beard x
Thank you you have joint pics on tho and are a very sexy couple "
Thank you  though TG is the better half of sexy |
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man? "
Because its their/our choice but if someone wants to see a pic of him they only have to ask..
X Storm X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's only so many cockshots a man can take before it's repetitive. Our face photos tend to be kept to friends only. For women there is an array of lingerie and costumes for us to pose in to entice fellow fabbers which makes taking pictures more fun too |
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"Why do most of the couples profiles have loads of pics of the women but barely any (if any) of the man?
Because its their/our choice but if someone wants to see a pic of him they only have to ask..
X Storm X "
Yours does have you both in |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Dynamics. It depends what everyone is looking for. Though it does make it hard for me as a single woman to gauge a couple I’m talking to is the dynamic I’m looking for when it’s only photos of the woman. |
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