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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So if you want to someone’s house for a meet and the meet was fine but the persons dog chewed up your shoes so badly you had to bin them, would you say anything…… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you want to someone’s house for a meet and the meet was fine but the persons dog chewed up your shoes so badly you had to bin them, would you say anything……"
They'd surely know themselves wouldn't they? |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"What would you say, you want the money for them?"
I'd explain my shoes are not cheap and would like to know if the dog was known for destroying shoes.
If so why wasn't I warned I'd of kept them on.
Hopefully this would give them the idea to offer compensation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn’t they see you out then, as surely they have noticed?!
I would probably say something, but not in an angry way. It is annoying though, as they must know that the dog has past form for chewing, and should have warned you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any responsible pet owner would either know so mitigate the issue by seperating shoes from dog or if it was a first time thing, apologise and offer to pay for any damage.
It's the same as if your kids decided to use your guests car as a chalkboard with keys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not necessarily because having a dog who has chewed stuff in the past I know how picklesome pets can be. I might be annoyed but it wouldn't be a big deal. I tell people to put stuff up out of my dogs reach and if I visit a house with a pet I ask if they are likely to chew
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"So if you want to someone’s house for a meet and the meet was fine but the persons dog chewed up your shoes so badly you had to bin them, would you say anything……"
I don't think it's rude & would  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d probably just say ‘it’s one of those things’ and let it go. The shoes are gone. If they offered to replace them then I would probably accept but I wouldn’t pursue it if they didn’t. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would mention it, but I would make light of the situation firstly to gauge the person's reaction. If they are embarassed and say they will reimburse you, you'd tell it's a genuine accident and they're good people, and I would brush it off. However if they joked about it too, kinda says alot about them and I'd never meet them again.
Either way I'd never get reimbursed for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn’t you say anything at the time?
Omg if I went to someone’s house and was wearing my Louis Vuitton Run Away, 630 quids worth of trainers and some mutt chewed them up I’d be scanning the place for something the same in value and taking it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They way we think of it :-
Dog people tend to be friendly and caring as they spend a lot of time and love on their 'pets' / family, care and put a lot of effort in to maintaining a loving relationship, walking, feeding, cuddling, training, cleaning up after, etc.
Cat people are like Dog people but a lot lazier
People without pets like the illusion of order and perfection but are often cold at heart.
These are just generalisations of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them "
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They way we think of it :-
Dog people tend to be friendly and caring as they spend a lot of time and love on their 'pets' / family, care and put a lot of effort in to maintaining a loving relationship, walking, feeding, cuddling, training, cleaning up after, etc.
Cat people are like Dog people but a lot lazier
People without pets like the illusion of order and perfection but are often cold at heart.
These are just generalisations of course "
 this is hilariously funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something. "
You don’t know that dogs chew things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They way we think of it :-
Dog people tend to be friendly and caring as they spend a lot of time and love on their 'pets' / family, care and put a lot of effort in to maintaining a loving relationship, walking, feeding, cuddling, training, cleaning up after, etc.
Cat people are like Dog people but a lot lazier
People without pets like the illusion of order and perfection but are often cold at heart.
These are just generalisations of course
this is hilariously funny. "
It was meant to be 
Judging people by their pet choices is cool though |
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I would say something but it would be along the lines of "Hey. What happened to my shoes?".
If the dog is known to do this I'd hope they'd tell me not to leave my shoes there although I'd probably ask if where I left them was ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?"
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs. "
Your fault when they get chewed then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then "
No it's not. Legally the dog owner is actually responsible for anything their dog damages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then "
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably wouldn't say anything. Make a joke out of it. Unless it was the guy himself who chewed them up. "
Why though.
I'm genuinely interested as to why people think it should be made a joke out of because it's been brought up a few times on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably wouldn't say anything. Make a joke out of it. Unless it was the guy himself who chewed them up.
Why though.
I'm genuinely interested as to why people think it should be made a joke out of because it's been brought up a few times on this thread. "
We don't often agree but I fail to see how having your shoes chewed up would be funny also. |
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I’d definitely bring it up straight away.
I have dogs and have never had a pair of shoes chewed. Not even in puppyhood. It wouldn’t occur to me to not leave my shoes on the floor.
I’d not demand the money back but I would express my displeasure as I would be without shoes for the return journey. |
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I dunno, I doubt I'd be wearing particularly fancy shoes and could probably pick up another pair exactly the same for under 50 quid so probably not a massive problem. I'd assume a responsible dog owner would be OK for paying for any damages caused by their 'fur baby' (ugh).
I do quite like dogs but I prefer them to be well-behaved if not trained. I used to go out with a girl who used to foster rescue dogs, some of which had some pretty odd behavioral traits including extreme separation anxiety. She would let them up on the bed when we were having sex and be like "just ignore the dog" - all well and good but it's a half a tonne of staffy/rottweiler cross that seems to be getting a little too turned on by what is happening nearby and then wants to start getting involved in the 'games'... :o
Erm, nope. I cannot maintain an érection under these circumstances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
No it's not. Legally the dog owner is actually responsible for anything their dog damages."
Where is that please? I’ve not seen references to damages while you are in the dog owners property |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault. "
All the dog owners shoes would be at a height the dog can’t reach. If you haven’t followed suit then it’s your own stupidity and the shoes got what they deserved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
No it's not. Legally the dog owner is actually responsible for anything their dog damages.
Where is that please? I’ve not seen references to damages while you are in the dog owners property "
A quick Google will tell you all you need to know.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault.
All the dog owners shoes would be at a height the dog can’t reach. If you haven’t followed suit then it’s your own stupidity and the shoes got what they deserved "
How do you know this please? Did you see where the dog owners shoes were? You seem to know a lot about this incident. |
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"Probably wouldn't say anything. Make a joke out of it. Unless it was the guy himself who chewed them up.
Why though.
I'm genuinely interested as to why people think it should be made a joke out of because it's been brought up a few times on this thread. "
I wouldn't hammer the person for something the dog did. It's just an unfortunate incident. Should I be demanding he puts the dog down? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
No it's not. Legally the dog owner is actually responsible for anything their dog damages.
Where is that please? I’ve not seen references to damages while you are in the dog owners property
A quick Google will tell you all you need to know.
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Ah so that’s the ‘man in the pub’ reference. Good one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault.
All the dog owners shoes would be at a height the dog can’t reach. If you haven’t followed suit then it’s your own stupidity and the shoes got what they deserved
How do you know this please? Did you see where the dog owners shoes were? You seem to know a lot about this incident. "
Did you? How much do you know about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
No it's not. Legally the dog owner is actually responsible for anything their dog damages.
Where is that please? I’ve not seen references to damages while you are in the dog owners property
A quick Google will tell you all you need to know.
Ah so that’s the ‘man in the pub’ reference. Good one "
Well what exactly do you want I can't post the Link. I looked on the rspca website is that good enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault.
All the dog owners shoes would be at a height the dog can’t reach. If you haven’t followed suit then it’s your own stupidity and the shoes got what they deserved
How do you know this please? Did you see where the dog owners shoes were? You seem to know a lot about this incident.
Did you? How much do you know about it? "
I haven't made assumptions about where any one's shoes have been put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I swerve dog owners and kids. I love dogs, I love kids but parents and dog owners are next level crazy. "
People without animals are crazier They have no stability or commitment in their lives (Bullshit, but equally as judgemental ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How guilty does the dog look. If it has those big puppy dog eyes and a look of remorse I would probably laugh it off. If its one of those remoresless terrier types, I would keep an eye on my bare ankles and make a quick escape saying I will drop a bill by 
As the dog owner I would have been mortified I think, didnt they notice when you left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything left where the dog can access it is a legal chew toy. Yes the dog shouldn’t have chewed them but you should also have considered where you left them
I don't think that's a fair comment. Not being a dog owner it wouldn't occur to me to do this. It's the owner's responsibility to say something.
You don’t know that dogs chew things?
Yes but it wouldn't occur to me to automatically think to put my shoes out of the way. I'm used to taking my shoes off in the hallway/ porch and leaving them.. not putting them up on a shelf or hiding them away. That isn't natural if you aren't used to being around dogs.
Your fault when they get chewed then
Is it fuck!? Irresponsible dog owners fault.
All the dog owners shoes would be at a height the dog can’t reach. If you haven’t followed suit then it’s your own stupidity and the shoes got what they deserved
How do you know this please? Did you see where the dog owners shoes were? You seem to know a lot about this incident.
Did you? How much do you know about it?
I haven't made assumptions about where any one's shoes have been put. "
You only have one persons side of the story though so have assumed the dog owner is at fault.
By the way, dog owners are liable for damage to another persons property in their home or a garden vehicle. Not on the owners property unless it can be proved that they were negligent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably wouldn't say anything. Make a joke out of it. Unless it was the guy himself who chewed them up.
Why though.
I'm genuinely interested as to why people think it should be made a joke out of because it's been brought up a few times on this thread.
I wouldn't hammer the person for something the dog did. It's just an unfortunate incident. Should I be demanding he puts the dog down? "
No one is saying about hammering anyone. The question is would you say anything? Yes. I would. And I wouldn't be joking and finding it funny. Unfortunate incident yes. But not amusing and not worthy of putting the animal down. Just not something I'd ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind the money. The question is how I am supposed to go home. Happy to borrow her footwear and return it later. But still kind of awkward to wear them in public transport. Maybe I should take buses instead of tube |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if you want to someone’s house for a meet and the meet was fine but the persons dog chewed up your shoes so badly you had to bin them, would you say anything……"
I'd be very pissed of but wouldn't say anything. They should apologise and offer to pay for new shoes. If they didn't then I would never speak to them again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't mind the money. The question is how I am supposed to go home. Happy to borrow her footwear and return it later. But still kind of awkward to wear them in public transport. Maybe I should take buses instead of tube "
Maybe it was a pact with the dog to get you to stay the night or as many days as it takes to get new shoes delivered |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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This is the sort of thing my pup would do. She’s already destroyed a pair of my shoes and my mums.
I’d tell visitors to Velcro their shoes to the bloody ceiling - it’s the only place they’d be safe from her!!  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I would have said "Your dog has chewed my shoes to bits" then laughed.
I don't wear expensive shoes to meet anyone, so the cost would be minimal.
Next time I went I would take one of the shoes with me, and hide the ones I wear.
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