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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy.... He should know which brands and fit he gets on with best, saves any embarrassment.
Though I always have some too. Just in case they 'forgot'.
Plus us women have to worry about our own contraception too... Braced for the onslaught to that comment. |
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I always have my own as I have preference so if the guy is happy with any I'd rather use my own. If the guy has a preference though I go with his as he's the one wearing it. I'm suspicious of guys who turn up without any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy.... He should know which brands and fit he gets on with best, saves any embarrassment.
Though I always have some too. Just in case they 'forgot'.
Plus us women have to worry about our own contraception too... Braced for the onslaught to that comment. "
I agree with this. A lot of guys have certain brands, sizes etc that they prefer. I always have some too though just incase. |
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"For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?! "
I do also give that look. It's not that I don't supply them, but all too often the conversation about condoms has been had, both agree it's a requirement and will be used, then he turns up having "forgotten" them, and doesn't like the brand that I have, so wouldn't it be better if we just didn't bother with one? Just this once? He knows he is clean, so what's the issue?
I keep a variety of condoms to hand to satisfy most preferences, but I tend to quickly run out of patience and I've kicked someone out more than once for creating a massive fuss over condoms. It is an exasperating way to make my vagina dry as the Sahara.
There's a big difference between "I've forgotten condoms, do you have any or do I need to go out and get some" and "I've forgotten condoms so I guess we'll just have to do without them", and at the point of "I've forgotten condoms" it's not always obvious which way it's going to go! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?!
I do also give that look. It's not that I don't supply them, but all too often the conversation about condoms has been had, both agree it's a requirement and will be used, then he turns up having "forgotten" them, and doesn't like the brand that I have, so wouldn't it be better if we just didn't bother with one? Just this once? He knows he is clean, so what's the issue?
I keep a variety of condoms to hand to satisfy most preferences, but I tend to quickly run out of patience and I've kicked someone out more than once for creating a massive fuss over condoms. It is an exasperating way to make my vagina dry as the Sahara.
There's a big difference between "I've forgotten condoms, do you have any or do I need to go out and get some" and "I've forgotten condoms so I guess we'll just have to do without them", and at the point of "I've forgotten condoms" it's not always obvious which way it's going to go!"
Errmmm if I get given one, I wear it like a good boy.. you never know |
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"For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?! "
Everyone. Your sexual health is yours to protect, no one else's. |
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"For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?!
I do also give that look. It's not that I don't supply them, but all too often the conversation about condoms has been had, both agree it's a requirement and will be used, then he turns up having "forgotten" them, and doesn't like the brand that I have, so wouldn't it be better if we just didn't bother with one? Just this once? He knows he is clean, so what's the issue?
I keep a variety of condoms to hand to satisfy most preferences, but I tend to quickly run out of patience and I've kicked someone out more than once for creating a massive fuss over condoms. It is an exasperating way to make my vagina dry as the Sahara.
There's a big difference between "I've forgotten condoms, do you have any or do I need to go out and get some" and "I've forgotten condoms so I guess we'll just have to do without them", and at the point of "I've forgotten condoms" it's not always obvious which way it's going to go!
Errmmm if I get given one, I wear it like a good boy.. you never know "
That's the best way to be! |
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"For buying/supplying condoms at a fab meet?
As a single guy I always keep emergency condoms on me but there have been occasions when I go on a non-fab date but have no condoms in my pocket and girl giving me that look like (wtf you don't have condom?!) Before the take one out of their purse or drawer by the bed.
So the question is who is to bring condoms to the party?! "
it's your stuck so you should always supply them. Can't think why you would expect other person to |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Both are, however, I only have regular size.
I think it's quite cheeky to ask me to provide them when I'm already accommodating and providing the drinks. This has happened a few times and it really puts me off the guy. Not because of the money, but because of their apathy. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have always brought them with me but have had some guys turn up who have "forgotten" them. While yes it's both of our responsibility I always think they forget on purpose in the hope they won't have to use them. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Anyone involved who wants to have sex has a responsibility to make sure that sex is as safe as they can make it.
So I add my voice to the overwhelming number of those saying "both". |
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Both parties should carry them but I think I’d prefer to use my ones as I know they haven’t been tampered with. Of course, the man may use the same argument. Perhaps he should wear both to be safe. 
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"The man should be responsible in my opinion. He knows his size and the brand that suits.
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That’s what I always think. But I only take it further after about 47 socials and a year and a half of chatting so it’s usually been discussed by then  |
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