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over a year ago
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A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hiya OP, my advice would be to understand what it is you are looking for in a D and what it is you bring to the table also."
Yes, i think you are right, its something i have wanted for a long time but i do agree its also what i bring to the table. Thank you for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to know what you are looking for and how the D can provide that.
What dynamic do you want,
Male or female D? "
I am open to either male or female.
Dynamic i would say start slow and build up to something serious amd maybe permanent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub. "
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that. "
I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.
I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men. "
I am finding it hard yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.
I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.
I am finding it hard yeah "
You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.
Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.
I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.
I am finding it hard yeah
You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.
Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area. "
Yeah, i am on a fet site as well. I am trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.
Thats not my experience.
Iv always had my pick.
Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.
I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.
I am finding it hard yeah
You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.
Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area.
Yeah, i am on a fet site as well. I am trying "
Thats all you can do and be as proactive as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As mentioned above, going to fetish munches and parties is your best bet. But keep in mind that the number of options you have as a male sub is much less. So finding a partner is not guaranteed.
Also be vary of scammers. Male subs are easy targets for online scammers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As mentioned above, going to fetish munches and parties is your best bet. But keep in mind that the number of options you have as a male sub is much less. So finding a partner is not guaranteed.
Also be vary of scammers. Male subs are easy targets for online scammers. "
Yeah, thank you for the advice x |
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