Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
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Unfortunately I have my messages open for most of the time, due to the social but luckily don't get too many messages now... I often just ignore my inbox or delete anything not social related or from someone I know already know  |
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"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.
I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages. "
Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly  . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear  . |
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"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.
I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.
Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear . "
I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel. |
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"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.
I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.
Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear .
I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel."
Well you're certainly not alone in that  |
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"I don’t have them blocked never have and Anabelle your beautiful
Aww Nat.. you have always been lovely to me and the feeling is very much mutual "
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"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.
I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.
Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear .
I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel.
Well you're certainly not alone in that "
That's good to know...I used to/ have felt a bit bad about it in the past.
Like you said ... I just did have the energy...the head space for it!
I'm in good company, thats for sure
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"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
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Can I be blocked again please |
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"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
Can I be blocked again please "
No you bloody well can't  x |
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"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
Can I be blocked again please
No you bloody well can't x"
DAMMIT!!!!
Why not?  |
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"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
Can I be blocked again please
No you bloody well can't x
DAMMIT!!!!
Why not? "
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"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.
I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.
Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?
If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?
Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?
I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.
Can I be blocked again please
No you bloody well can't x
DAMMIT!!!!
Why not?
My finger ..my rules "
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I have nothing on my looking for list.
Quiet inbox.
Sometimes I tick the boxes again and within a few hours wonder why the hell I bothered.
There's only so much being seen as a hole you can stomach before it fucks with your head in regards to wanting to engage with people or giving people the opportunity to engage with you.
I know there are decent people here, but in much the same way men say they feel invisible, women can too, except the thing that's invisible towards women most of the time is respect. |
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