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Making love to a stranger??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I was the only one that is cofused here. What are you trying to say/ask, OP?
Don't worry mate we make a hash of it sometimes so dont be shy comeback and explain
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"How does making love to a stranger...and you enjoy it more... make your relationship stronger..or just plain fucking...lol....is something missing, Just question..."
It makes some relationships stronger because it fulfils a fantasy or two and they feel more connected afterwards.
Swingers generally don't like the implication that something is missing from their relationship but in some cases there is something missing and they hope to find it in casual sex. I don't think this is wrong, no relationship can be all things to each partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How does making love to a stranger...and you enjoy it more... make your relationship stronger..or just plain fucking...lol....is something missing, Just question..."
How does fucking a stranger make your relationship stronger?
Do you enjoy it more, or is it just fucking?
Or is something missing?
This is my estimated translation until op get back to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only make love with my husband. But I love to fuck other people. Firstly I have a very high sex drive (generally), secondly I enjoy variation as it does get samey with the same person, and lastly the more I have sex the more I want it and who doesn't want sex extremely often? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a cuck we get many, many contacts from men that theink they are Gods gift to women inc self proclaimed studs and they always say they want to make love. I've given up telling them off now but if they call making one night stands and most likley cheating on their OH, love, then its a sad world.
We call it fucking or used to when we used to do this weekly.
I'm not referring to the OP and I'm sure he will put us all straight |
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The term "making love" to me implies there is feelings involved.
Although I have to have a kind of connection with someone to have sex I wouldn't call it feelings and definitely would not say I was "making love" with a stranger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the whole notion of "making love" is flawed. Sex is a physical activity that we are programmed to enjoy and this enjoyment can be in many levels from the purely physical to the intensely emotional. What it doesn't do is make love. Love doesn't need sex at all, I love my mum for example, and I have had sex with lots of people I didn't love.
The other part of your question is also flawed, swinging isn't (at least for most) about making your relationship stronger it is about an activity you enjoy. Some swing together, others apart. I run with my girlfriend because we enjoy it - no one has ever questioned why it makes our relationship stronger and we certainly don't consider that when planning a run (ok, I may consider less hills next time so she doesn't tell me she's not my friend again  )
I would argue that for the majority singing is a sign of an already strong relationship, it requires a high degree of trust for a start.
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