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Do you think it’s easier to meet at a club or
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Depends what you mean by that.
Someone you've been talking to on here already and meeting them for the first time at a club or hooking up in a club for some sex?
Depends what you want.
Just a shag off nobody in particular then yeah, could get that proper easy by messaging on here.
If it's shagging someone you actually find attractive and engaging, then a club is definitely far easier. |
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Easier at a club than on here.
At a club they’re there at the time, so no endless messaging or trying to say the right thing or get blocked.
Preferences can be relaxed, not altogether ignored but meeting someone in the flesh always helps.
No distance issues or waiting for that person to get back to you with a convenient time to meet.
No social before play.
Convivial atmosphere and a few drinks, means people will relax more and consider going further.
Go to clubs   |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
In my experience finding other bi women on here is hard work, but I've had fun at clubs, not every time I've been, but it's easier to tell the attraction in person.
First time meets can be at clubs, then if no show/not compatible etc, it's still a night out, bonus of being in a safe environment. |
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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Personally I prefer a house party with some people that you already know to help get into the mood, etc. All the benefits of a club with none/less of the awkwardness of a no chemistry private meet. |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
button moon |
"Speaking as a single male, I've found that I only get meets in clubs, and nobody online is interested.
I remain mystified as to why, as I'm way better in writing than I am in person. "
The odds are more balanced in a club than on here. |
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Got to be clubs
Never tried (or had the opportunity) to meet via messages alone - & never had a random one drop in requesting - no surprise there !!
In person, can see if there is a spark both ways & results can be special for all
Online, age (as advanced as mine is) certainly I assume a big "no" to many.
In person, this more mysterious & I think I punch below mine.
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Got to be clubs as far as meeting and chatting. Meets where we have played is probably more from Fab as we are terrible at reading signs and actually inviting other couples to join us in a room or on a bed yet somehow can manage it on a fab meet with another couple. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Hmmm we have probably met more people at clubs than through Fab but then we don’t go searching for meets on fab. Guess it’s easier for people to see how you are in person at a club or party than judging you by your age and other things on here. |
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