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How often should you be having sex each month?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"'how often should you be having sex?'
I'd say five times a week, like the other post said.
Personally for me and my life atm zero  "
I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount |
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"'how often should you be having sex?'
I'd say five times a week, like the other post said.
Personally for me and my life atm zero
I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount "
You don't die from no sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should?
There's no such thing as "should" when it comes to sex other than honesty, respecting boundaries and communication.
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Maybe I'd be best to change this to "would like" and also do both partners need to have similar numbers in order to stay together? |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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There are no shoulds.
When I'm with a partner I like at least once a day. At least.
I just like LOTS of intimacy. Doesn't have to be sex but please yes, plenty, lots, multiple and lots in a month.  |
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"Should?
There's no such thing as "should" when it comes to sex other than honesty, respecting boundaries and communication.
Maybe I'd be best to change this to "would like" and also do both partners need to have similar numbers in order to stay together?"
If they are only using each other for sex YES.
If they see each other as human beings that they love for themselves then NO |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should be having the amount you want, as should your partner.
If those numbers mostly match up, all the better  "
And if those numbers are a country mile from each other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! |
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"You should be having the amount you want, as should your partner.
If those numbers mostly match up, all the better
And if those numbers are a country mile from each other?"
Then it’s time for an honest chat together. How that chat goes should indicate what next |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll take both weekend days and a lazy but quick midweek morning fuck please. And a bit of fumbling on the sofa most nights. "
I'd take this as a compromise, have to compromise, don't think you can ever get what you want |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!"
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A deadbedroom is clinically given to be no more than once a month so hopefully more than that 
It varies with partners you gotta have a happy medium after the new relationship energy wears off. Once a week could be fine with someone but you may need it 5-7 times a week with someone else.
There is no set demand on any individual relationship as every relationship dynamic is different |
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"'how often should you be having sex?'
I'd say five times a week, like the other post said.
Personally for me and my life atm zero
I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount
You don't die from no sex. "
The species might...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal"
No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month! |
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"More than I’m having now
I hope you don't mind me saying but your boobs are incredible!
Hell no I don’t Mind. Thank you…it’s all in the angle 
Whatever it is you're doing it's working  "
I would happily trade your figure  |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!"
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal
No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month!"
Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them  |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months "
Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards!
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal
No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month!
Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them "
Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months "
Awww I've heard that sex life gets better again once the kids are older...?  |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal
No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month!
Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them
Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t! "
I’m pretty sure that’s frowned upon |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months
Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards!
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it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal
No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month!
Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them
Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t!
I’m pretty sure that’s frowned upon "
Meh, give em 20 Rothmans and a half bottle of whiskey, they’ll keep themselves amused! |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months
Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards!
it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue "
I’ve got a tent! |
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited..
I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!
I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months
Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards!
it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue
I’ve got a tent! "
Not in this weather, not sure my chesticles and your testicles would survive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'how often should you be having sex?'
I'd say five times a week, like the other post said.
Personally for me and my life atm zero
I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount "
Correct that's why I'd never get married |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"'how often should you be having sex?'
I'd say five times a week, like the other post said.
Personally for me and my life atm zero
I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount
Correct that's why I'd never get married "
You get married for other reasons lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"These threads really brings out the bullshitters
Care to elaborate?
People come out with stuff like they have sex 5 times a day and they’re partners can’t get enough of them blah blah blah "
I think the reality is one half would like this, however the other is more like once every 2 weeks one big factor is time to do it, couples have busy lives, some people don't prioritize sex highly |
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition."
I don't think it counts if you're just doing yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition."
True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition.
True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last?"
I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've yet to have sex even once in 2021...so if say my average is pretty shit.
What would I like, once a week would be something, couple times a month...anything! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People have sex every month 
That's why condoms come in packs of 12, one for each month "
Lol joker maybe they should have days of the week written on them instead, couples might get more sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week."
12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition.
True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last?
I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person."
Correct  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week.
12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time. "
You make it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition.
True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last?
I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person."
I suppose if you think it's an issue, then you are only thinking about yourself? Having time to have sex is the biggest killer with busy life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week.
12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time.
You make it."
I'd rather make time for more important things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week."
Fuck your dick would fall off! you also couldn't get to work let alone any house work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition.
True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last?
I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person.
Correct "
Also compromising plays a big part here, if you can't do this you will fail |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week.
Just do you, it's not a competition."
I’ve been doing me for a while now. I don’t think that’s what you meant though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had a partner that lives with me, then I’d want it almost daily. But I’d be happy with 2-3 times a week if it’s a situation o with someone who doesn’t live with me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I had a partner that lives with me, then I’d want it almost daily. But I’d be happy with 2-3 times a week if it’s a situation o with someone who doesn’t live with me.
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So what if your partner would have it once a fortnight? Bare in mind both your busy life styles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Jan. 3 times. All On New Year’s Day.
Feb. 28 times but 29 if it’s a leap year
March 0 I need to recover
Apr once, on my birthday
May once. Hopefully on someone’s birthday
June July August and September. None at all, too sweaty for that malarkey.
Oct Nov Dec 3 times everyday to keep warm.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I'll take both weekend days and a lazy but quick midweek morning fuck please. And a bit of fumbling on the sofa most nights. "
That sounds a good level , I’d up it a just little bit , weekend sexathon, couple of midweeks and a daily act of subservience would do for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thirty days hath September, April, June and November. All the rest have thirty-one, Excepting February alone, And that has twenty-eight days clear And twenty-nine in each leap year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jan. 3 times. All On New Year’s Day.
Feb. 28 times but 29 if it’s a leap year
March 0 I need to recover
Apr once, on my birthday
May once. Hopefully on someone’s birthday
June July August and September. None at all, too sweaty for that malarkey.
Oct Nov Dec 3 times everyday to keep warm.
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"People have sex every month
That's why condoms come in packs of 12, one for each month
Lol joker maybe they should have days of the week written on them instead, couples might get more sex "
Am I the only person who's thinking "condom advent calendar"? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Put a sweetie in a jar every time you have sex before having children.
Take a sweetie out of the jar every time you have sex after having children.
Probably never empty the jar...
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Good idea then give them the empty jar once they leave for uni! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jan. 3 times. All On New Year’s Day.
Feb. 28 times but 29 if it’s a leap year
March 0 I need to recover
Apr once, on my birthday
May once. Hopefully on someone’s birthday
June July August and September. None at all, too sweaty for that malarkey.
Oct Nov Dec 3 times everyday to keep warm.
Love this planner "
Things never go to plan though. |
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