FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Dating sites. What puts you off.....

Dating sites. What puts you off.....

Jump to: Newest in thread

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would you find a woman enjoying an expensive lifestyle offputting?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You must be doing really well on the dating sites, as I honestly didn’t realise men could afford to be so choosy!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Snuggled up next to a dog - why that one?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

You’re 45, if you’re looking at women doing tik tok poses they’re probably too young for you

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

Holding a fish.

Why.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"Why would you find a woman enjoying an expensive lifestyle offputting?"

I've used the wrong word haven't I? It's not annoying, merely not my cup of tea.

I cant compete with expensive tastes, so no point even engaging conversation with them.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Holding a fish.

Why.

Damn it. That’s my go to dating profile pic

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

You’re 45, if you’re looking at women doing tik tok poses they’re probably too young for you

LOL, ive never done the tik tok app haha, definitely not my thing

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never been on a dating site (yet).

When I do , my pic is going to be me in my head to toe Chanel, doing tik tok poses with my dogs at Glasto. It's my favourite picture

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been on a dating site (yet).

When I do , my pic is going to be me in my head to toe Chanel, doing tik tok poses with my dogs at Glasto. It's my favourite picture "

Don’t forget to pout

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You must be doing really well on the dating sites, as I honestly didn’t realise men could afford to be so choosy!"

Hahaha what do you mean by that?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"Holding a fish.

Why.

Damn it. That’s my go to dating profile pic

Nooooooo! Really? Why? Why do women do that? Its not attractive, its not funny and it certainly isn't cute either. I like to think most men hate it

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"You must be doing really well on the dating sites, as I honestly didn’t realise men could afford to be so choosy!"

For the record I always have had a terrible record on dating apps, ive had 1 date in like 10 years and she looked nothing like she did in her profile pics

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men on dating sites with their kids in the pics.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You must be doing really well on the dating sites, as I honestly didn’t realise men could afford to be so choosy!"

I thought dating sites were the opposite of sex sites. Millions of hungry women and a few men living in their mum's garage.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was being sarcastic.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t like the pics of guys posing beside dru.gged up safari animals. That’s an instant no from me.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Holding a fish.

Why.

Damn it. That’s my go to dating profile pic

Nooooooo! Really? Why? Why do women do that? Its not attractive, its not funny and it certainly isn't cute either. I like to think most men hate it "

God, she meant men holding fish!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was being sarcastic."

I laughed! Never been on one so ney idea what's out there

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?"

Nice smile, nice eyebrows, naturally good looking without the need to filter pics, holiday snaps on a sunny beach. Someone that looks compatible with what I'm looking for i guess.

Not flamboyant, easy going, quiet

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?"

Group pics always make me laugh too

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"Holding a fish.

Why.

Damn it. That’s my go to dating profile pic

Nooooooo! Really? Why? Why do women do that? Its not attractive, its not funny and it certainly isn't cute either. I like to think most men hate it

God, she meant men holding fish! "

Men do that??

, They deserve a full running flying kick to the bollocks if you ask me

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not so much the people.

The apps themselves.

Catfish galore.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have our ‘thing(s)’ that we find distasteful.

But I think some of those things - depending on what they are of course - could say more about us and our own insecurities, than the person in the profile.

(trying to be kind here)

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Holding a fish.

Why.

Damn it. That’s my go to dating profile pic

Nooooooo! Really? Why? Why do women do that? Its not attractive, its not funny and it certainly isn't cute either. I like to think most men hate it

God, she meant men holding fish!

Men do that??

, They deserve a full running flying kick to the bollocks if you ask me

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Messy backgrounds, pictures taken in filthy mirrors, clothes that look like they've been sprayed on, overly posey gym pics, fighting poses, if all their pictures are of them drinking lots of alcohol, pictures riding elephants or posing with chained up animals.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sitting on their car, usually a German car

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or making sure their Stone Island badge is on display

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one "

Nice.

So by extension, a woman on the street wearing a short skirt deserves all the lewd comments she gets?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Nice.

So by extension, a woman on the street wearing a short skirt deserves all the lewd comments she gets?"

Nope, you can’t compare an internet dating profile the encourages messages to someone minding their own business on the street

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one "

Christ. You keep waving around those red flags you’re going to be inundated by bulls

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one "

Maybe a well wasn't the best Halloween costume idea then

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Nice.

So by extension, a woman on the street wearing a short skirt deserves all the lewd comments she gets?

Nope, you can’t compare an internet dating profile the encourages messages to someone minding their own business on the street "

We’ll agree to disagree. Just because it’s online doesn’t make it a free for all. And a woman should never be referred to as a ‘hole’, irrespective of her state of dress ... or undress!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Christ. You keep waving around those red flags you’re going to be inundated by bulls "

Not all of us are on here for meets, so I let them wave

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So pretty much the same as on here, really? I was on a few dating sites before fab and really never found any difference. In fact, my only two fwb were from dating sites. fab...tumble.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *nimaginativeUsernameMan over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Women posing with their stunning daughters. It’s like they’re saying ‘This is what I used to look like, but you’re too late’

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Women posing with their stunning daughters. It’s like they’re saying ‘This is what I used to look like, but you’re too late’"

Dying!

Or girls posing with their train wreck mothers

“This is what’s in store for you down the line”

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll add misogynistic blokes into the mix

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women posing with their stunning daughters. It’s like they’re saying ‘This is what I used to look like, but you’re too late’

Dying!

Or girls posing with their train wreck mothers

“This is what’s in store for you down the line” "

Aren’t you a delight

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to say what i fear about dating sites is none of them look particularly safe. You feel in some way ur going to be scammed into losing a lot of money before you start n your computer banking will be in jeopardy.

After so long married n now single im so tempted only because all my adult life ive wished id met an Oriental Asian girl, as im overwhelmed by their beauty. They are not easy to meet up with socially so feel this may be a way for me to meet and find someone of my dreams. There again who'd want me hahaha.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women posing with their stunning daughters. It’s like they’re saying ‘This is what I used to look like, but you’re too old’"

Fixed it for you

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fucking filters! Especially the one with "cute" stamped multiple times across the face. Who you trying to kid? It's not cute, and the fact you feel the need to do that isn't cute either and screams "needy."

The dog ears and noses ones are fucking stupid too. Other than b&w, I've no time for filters.

Be yourself and show what you actually look like. Self-confidence is attractive x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Bunny Boilers !

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

Nothing puts me off dating sites cos I do t use them

Xxx

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

"Women posing with their stunning daughters. It’s like they’re saying ‘This is what I used to look like, but you’re too old’

Fixed it for you"

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

1. Men posing next to exotic animals on holiday

2. Lads in a group photo with a “lads on tour” vibe all looking at the camera giving a thumbs up and you wonder which one is the reserved Derek that you’re currently talking to, praying it’s not the fella on the end covered in vomit and a bottle of San Miguel in his hand and 2 cigarettes stuck up each nostril.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing puts me off dating sites cos I do t use them

Xxx"

Being a couple no you wouldn't would you

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Nice.

So by extension, a woman on the street wearing a short skirt deserves all the lewd comments she gets?

Nope, you can’t compare an internet dating profile the encourages messages to someone minding their own business on the street "

Men on here with public cock pics are slagged off for "just being a cock" and not worth getting to know as a person.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1. Men posing next to exotic animals on holiday

Ah the poor doped up Tigers destined for the Chinese trade ??

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Nothing puts me off dating sites cos I do t use them

Xxx

Being a couple no you wouldn't would you

You’d be surprised how many couples are on them. I’ve met more couples on tinder than on here. Dunno if it’s against the rules though on some sites/apps

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The way they drag you in with its free then you find out its free to join only and everything else costs a fortune unless its one that allows women to do stuff for free .

Kids in photos .

Other men in the photos

Profiles that start with a stunning photo only to be followed up by recent ones that show their real age now

Preaching profiles . You must be . You are not to do type things

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Photos taken on the top of Pen-y-Fan in The Beacons.

Nothing against the mountain (except it’s hideously busy), nothing against people being happy they’ve reached the top, nothing against the people themselves.

It’s the sheer number of photos of that bloomin cairn. It sometimes feels like it’s every third profile on sites if you’re looking in Wales.

It’s Pen-y-Fan, it’s a good old walk, but it’s not Everest

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pics of men in a group make me laugh. I used to ask which one they are. Then I'd say oh well I fancy your mate in the blue jumper, send me his details.

Just to make the point (that they never got).

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Provocative pictures followed by “no hook ups!”

Your profile is a representation of yourself. If you make it look like your just a hole don’t surprised when you get treated like one

Nice.

So by extension, a woman on the street wearing a short skirt deserves all the lewd comments she gets?

Nope, you can’t compare an internet dating profile the encourages messages to someone minding their own business on the street

Men on here with public cock pics are slagged off for "just being a cock" and not worth getting to know as a person. "

Honestly I stopped replying because I couldn’t be bothered getting into the double standards on here anymore. But I’m glad you spotted it

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

"Holding a fish.

Why.

This seems to not be as common now. A couple of years ago it was every other profile.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

For me it those things that "women" add to their profile image like puppy ears or cartoon things which is just childish.

Then it trout pout, fake nails, fake eyelashes, or fake tan, make up slap on with a paint brush.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

God loads…

Men with parrots on their shoulder.. men holding fish.. men pulling their tongue out.. men showing off their car. It’s all just a bit bloody weird!!!!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

A miserable face in his pics.

All pics in a football shirt.

Profile text looking for a sporty woman.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pictures with filters. I only lasted a few days on tinder, but did manage 2 dates. Prefer the sites you dont need to swipe on looks only, and can go back to the profiles at a later date. The secret like on here is to show some respect when you try to make contact.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?"

I agree with all of these! And men with fish. Argh!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?

I agree with all of these! And men with fish. Argh!"

Mol esting a fish like a big Carp

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?

I agree with all of these! And men with fish. Argh!"

Kids in pictures is kinda messed up. I’ve come across a few profiles where it’s like 1 pic of her then 5-6 pics of just the kids. Not even her in it?

I feel like it’s naive innocence of like, these are my kids, they are my life, look at these pics kinda thing

But it always feels kinda odd having most of your dating profile be pictures of your kids

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

When I read profiles that says must like dogs and pictures of dogs lying on a bed or sofa I lose interest straight away.My reasons are I am not comfortable around dogs and I don’t believe a cat or dog should be lying on a person bed or sofa.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the first photo is of a car...

All the pics include a bike...

Can't be bothered to write anything "ask me" "fill in later"

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kids in pictures is a big no no for me. Dated pictures, everyone has a phone capable of taking upto date pics these days. And group pics like which one are you?

I agree with all of these! And men with fish. Argh!

Mol esting a fish like a big Carp "

Is it meant to be metaphor for the size of their dick?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m pervert sexually of coarse would be banned from dating sites lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown. "

“I like going out, but I also like staying in “

Oh you like existing then? Can we add breathing to the list?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown. "

And? What's wrong with wanting to do those things with someone? Men have those in their profiles too.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

Misogyny is alive and well. Yuck.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

You’re 45, if you’re looking at women doing tik tok poses they’re probably too young for you

Ha ha I'm 64 and love doing tick tocs!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown. "

If liking Marvin Gaye is wrong, I don't wanna be right!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"When I read profiles that says must like dogs and pictures of dogs lying on a bed or sofa I lose interest straight away.My reasons are I am not comfortable around dogs and I don’t believe a cat or dog should be lying on a person bed or sofa."

Really?? My dogs sleep on my bed all night and the cat on daughters bed! And both dogs are asleep right now on the sofa wouldn't expect them to sit on the floor anymore than I would want to sit on the floor myself!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

"Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown.

And? What's wrong with wanting to do those things with someone? Men have those in their profiles too.

It was simply an observation. It did surprise me just how many had the same thing. Quite a few women did comment on how many men had photos with fish or a motorbike. I wonder if any posed holding a fish while sitting on a motorbike?

I enjoyed a couple of years on dating sites. I met some wonderful women.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been on a dating site (yet).

When I do , my pic is going to be me in my head to toe Chanel, doing tik tok poses with my dogs at Glasto. It's my favourite picture "

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The dating part.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so I guess reading this thread I’ll just stay here… and not go look at dating sites…

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

[Removed by poster at 31/10/21 12:31:30]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?

Nice smile, nice eyebrows, naturally good looking without the need to filter pics, holiday snaps on a sunny beach. Someone that looks compatible with what I'm looking for i guess.

Not flamboyant, easy going, quiet

OP, definite a nice eyebrow please.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

This is probably a Greek thing Costa as I feel exactly the same lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

The angles too! If your big don’t make it an awkward guessing game.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating sounds so much fun. People really just don't like other people do they

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick."

They can be annoying on all sites tbh

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick."

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of women had variations on this:

Like holidays abroad, city breaks, nights out, nights out. Motown.

And? What's wrong with wanting to do those things with someone? Men have those in their profiles too.

I enjoyed a couple of years on dating sites. I met some wonderful women."

It's a post about what annoys people so I assumed that's why you'd written it. I prefer profiles with a little more personality but then I avoid dating sites these days. I have never seen the motorbikes and fish combined yet!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person."

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about? "

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person."

Yes I thought that not very kind ! X

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many things!

Wearing sunglasses indoors in a dark room

Kids in pictures

Photo stood next to flash car with a thumbs up

Holding a fish

Dirty backgrounds on photos

Groups of men and no sodding idea which one they are

Never realised I was so judgemental

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dating sounds so much fun. People really just don't like other people do they

But swingers are so sociable!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Yes I thought that not very kind ! X"

Exactly, only judge when you are perfect...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"So many things!

Wearing sunglasses indoors in a dark room

Kids in pictures

Photo stood next to flash car with a thumbs up

Holding a fish

Dirty backgrounds on photos

Groups of men and no sodding idea which one they are

Never realised I was so judgemental

S "

Totally get the group thing! How I ended up with first husband was at my first job were 2 stood together I thought it was the other one a friend arranged the date I didnt have the heart to say no so went along lol x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

What about the misogynist comments on this thread? Are they a problem? Guess not

No it's not a stereotype unless she has said all men are thick. She didn't.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Yes I thought that not very kind ! X"

Neither are some of the other comments in this thread - why pick on hers?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?

Nice smile, nice eyebrows, naturally good looking without the need to filter pics, holiday snaps on a sunny beach. Someone that looks compatible with what I'm looking for i guess.

Not flamboyant, easy going, quiet

OP, definite a nice eyebrow please.

Ffs!.... DEFINE a nice eyebrow please OP

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"I've never been on a dating site (yet).

When I do , my pic is going to be me in my head to toe Chanel, doing tik tok poses with my dogs at Glasto. It's my favourite picture

Don’t forget to pout

With a botox kit in your hand.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"Dating sounds so much fun. People really just don't like other people do they

It should be fun but its actually quite frustrating and it makes you feel fragile when nothing ever comes your way. It can be mentally challenging

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Yes I thought that not very kind ! X

Exactly, only judge when you are perfect...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating sites are full of fake profiles and time wasters....if I'm honest this place is getting a bit like it too....

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oberts_onMan over a year ago

King's Lynn

FB dating is the worst for fake profiles, nearly all the girls "local' to me are Chinese, offering WhatsApp links.

The rest are pretty much like being on here, constantly ignored, where they tar all men with the same brush.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?

Nice smile, nice eyebrows, naturally good looking without the need to filter pics, holiday snaps on a sunny beach. Someone that looks compatible with what I'm looking for i guess.

Not flamboyant, easy going, quiet

OP, definite a nice eyebrow please.

Ffs!.... DEFINE a nice eyebrow please OP "

I've got a thing for eyebrows.

Don't like them bushy, too thick, too thin, the messy look or even drawn on.

They need to be proportional to the size of the ladies face

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oberts_onMan over a year ago

King's Lynn

"Dating sites are full of fake profiles and time wasters....if I'm honest this place is getting a bit like it too...."

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal "

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal "

Now you have bice eyebrows

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

She didn’t stereotype at all?

She doesn’t like men that are thick. She never says all men on them are thick.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really. "

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading this, I'm kind of glad I don't use dating sites anymore

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not used dating sites

what puts us off meets is profiles without content, or obvious fake ones, just scroll on by...

people who try to send messages but clearly can't hold decent conversations, politeness costs nothing, bad manners get binned off straight away...

messy room photos or pictures that look kind of creepey, we don't need that in our lives

if that makes us judgemental, then so be it, we all have preferences and standards.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

Now you have bice eyebrows

Aww! Thankyou!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

x"
. It’s your house your rules that’s your right which I respect.Me personally I wouldn’t feel comfortable sitting or laying on a sofa or bed that a dog has been on.As the OP Genuine Mike said it maybe a Greek thing.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These things are indicative of what they like, they are looking to attract like minded people. That obviously isn't you so why let it bother you.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *rispyDuckMan over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Too many to list haha

I'll get my secretary to type a list & post later

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out."

So people that aren't comfortable giving their number out early on or that don't want to meet straight away, aren't genuinely looking?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

Now you have bice eyebrows

You're right OP..... Mrs Sapphire does have nice eyebrows and such a pretty face to match!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

So people that aren't comfortable giving their number out early on or that don't want to meet straight away, aren't genuinely looking? "

Not necessarily. But I don’t personally have time to text for weeks before meeting. So I just filter by that.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, I'm curious, what do you like in date site profiles?

Nice smile, nice eyebrows, naturally good looking without the need to filter pics, holiday snaps on a sunny beach. Someone that looks compatible with what I'm looking for i guess.

Not flamboyant, easy going, quiet

OP, definite a nice eyebrow please.

Ffs!.... DEFINE a nice eyebrow please OP

I've got a thing for eyebrows.

Don't like them bushy, too thick, too thin, the messy look or even drawn on.

They need to be proportional to the size of the ladies face

xx"

Thank you for the explanation

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"FB dating is the worst for fake profiles, nearly all the girls "local' to me are Chinese, offering WhatsApp links.

The rest are pretty much like being on here, constantly ignored, where they tar all men with the same brush."

I had two Chinese men from there talk about nothing but their crypto currency accounts and how much they had in them.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What things put you off on dating profile pictures?

Im not referring to Fab but real dating sites.

For me its women who have:

The pouting lips pose ,

Hideous lip injections,

Pics showing an expensive taste lifestyle in either dress sense or holiday locations; skiing, snow boarding etc..

Snuggled up next to a dog,

Festival pictures ie Glastonbury,

Stupid Tick Tok poses and filtered photos.

I swipe left or hit the X button to all of the above.

Lol basically almost every woman…

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"God loads…

Men with parrots on their shoulder.. men holding fish.. men pulling their tongue out.. men showing off their car. It’s all just a bit bloody weird!!!! "

I agree with all this to be honest

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person."

I simply like intelligence in a man. So that’s judgemental and ignorant, in your view? It’s very interesting to me that you - and others - choose to skip the blatantly judgemental views on women here, and focus on mine.

Perhaps you feel threatened by intelligence in a woman. I don’t know or care, frankly.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out."

I can't tell by a few sentences who I want to have a drink with and I don't have the time to meet lots of people to see if we have chemistry. I have to chat a while before even agreeing to a cup of tea together.

I made the mistake of meeting quickly for drinks, only to be groped under the table and be asked for a blow job in an alley, as he didn't actually accommodate, like he said he did.

If someone is really interested in me they will be happy to chat a while.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

I made the mistake of meeting quickly for drinks, only to be groped under the table and be asked for a blow job in an alley, as he didn't actually accommodate, like he said he did.

If someone is really interested in me they will be happy to chat a while."

That’s fair, everyone’s approach is different.

Do you think chatting longer really stops any of that? Creeps gonna creep, whether they gotta chat to you for 2 days or 2 weeks.

Plus I find it difficult to be really interested in someone over apps because everyone’s so different in person. I’ll know more about how compatible we are in a 30 minute coffee date than I will over a month of txting

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

The pictures that put me off are the ones that show me there's no compatibility in terms of lifestyle.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m a middled aged, bisexual, non monogamist, with kids and I’m balding/bald. I may as well be radioactive and carry an axe on dating sites!

Much the same as on fab, people are looking for an ideal and (as evidenced by this thread) any subtle deviance from that is an instant ‘no’.

It’s not a rant, but I do think that these apps force snap judgements where attraction is rarely so instant in real life

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The 1 thing that puts me off is actually going on a dating site they are shite

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ackdaw52Man over a year ago

Chesterfield

Same pic over and over with different filters.

Marilyn Monroe quotes

Every pic in a nightclub. Don't you ever go anywhere else?

Posing with dogs. I just don't like the things.

Close ups of lame tattoos; barbed wire, dolphins, anything Disney.

The Machu Picchu Photo.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"The pictures that put me off are the ones that show me there's no compatibility in terms of lifestyle."

Nicely said

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

I made the mistake of meeting quickly for drinks, only to be groped under the table and be asked for a blow job in an alley, as he didn't actually accommodate, like he said he did.

If someone is really interested in me they will be happy to chat a while.

That’s fair, everyone’s approach is different.

Do you think chatting longer really stops any of that? Creeps gonna creep, whether they gotta chat to you for 2 days or 2 weeks.

The men just after a quick thrill get bored easily and look for an easier target.

I'm wary now of saying yes too quickly.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out."

That's fair enough, I guess everyone had their own methods on how to use them

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

"The 1 thing that puts me off is actually going on a dating site they are shite

Dating sites are my only option and i know from friends and family that relationships can evolve from them.

I dont go out and socialise much unless I'm catching up with friends and I never go to a pub or bar alone. So realistically when am I ever going to meet anyone?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating sites can be ok. I’ve met some fun and interesting people. But I guess it’s all about managing our expectations at the end of the day. Those who meet the loves of their lives must surely be in the minority!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

Now you have bice eyebrows

You're right OP..... Mrs Sapphire does have nice eyebrows and such a pretty face to match!

Oh gosh

I'm not! that's so lovely of you to say

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS over a year ago

Carlisle

[Removed by poster at 31/10/21 13:38:39]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’m a middled aged, bisexual, non monogamist, with kids and I’m balding/bald. I may as well be radioactive and carry an axe on dating sites!

Much the same as on fab, people are looking for an ideal and (as evidenced by this thread) any subtle deviance from that is an instant ‘no’.

It’s not a rant, but I do think that these apps force snap judgements where attraction is rarely so instant in real life"

On the flip side, I met both my partners on dating sites. One on a kink one called Whiplr and the other on Okcupid.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been on a dating site (yet).

When I do , my pic is going to be me in my head to toe Chanel, doing tik tok poses with my dogs at Glasto. It's my favourite picture "

You lady can do absolutely nothing and still be swamped with messages

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating is hard and dating apps can be extremely frustrating. But I’ve had some amazing experiences from them.

I’ve definitely learned certain kinda profiles to stay away from.

Too many gym pics are the biggest no for me personally or too many group pictures.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing puts me off dating sites. If used properly they are a perfectly reasonable way of meeting people.

We do after all live in the 21st century that is apart from Jacob Rees Mogg.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’m a middled aged, bisexual, non monogamist, with kids and I’m balding/bald. I may as well be radioactive and carry an axe on dating sites!

Much the same as on fab, people are looking for an ideal and (as evidenced by this thread) any subtle deviance from that is an instant ‘no’.

It’s not a rant, but I do think that these apps force snap judgements where attraction is rarely so instant in real life

On the flip side, I met both my partners on dating sites. One on a kink one called Whiplr and the other on Okcupid. "

That’s fair enough and I’m sure that people do meet on them, as shown by their popularity. In my situation, they aren’t very useful

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

I made the mistake of meeting quickly for drinks, only to be groped under the table and be asked for a blow job in an alley, as he didn't actually accommodate, like he said he did.

If someone is really interested in me they will be happy to chat a while.

That’s fair, everyone’s approach is different.

Do you think chatting longer really stops any of that? Creeps gonna creep, whether they gotta chat to you for 2 days or 2 weeks.

The men just after a quick thrill get bored easily and look for an easier target.

I'm wary now of saying yes too quickly."

I feel the same. I don't like being rushed.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Perhaps you feel threatened by intelligence in a woman. I don’t know or care, frankly.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different."

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't want to date.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *enuine Mike OP Man over a year ago

Guildford

Dating now sounds absolutely brutal

It’s only brutal online. Once you get them off an app and out for a drink everyone’s a scared little mouse really.

But how do you even get as far as going for a drink?

It’s not easy, but the ones that are willing, make it happen.

I just chat, push fast for a number, then suggest drinks within the next day or 2

People that want to meet will. None of this “let’s get to know eachother a little more” stuff.

Lots of girls on apps use it as a tool for validation and a cure to boredom. You can quickly sort out whose who by just asking them out.

I made the mistake of meeting quickly for drinks, only to be groped under the table and be asked for a blow job in an alley, as he didn't actually accommodate, like he said he did.

If someone is really interested in me they will be happy to chat a while.

That’s fair, everyone’s approach is different.

Do you think chatting longer really stops any of that? Creeps gonna creep, whether they gotta chat to you for 2 days or 2 weeks.

The men just after a quick thrill get bored easily and look for an easier target.

I'm wary now of saying yes too quickly.

I feel the same. I don't like being rushed."

No one should ever feel pressured or rushed in these situations. Communication is key and so long as messages flow, it keeps the excitement flowing

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

Perhaps you feel threatened by intelligence in a woman. I don’t know or care, frankly.

So presumptuous

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *agerMorganMan over a year ago

Canvey Island

Demands put me right off.

"I want a man that does X or Y", soon as I see that, I scroll past.

Also, I've noticed on dating apps there is a LOT of bot accounts & scammers. I deleted a few dating apps because of it.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?"

You really didn't ?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy "

White Knights

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

No, you're just plain wrong.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on "

I'm learning lots here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

No, you're just plain wrong. "

Ah, the oracle...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

No, you're just plain wrong.

Ah, the oracle...

Now it’s just obvious trolling.

At least try to make it look authentic. Look through my post history for some ideas

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly "

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

No, you're just plain wrong.

Ah, the oracle...

Now it’s just obvious trolling.

At least try to make it look authentic. Look through my post history for some ideas "

Postcards are the limit of my literature ambitions my friend - I'm not Trolling ? I've not insulted anyone or gender.

Thank you

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ... "

Fishing line... Yes snagging on pond life

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm off for a cuppa.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ...

Fishing line... Yes snagging on pond life

This is what we call, “the anger phase”.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh now...... that's unbecoming. You have to go back to the start and lose five points

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ... "

Oh hello Granny

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That was to Poldark.......

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ...

Oh hello Granny

Well if it isn't herself ...... hello to you also.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

No, you're just plain wrong.

Ah, the oracle...

Now it’s just obvious trolling.

At least try to make it look authentic. Look through my post history for some ideas

Postcards are the limit of my literature ambitions my friend - I'm not Trolling ? I've not insulted anyone or gender.

Thank you "

That's what you do

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men who are not very bright, and really just rather thick.

You are very judgemental, that shows ignorance in a person.

She's allowed to have preferences. Isn't that what the thread is about?

That's stereotyping...

If I said all women are so and so I'd soon be getting whinged at

You really need to stop proving my point, and look up ‘stereotyping’ while you’re at it.

Now if I had said ‘all men are thick’, that would be entirely different.

I'm fully conversed in the meaning of Stereotyping thank you, no need to preach to the converted eh

So why accuse me of doing it when I didn’t?

You really didn't ?

Can absolutely confirm, with proof by looking above, she didn’t

I don’t think you have a full grasp on what stereotyping is buddy

White Knights

Look up, you’ll find we’ve argued enough and I’ve been called a misogynist multiple times

So it’s stereotyping and white knighting you don’t have a grasp on

I'm learning lots here

You’ve learned nothing because you still haven’t grasped either words you’ve used wrongly

See, I'm not an intellectual... I'm just a stupid man with a IQ below 70... I'm being educated

Hello stupid man with an IQ below 70 and a VERY long fishing line ...

Oh hello Granny

Well if it isn't herself ...... hello to you also. "

Always enjoy your plain speaking

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)