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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a friend (yes a real one) looking to join Fab. She has no romantic interest in men, has only had girlfriends, and only desires intimacy (or any type of relationship) with women.
The complicated bit is that she has slept with men, and still occasionally likes cock for just a pure fuck. No kissing, oral, limited or no eye contact, and nothing intimate or romantic. She'd let the male half of couples play with her (partly because she wouldn't want to leave them out), and even the occasional single guy if in the mood, as long as it's just penetration and literally nothing else.
When it comes to her profile and setting expectations fairly on here, do you think she's better off with a gay/lesbian profile and stating she'll allow limited male contact with couples. Or sign up as bisexual but with a profile that's heavily bias toward female only play?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send her my way if she wants girly play hehehe.
I would say to block men but allow couples? Have her profile as bi but heavily leaning towards females and state she likes the occasional nsa fuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab lesbian ?
Imo she's bisexual but I'd make the profile clear what shes looking for ...
Hahahaha she can start a new trend xx"
A bit like fab straight men |
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I think she should say lesbian so she doesn’t get swamped by knobheads and she can stealthily find her male prey and set clear expectations on her terms x just as long as you agree to shag me half to death then all the important points are covered!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a friend (yes a real one) looking to join Fab. She has no romantic interest in men, has only had girlfriends, and only desires intimacy (or any type of relationship) with women.
The complicated bit is that she has slept with men, and still occasionally likes cock for just a pure fuck. No kissing, oral, limited or no eye contact, and nothing intimate or romantic. She'd let the male half of couples play with her (partly because she wouldn't want to leave them out), and even the occasional single guy if in the mood, as long as it's just penetration and literally nothing else.
When it comes to her profile and setting expectations fairly on here, do you think she's better off with a gay/lesbian profile and stating she'll allow limited male contact with couples. Or sign up as bisexual but with a profile that's heavily bias toward female only play?
Thanks Xx"
I’d definitely go for limiting messages too, profile reading doesn’t seem to be a priority for a lot of people……  |
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I’d block men and go searching when she wants cock.
That way she can focus on her target audience, women and women from couples, with an occasional fuck with the guy from a couple. I’d get her to detail in her profile exactly what she’s looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message filters to the maximum. Women only. Until she finds her feet….and a couple of verifications. Too many single men pretending to be couples. I hope she has lots of fun! Xx |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I have a friend (yes a real one) looking to join Fab. She has no romantic interest in men, has only had girlfriends, and only desires intimacy (or any type of relationship) with women.
The complicated bit is that she has slept with men, and still occasionally likes cock for just a pure fuck. No kissing, oral, limited or no eye contact, and nothing intimate or romantic. She'd let the male half of couples play with her (partly because she wouldn't want to leave them out), and even the occasional single guy if in the mood, as long as it's just penetration and literally nothing else.
When it comes to her profile and setting expectations fairly on here, do you think she's better off with a gay/lesbian profile and stating she'll allow limited male contact with couples. Or sign up as bisexual but with a profile that's heavily bias toward female only play?
Thanks Xx"
I have had this discussion a lot and have commented in tbe forums. I have been involved on and off in LGBT community for many years.
This us my interpretation.
Bisexuality is a sliding scale, hetro at one end and gay at the other. Bisexuality is between tbe two.
Hetro end you have Bi playful the other serious Bisexuality prefer sex with women more than men.
The thing that distinguishes BI from Gay is the emotional attachment, relationship etc. with the same sex. Or only want to have sex with the same sex (NSA) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a friend (yes a real one) looking to join Fab. She has no romantic interest in men, has only had girlfriends, and only desires intimacy (or any type of relationship) with women.
The complicated bit is that she has slept with men, and still occasionally likes cock for just a pure fuck. No kissing, oral, limited or no eye contact, and nothing intimate or romantic. She'd let the male half of couples play with her (partly because she wouldn't want to leave them out), and even the occasional single guy if in the mood, as long as it's just penetration and literally nothing else.
When it comes to her profile and setting expectations fairly on here, do you think she's better off with a gay/lesbian profile and stating she'll allow limited male contact with couples. Or sign up as bisexual but with a profile that's heavily bias toward female only play?
Thanks Xx
I have had this discussion a lot and have commented in tbe forums. I have been involved on and off in LGBT community for many years.
This us my interpretation.
Bisexuality is a sliding scale, hetro at one end and gay at the other. Bisexuality is between tbe two.
Hetro end you have Bi playful the other serious Bisexuality prefer sex with women more than men.
The thing that distinguishes BI from Gay is the emotional attachment, relationship etc. with the same sex. Or only want to have sex with the same sex (NSA)"
You can be bisexual and biromantic.
Sexual preference vs attraction/romance very different.
I identify as pansexual/panromantic.
I always found when I was younger in the gay “scene” that the lesbian girls didn’t like us bisexual girls because they thought we’d go off and sleep with men. I’m hoping times have changed now.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Getting flooded by single guys is a concern. So yeah, either really tight filters, or state she's lesbian and then just get a cock occasionally when she's with a couple anyway or find a guy after a quickie.
She identifies and gay/lesbian. But was talking to me about what would be best on here. She's really doesn't want to leave male halfs of couples out as they thinks that's totally unfair. But has rarely met men alone so just use their cocks. She even avoids eye contact with men so it's really a physical only thing for her, mentally and emotionally she's not interested in the slightest xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting flooded by single guys is a concern. So yeah, either really tight filters, or state she's lesbian and then just get a cock occasionally when she's with a couple anyway or find a guy after a quickie.
She identifies and gay/lesbian. But was talking to me about what would be best on here. She's really doesn't want to leave male halfs of couples out as they thinks that's totally unfair. But has rarely met men alone so just use their cocks. She even avoids eye contact with men so it's really a physical only thing for her, mentally and emotionally she's not interested in the slightest xx"
Sounds like she knows her own mind. If she can articulate that she’s onto a winner. Filters filters filters and use that block button.
Wishing her luck .
I do think fab ought to do a fabgirls site like they do for the boys hmmmm. I’d be on it in a flash haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting flooded by single guys is a concern. So yeah, either really tight filters, or state she's lesbian and then just get a cock occasionally when she's with a couple anyway or find a guy after a quickie.
She identifies and gay/lesbian. But was talking to me about what would be best on here. She's really doesn't want to leave male halfs of couples out as they thinks that's totally unfair. But has rarely met men alone so just use their cocks. She even avoids eye contact with men so it's really a physical only thing for her, mentally and emotionally she's not interested in the slightest xx
Sounds like she knows her own mind. If she can articulate that she’s onto a winner. Filters filters filters and use that block button.
Wishing her luck .
I do think fab ought to do a fabgirls site like they do for the boys hmmmm. I’d be on it in a flash haha "
Great idea  great for the social side, not just for fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting flooded by single guys is a concern. So yeah, either really tight filters, or state she's lesbian and then just get a cock occasionally when she's with a couple anyway or find a guy after a quickie.
She identifies and gay/lesbian. But was talking to me about what would be best on here. She's really doesn't want to leave male halfs of couples out as they thinks that's totally unfair. But has rarely met men alone so just use their cocks. She even avoids eye contact with men so it's really a physical only thing for her, mentally and emotionally she's not interested in the slightest xx"
Lesbian/ gay
I think the tick box says gay
Definitely she should block men. |
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"Getting flooded by single guys is a concern. So yeah, either really tight filters, or state she's lesbian and then just get a cock occasionally when she's with a couple anyway or find a guy after a quickie.
She identifies and gay/lesbian. But was talking to me about what would be best on here. She's really doesn't want to leave male halfs of couples out as they thinks that's totally unfair. But has rarely met men alone so just use their cocks. She even avoids eye contact with men so it's really a physical only thing for her, mentally and emotionally she's not interested in the slightest xx"
The single guys and guys from couples who she chooses to have sex with will think they’ve hit the jackpot, turning a lesbian 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Does it matter. She can be as honest as she likes or live in a fantasy. Either way she will still get the usual 400 messages asking to meet now and when she says no she'll get dogs abuse from the same dude. |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Does it matter. She can be as honest as she likes or live in a fantasy. Either way she will still get the usual 400 messages asking to meet now and when she says no she'll get dogs abuse from the same dude. "
Not if she uses filters and the block button.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She sounds like a pretty unusual gal "
A probably bisexual with an extreme preference for one over the other... Not that strange, I've seen plenty of women on here looking for women and only the occasional single guy or couple. And lots of guys looking for girls but will suck the occasional dick but no anal. Sexual preference isn't strictly binary for many. Especially on here  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"True true. Sorry if that came across as me being arsey. Certainly not my intention "
That's ok. But that also the real reason for the post. She doesn't want to get swamped by people offering her what she doesn't want. Most women in here unfortunately have that frustration or pressure.
Hence the debate is she better off with a lesbian profile and play with the odd cock. Or state bi but then have the potential headache of filtering out the noise xx |
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"I have a friend (yes a real one) looking to join Fab. She has no romantic interest in men, has only had girlfriends, and only desires intimacy (or any type of relationship) with women.
The complicated bit is that she has slept with men, and still occasionally likes cock for just a pure fuck. No kissing, oral, limited or no eye contact, and nothing intimate or romantic. She'd let the male half of couples play with her (partly because she wouldn't want to leave them out), and even the occasional single guy if in the mood, as long as it's just penetration and literally nothing else.
When it comes to her profile and setting expectations fairly on here, do you think she's better off with a gay/lesbian profile and stating she'll allow limited male contact with couples. Or sign up as bisexual but with a profile that's heavily bias toward female only play?
Thanks Xx"
****Waving furiously here****
Always happy to help a friend of a friend out! Not sure if I'm out of her age range bit always happy to dress in uniform to appear younger
(eeewwh bit wrong perhaps)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"True true. Sorry if that came across as me being arsey. Certainly not my intention
That's ok. But that also the real reason for the post. She doesn't want to get swamped by people offering her what she doesn't want. Most women in here unfortunately have that frustration or pressure.
Hence the debate is she better off with a lesbian profile and play with the odd cock. Or state bi but then have the potential headache of filtering out the noise xx"
I’d say the former as that leaves her the choice of as and when |
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