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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

A lot of movies and TV programmes come with trigger warnings these days, some rightly so.

How easily triggered are you and would you know if you were triggered?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I'm not easily triggered and usually it's by really unimportant things. I'm fortunate enough to have lived a life without too many dreadful things happening.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Certain aisles in the supermarket trigger me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The box sets of Only Fools and Horses come with a warning of Triggers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Doing the self scan in supermarkets,and it doest work when you go to pay so you have to do it all again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not easily triggered but I don't like talk of baby loss, child abuse or emotional blckmail.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

On fab, there's nothing that quite triggers people than a McDonalds thread.

I usually know what I'm getting into when I watch something on TV so don't feel I need a warning. Nothing really triggers me as such, there are difficult topics of course, but I don't let film and tv affect me that much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you're triggered, you will know about it! It's a very immediate emotional response that can be overwhelming. I'm triggered by weird things relating to some emotional abuse. I don't expect to be catered for - it's just life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you're triggered, you will know about it! It's a very immediate emotional response that can be overwhelming. I'm triggered by weird things relating to some emotional abuse. I don't expect to be catered for - it's just life. "

I agree with this. Although there are some things that are fare to come with a warning. Like anything in life, about balance.

More importantly though,I'm sorry that you have suffered abuse. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you're triggered, you will know about it! It's a very immediate emotional response that can be overwhelming. I'm triggered by weird things relating to some emotional abuse. I don't expect to be catered for - it's just life.

I agree with this. Although there are some things that are fare to come with a warning. Like anything in life, about balance.

More importantly though,I'm sorry that you have suffered abuse. x"

Thank you And yes I also think that some content should come with a trigger warning. For many people though, it's just impossible to know when it might happen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you're triggered, you will know about it! It's a very immediate emotional response that can be overwhelming. I'm triggered by weird things relating to some emotional abuse. I don't expect to be catered for - it's just life. "

Hope you can avoid those things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you're triggered, you will know about it! It's a very immediate emotional response that can be overwhelming. I'm triggered by weird things relating to some emotional abuse. I don't expect to be catered for - it's just life.

Hope you can avoid those things.

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Thank you. Avoiding a certain person helps!!

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I can be by raised/angry male voices. A bit of a freeze/flight response.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Certain aisles in the supermarket trigger me. "

Not sure if this sounds like I was taking the piss but I wasnt.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

I’m adult enough to not need a trigger warning. If I don’t like something I can just pull up my big boy pants and turn it off

I’m not easily triggered either so that helps. Being “triggered” is the new “offended”. It’s just a snazzy new way to say “I don’t like/agree with what your saying and I want you to stop”.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can be by raised/angry male voices. A bit of a freeze/flight response. "

Oh I can absolutely see that would have an immediate effect on you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Certain aisles in the supermarket trigger me. "

Does that make it easier to work around if you know it might happen?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very specific and trauma related. TW always appreciated so I don't have to fight off a dissociative state.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very specific and trauma related. TW always appreciated so I don't have to fight off a dissociative state."

I'm sorry to hear it. Glad the trigger warnings help.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m adult enough to not need a trigger warning. If I don’t like something I can just pull up my big boy pants and turn it off

I’m not easily triggered either so that helps. Being “triggered” is the new “offended”. It’s just a snazzy new way to say “I don’t like/agree with what your saying and I want you to stop”."

It really isn’t.

Being triggered is a part of life, and it’s a cue, you can look into what has triggered you and learn from it. If you’re burying your triggers, you’re just stuffing them down and denying them, which isn’t healthy.

I don’t even necessarily tell people I’m triggered, but I can learn from it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m adult enough to not need a trigger warning. If I don’t like something I can just pull up my big boy pants and turn it off

I’m not easily triggered either so that helps. Being “triggered” is the new “offended”. It’s just a snazzy new way to say “I don’t like/agree with what your saying and I want you to stop”.

It really isn’t.

Being triggered is a part of life, and it’s a cue, you can look into what has triggered you and learn from it. If you’re burying your triggers, you’re just stuffing them down and denying them, which isn’t healthy.

I don’t even necessarily tell people I’m triggered, but I can learn from it. "

And big boy/girl pants is such a toxic way to look at things

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"I’m adult enough to not need a trigger warning. If I don’t like something I can just pull up my big boy pants and turn it off

I’m not easily triggered either so that helps. Being “triggered” is the new “offended”. It’s just a snazzy new way to say “I don’t like/agree with what your saying and I want you to stop”."

That’s absolute rubbish. If you have none you’re very lucky but how dare you dismiss something that’s bloody crippling to others!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m adult enough to not need a trigger warning. If I don’t like something I can just pull up my big boy pants and turn it off

I’m not easily triggered either so that helps. Being “triggered” is the new “offended”. It’s just a snazzy new way to say “I don’t like/agree with what your saying and I want you to stop”."

It's great you're not easily triggered, as for the rest of your comment WTF?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've definitely appreciated TW at times, if I've come across something I wasn't expecting I'll deal with it as best as I can at the time depending on what it is.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Very specific and trauma related. TW always appreciated so I don't have to fight off a dissociative state.

I'm sorry to hear it. Glad the trigger warnings help. "

Thanks. It's one of those, I can cope, just warn me so I can put the right stuff in place.

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

There are some things that are triggers for me, but thankfully they aren't things that come up often.

Most TWs (in fact I think probably all TWs) are for things that thankfully don't provoke a response in me, but it's no harm to me to have the warnings there if they help someone else to avoid something they'll find difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm easily triggered, but people who are small minded really boil my piss and can switch my mood quickly. I'm rarely triggered by a TV show or movie though, more so real people and interactions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help. "

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Nothing actually triggers me. Nothing that would require a warning before hand at least I can think of.

I'm generally really good at compartmentalising and can separate things as best I can. Sometimes it's harder than others.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off "

absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense. "

Oh I think anything will be misused, unfortunately.

I appreciate the warning, and anyone who's too sensitive to scroll on by can go jump

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

Oh I think anything will be misused, unfortunately.

I appreciate the warning, and anyone who's too sensitive to scroll on by can go jump "

I really don't see why it's something for those who don't need trigger/trauma warnings to be bothered about. If anything - be grateful you don't have any trauma!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

Oh I think anything will be misused, unfortunately.

I appreciate the warning, and anyone who's too sensitive to scroll on by can go jump "

Is it being too sensitive though? Everyone’s trigger is different, and valid to them surely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense. "

I guess the word trigger has become quite overused and many people don't understand what it means.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing actually triggers me. Nothing that would require a warning before hand at least I can think of.

I'm generally really good at compartmentalising and can separate things as best I can. Sometimes it's harder than others. "

Is that because you've been lucky enough to not suffer any trauma, or it's a long time ago?

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

I guess the word trigger has become quite overused and many people don't understand what it means. "

Indeed. This and a fair few words have become so mainstream and overused that it's initial use is almost worthless.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

Oh I think anything will be misused, unfortunately.

I appreciate the warning, and anyone who's too sensitive to scroll on by can go jump

Is it being too sensitive though? Everyone’s trigger is different, and valid to them surely?"

I don't think you get to decide that you must be shielded from other people's disability workarounds. And - could be wrong - I've never seen evidence of trigger warnings ever genuinely triggering people, in the official sense. Just annoying them.

People's need for a disability accommodation trumps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is trauma warning a better way of saying it ?

Being reminded of a past experience isn't something that everyone can just shrug off, at least not without help.

In psych speak, a trigger is something that can set off your trauma.

It's been appropriated into general culture, but stuff happens.

When I say trigger, I mean, like, the PTSD style reaction, not getting pissed off absolutely. Was just thinking trauma warning is harder to be misused.

Not that I've heard TW be used in a "I disagree with you" sense.

Oh I think anything will be misused, unfortunately.

I appreciate the warning, and anyone who's too sensitive to scroll on by can go jump

Is it being too sensitive though? Everyone’s trigger is different, and valid to them surely?

I don't think you get to decide that you must be shielded from other people's disability workarounds. And - could be wrong - I've never seen evidence of trigger warnings ever genuinely triggering people, in the official sense. Just annoying them.

People's need for a disability accommodation trumps."

Of course. Always.

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