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Chicks before dicks girl code

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Alright slutes, so I am kind of hungover today and I was thinking a lot on the whole situation when it comes to (girl) friends and their love/sex interest …or your love/sex interests and your own girl friends

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

I’ve never betrayed a girl friend this way, and I’d be kinda put off by a guy if I know he was involved with her in the first place! And I think it’s a very shitty thing to do (like I’d hate it if it was my bestie trying to sleep or snatching the guys I’m interested in.)

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter.

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Alright slutes, so I am kind of hungover today and I was thinking a lot on the whole situation when it comes to (girl) friends and their love/sex interest …or your love/sex interests and your own girl friends

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter."

What about if it’s someone your friend likes but they for example are in a hook up only situation.

And that person comes onto you but you know your friend really likes him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them "

I don’t think I’d want to lose my bestie or another really good friend over a dude.

Betraying a friendship like that is never worth it. I don’t think anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them "

This.

Some women will stamp all over you to get what they want friend or not...

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman over a year ago

lancashire

A mates guy is totally off limits...and if a mate disrespected me with my guy then she's no longer a mate...and depending on how he reacts he could be an X or not!!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter.

What about if it’s someone your friend likes but they for example are in a hook up only situation.

And that person comes onto you but you know your friend really likes him? "

It doesn't really apply to me. If I were single and I knew a friend was interested in a man but he wasn't interested in her I'd think it was ok to start seeing him. If they had a hook up arrangement I wouldn't be interested in him anyway. I like my men to be genuinely single no complications thanks. I'm waaay too old for the "I saw him first" attitude though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them

This.

Some women will stamp all over you to get what they want friend or not...

Did u have any bad experiences u wanted to share? X

I’m in nosey rosey mode.

Btw I’m talking strictly FRIENDS. not women in general. Like throw a piece of good dick in here and we’d be all over it like hungry pigeons

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Full disclosure; I've been the shitty friend who has let her quim be in control and not thought about how a good friend would feel. Was it worth it? No.

So now, I wouldn't say it's girl code but I have a very strict Meli code where I don't even begin to entertain it. It's a hard boundary for me, one that people do sometimes like to try and push for some reason but whatever. Zero interest in meeting anyone a close/good friend is seeing/fucking/wants to/whatever. Won't even entertain a bit of flirting. I can respect that others do things differently but I know that for me, friendship and fucking a) doesn't mix well and b) the former is more important than the latter. I just remove myself from the equation.

Unless it was Cumbersnatch and the rule book is thrown out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter.

What about if it’s someone your friend likes but they for example are in a hook up only situation.

And that person comes onto you but you know your friend really likes him?

Yeah I understand what you mean.

I still think I’d regard her feelings anyway and think there’s more men to choose from anyway .

Wouldn’t want to ruin a friendship that is important to me over it

but that’s just me

(Sometimes u get blessings and that’s okay)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Full disclosure; I've been the shitty friend who has let her quim be in control and not thought about how a good friend would feel. Was it worth it? No.

Unless it was Cumbersnatch and the rule book is thrown out."

Meli, you are precious and you need to be protected!

Thanks for sharing your story even if you had a shady experience. Hope you managed to mend things with ur girl friend x

I totally agree with what u said at the end x just not worth it plenty more (and bigger) dicks in the sea

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter.

What about if it’s someone your friend likes but they for example are in a hook up only situation.

And that person comes onto you but you know your friend really likes him?

Yeah I understand what you mean.

I still think I’d regard her feelings anyway and think there’s more men to choose from anyway .

Wouldn’t want to ruin a friendship that is important to me over it

but that’s just me

(Sometimes u get blessings and that’s okay)"

What if a man was your perfect partner and there was a very real possibility that you could be in a happy, long term relationship with him? Should the fact that your friend likes him stop that? Would a true friend even want you to sacrifice a relationship for them? The plenty more men rule applies to her too.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Morals darling

Morals

I would never go after my mate's fella

Its disgusting

Also I like to lift people up not knock them down

Had my mates guy try on with me more than once different friends etc it's a no no

Xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Also does a woman liking a guy make him off limits to all her friends? She doesn't own him

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them "

False jesus where do you hang out

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them

False jesus where do you hang out"

You’ll find me outside yours with a boombox playing careless whisper most evenings

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

In my experience, woman have no code, shame or remorse when they want a guy.

Nothing will stop them

False jesus where do you hang out

You’ll find me outside yours with a boombox playing careless whisper most evenings"

Now that's

Romantic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never been in this situation, purely if my friend has been there, the person wouldn't be interested in me anyways.

I've had it done to me, but not their fault as I wouldn't be vocal about liking someone.

But I wouldn't do it to anyone, even if an acquaintance. Drama just isn't my thing. I don't even try it on, on here if Ive figured out two people are playing together

I don't have any judgement on people that do, the only person that can make yourself happy is yourself and if in that moment it did, then go girl!

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Also does a woman liking a guy make him off limits to all her friends? She doesn't own him

I wonder this.

What’s to stop a friend from making claims on guys to effectively cock block friends?

Doesn’t this kind of girl code put different groups in direct conflict with each other and treats guys kind of like material possessions?

Just a few thoughts and questions

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Meli, you are precious and you need to be protected!

Thanks for sharing your story even if you had a shady experience. Hope you managed to mend things with ur girl friend x

I totally agree with what u said at the end x just not worth it plenty more (and bigger) dicks in the sea

Aww Super Slute! I was the shady one, thankfully things are really good with my friend even with my shady bitch behaviour. Not my finest hour.

For me it's not about laying claim to every penis within a 100 miles radius, it's more... I can tell if there's "something" between a good friend and a man. I don't want to damage/potentially ruin a friendship over that. It's not even about treating men like material possessions, they're their own agents and I can respect whatever decision it is they make and likewise, I hope the same respect is afforded to me. I don't stop close friends/cockblock them, I just... take myself out of the equation. I'd rather see them happy than things turn out messy. And I'm hot enough to get attention elsewhere. It's not about acquaintances, it's about the friends that I talk with frequently, the ones who I'll invite to my wedding. The ones whose feelings might be hurt.

It doesn't mean that a man can't flirt or do whatever with a friend. If they turn out to be soul mates I'd be delighted for them. It also doesn't mean a man is off limits because a friend sent him a wink.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Does girl code exist in the swinging/fab world or is it just a free for all since there's no strings.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Never gone near any man that a friend was interested in or had met and never would. I would expect the same in return from the very few close to me. This is why my circle is very small.

I find it weird as hell when people go after the same guy as a friend. I choose my closest over any man. No place for competition here.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Its about respect

Morals

Decency

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Do you have a strict girl code? And what rules u got? Also Do you like to lift each other up?

OR have you been that kind of super shady friend who has been in a situation where you WENT THERE with full knowledge that your bestie or your good friend had her hands in there first?!

Have you ever regretted it to have behaved a certain way for a guy/dick?? and what were the consequences, if that blew up in your face?

Have you lost your friend because of it?

Personally… this is a HUGE NO-NO for me , no matter how good that dick is/could be!!

And guys, have you made a chick break her girl code? Or did she come onto you breaking it herself? Did you care?

If the first option…please reel in ur horny dicks!!

cos that shit ruins friendship! (I know it takes two to tango)

I think this can be pretty ambiguous Kylie - particularly when it comes to a site like this. I’ve known girls/women in the past who’ve claimed first dibs on every hot guy from miles around - it’s far from uncommon - so unless it’s someone they’re actually dating (or mutually interested in dating each other) - then in all honesty they’re fair game.

On here if also come across MANY women who strongly feel that you shouldn’t chat to or meet anyone they’ve ever met or anyone they might possibly ever meet - which means half the guys in the north west are out of bounds.

I stay away from friends close fb’s FWB’s whether I’m asked to or not as i have what I consider to be pretty strong morals - but conversely I’m pretty chilled about who my fb’s meet - I’ve even recommended them to friends if I think there’d be a mutual attraction.

The only time I’ve ever really been hurt was when a ‘friend’ went behind my back and persuaded a close fb to start a couples profile on here. As I’d actually introduced them and she knew his friendship was important to me I felt somewhat kicked in the teeth. The couples profile was soon dissolved but the damage was done.

These days I’m a little more guarded - but still very trusting.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Dating the ex of a friend/Family member is a no from me. Too many men in the world to go there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does girl code exist in the swinging/fab world or is it just a free for all since there's no strings. "

I personally would back off if one girl I think of as a friend and she took interest in him

We not gonna compare dicks! Unless blessing has been given

But that’s only for the ones I made friends with x

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Nothing turns me off a fella sexually/romantically like him going with one of my friends.

I just lose complete interest.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

One of my friends ending up marrying the guy who was my first serious boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him. They've been happily married for a good few years now (nearly 10??) and it's not an issue at all.

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

I have a close knit group of friends, a small circle of those who have been there for me through everything if I were to like someone a friend was into (or vice versa) I’d hope after 30 odd years of friendship we would have the balls to talk about it.

A lot of this is circumstantial, it could be fancying the same guy that neither of you have been with or it could be wanting to get with a friends current or ex partner…there completely different in my eyes.

You can’t stake claim on someone you have never been with, and just because you like them doesn’t necessarily mean its reciprocated. Some woman can convince themselves that a particular infatuation is going to happen, you need to be honest, open and trust those around you it’s all about conversation- that said if my friend had been with someone long term or was married to said person it be a complete no go for me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Meli, you are precious and you need to be protected!

Thanks for sharing your story even if you had a shady experience. Hope you managed to mend things with ur girl friend x

I totally agree with what u said at the end x just not worth it plenty more (and bigger) dicks in the sea

Aww Super Slute! I was the shady one, thankfully things are really good with my friend even with my shady bitch behaviour. Not my finest hour.

I’m so glad u are a reformed shady slute and that’s no more you and learnt from it! That’s what matters

No need to be the hot dog bun kinda girl haha plenty of hot dogs about for sure

Also friends exes are pretty off limit for me and to be honest I wouldn’t wish mine on ANY girl cos they were toxic fuck boys!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in a relationship with a girl and her best friend always had a thing for me, and I always wanted to fuck her but I never admitted it.

My girlfriend went away for the weekend so I went out with some mates. I bumped into her ‘best friend’ in town and just said a polite hello and then carried on with my evening.

She then came and sat with us and started flirting with one of my mates.

We all had a few more drinks until we could hardly walk and headed back. We got in the back of a taxi and my mate in the front.

Turned out she wanted to take advantage that night, as when we got in the taxi her hand went down my trousers. I didn’t stop her I just let her do it - next thing I know we get back to mine and she’s riding me.

Next morning I woke up with a sore head and there she was laying next to me, both of us in the nude.

I decided that the damage had already been done so I fucked her again before ending it with my girlfriend.

I was never going to explain myself out of that one, which is why I still ended it - but I still see her friend every now and again for another round and her (now husband) has no idea.

People can try and stick to a code as much as they like - we can’t trust each other to stick to it properly (in my experience).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was in a relationship with a girl and her best friend always had a thing for me, and I always wanted to fuck her but I never admitted it.

My girlfriend went away for the weekend so I went out with some mates. I bumped into her ‘best friend’ in town and just said a polite hello and then carried on with my evening.

She then came and sat with us and started flirting with one of my mates.

We all had a few more drinks until we could hardly walk and headed back. We got in the back of a taxi and my mate in the front.

Next morning I woke up with a sore head and there she was laying next to me, both of us in the nude.

I decided that the damage had already been done so I fucked her again before ending it with my girlfriend.

I was never going to explain myself out of that one, which is why I still ended it - but I still see her friend every now and again for another round and her (now husband) has no idea.

People can try and stick to a code as much as they like - we can’t trust each other to stick to it properly (in my experience). "

Jeez… did ur gf ever find out the reason why u guys broke up or did u come up with some BS excuse?

She didn’t sound like a good friend to ur ex to me btw…

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a close knit group of friends, a small circle of those who have been there for me through everything if I were to like someone a friend was into (or vice versa) I’d hope after 30 odd years of friendship we would have the balls to talk about it.

I think if it’s like a situation of potential interest with no involvement then it can be discussed openly x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I told her what happened - she doesn’t speak to either of us anymore. I was gutted at the time but I had to just take ownership of what I’d done . No point in saying “but I was d*unk” - girls hear that all the time!

Yeah she was never that great a friend to her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I told her what happened - she doesn’t speak to either of us anymore. I was gutted at the time but I had to just take ownership of what I’d done . No point in saying “but I was d*unk” - girls hear that all the time!

Yeah she was never that great a friend to her x"

Was it worth it for you? And wondering how the girl you slept with feels about losing ur ex as a friend over it x

No judging x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is pretty much my code for life. I’d never betray a friend, or anyone really. X

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

A close friend? Nope, even an ex of theirs would feel weird.

An acquaintance? It would always have depended on the situation - if they were in a relationship then no, I'm not about that. But if it was just someone they fancied and hadn't done anything about it then game on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A close friend? Nope, even an ex of theirs would feel weird.

Yeah I’d agree with that. I was talking strictly people you deem as friends/good friends

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"A close friend? Nope, even an ex of theirs would feel weird.

Yeah I’d agree with that. I was talking strictly people you deem as friends/good friends

You look so pretttttyyyyyyyy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A close friend? Nope, even an ex of theirs would feel weird.

Yeah I’d agree with that. I was talking strictly people you deem as friends/good friends

You look so pretttttyyyyyyyy!!

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good friends are hard to find.

Always mates before dates (don't like bros before hoes or chicks before dicks)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good friends are hard to find.

Always mates before dates (don't like bros before hoes or chicks before dicks)

True x

U make sense every now and then u x

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

We don't need a girl code as we talk to each other, if I fancy a close mates sex interest I will talk to her about it first

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

"My friends being with a man makes him automatically off limits as far as I'm concerned. If their relationship finished then it's a different matter.

What about if it’s someone your friend likes but they for example are in a hook up only situation.

And that person comes onto you but you know your friend really likes him? "

Playground stuff. I've never understood this, what about the person they are lusting over, don't they have a say?

How about the crushed feelings of two people who don't get together because of some daft code?

Fucking around with someone's partner is one thing, leaving someone alone because a mate likes them is some form of negative control.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

If a friend likes them then I steer well clear. My friends mean the world to be and I'd put their feelings before my own x

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By *urvybeckiWoman over a year ago

Enfield

If a guy has been with a friend even if for coffee then he can stay clear, I don't need the hassle from the psycho bitches that are my besties lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the long run I think yes. Whilst she was a nice girl, I don’t think she was right for me anyway.

The girl I slept with was a bit upset that she’d lost her friend (which was obviously going to happen) but she’s not bothered about me losing my ex. It takes 2 to tango, and we both made that decision (even if I was in an awful state) x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good friends are hard to find.

Always mates before dates (don't like bros before hoes or chicks before dicks)

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman over a year ago

WSM

Had it happen to me, spent months talking about a guy with my ‘bestie’ she knew that something was going to happen so she made sure it didn’t, obviously it highlighted that he wasn’t much better than her in the end so at least now there’s less deadwood taking up my time from either. I couldn’t do it to a friend let alone my best friend.

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