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By *olex99 OP Man
over a year ago
Hull |
To anyone that's heard the words "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" , to anyone that's been shot down in flames, to anyone that's been passed over or just plain ignored. I salute you all. Your time will come. Never give up, never surrender. You are all part of the fabric of this site. As the great Richard Richard once said, "nil desperandum ". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to answer every message and try to keep it neutrual with a polite no but thanks for your time
We do get the odd fools that are a bit rude and/or get cocky keep pestering or worse still IMO, after one exchange of short emai thet foolishly assume we will see them. At that point i tell them to contact us when we ad a meet but read our profile first it often works.
There are many nice people here and at time we chat about stuff i or they cant chat about with family/friends and here get an honest, no biased view
good site, many nice ladies and gents here |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that even those considered the most popular have been turned down and can’t be universally desired.
I do think that sometimes people focus on those that they don’t have, rather than what they do.
If no one has been receptive, always addendum that sentiment with *yet. |
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I've been rejected or ignored a fair amount. They don't know what they're missing (but if they did know, they'd probably be highly relieved to have missed it).
It's not a big deal; nobody is everyone's cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To anyone that's heard the words "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" , to anyone that's been shot down in flames, to anyone that's been passed over or just plain ignored. I salute you all. Your time will come. Never give up, never surrender. You are all part of the fabric of this site. As the great Richard Richard once said, "nil desperandum "."
Hahaha stop it
I'm a good listener  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say, I have never once been rejected.
Don’t think I have but only coz I’ve never messaged first. "
Snap!!! Same here, I never message first!!   |
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"To anyone that's heard the words "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" , to anyone that's been shot down in flames, to anyone that's been passed over or just plain ignored. I salute you all. Your time will come. Never give up, never surrender. You are all part of the fabric of this site. As the great Richard Richard once said, "nil desperandum "."
Happens to everyone  |
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"To anyone that's heard the words "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" , to anyone that's been shot down in flames, to anyone that's been passed over or just plain ignored. I salute you all. Your time will come. Never give up, never surrender. You are all part of the fabric of this site. As the great Richard Richard once said, "nil desperandum "."
Or just stick to a medieval folk dance? |
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"I try to answer every message and try to keep it neutrual with a polite no but thanks for your time
We do get the odd fools that are a bit rude and/or get cocky keep pestering or worse still IMO, after one exchange of short emai thet foolishly assume we will see them. At that point i tell them to contact us when we ad a meet but read our profile first it often works.
There are many nice people here and at time we chat about stuff i or they cant chat about with family/friends and here get an honest, no biased view
good site, many nice ladies and gents here"
Surprising answer..especially seeing as a few days ago you did a forum post informing us all how you enjoyed blocking everybody.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I can honestly say, I have never once been rejected.
Don’t think I have but only coz I’ve never messaged first. "
Wuss 
I'm sure all of us who have messaged first have felt the sting or disappointment of rejection. No one is immune to it in the end. Best policy is to shrug it off and carry on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to answer every message and try to keep it neutrual with a polite no but thanks for your time
We do get the odd fools that are a bit rude and/or get cocky keep pestering or worse still IMO, after one exchange of short emai thet foolishly assume we will see them. At that point i tell them to contact us when we ad a meet but read our profile first it often works.
There are many nice people here and at time we chat about stuff i or they cant chat about with family/friends and here get an honest, no biased view
good site, many nice ladies and gents here
Surprising answer..especially seeing as a few days ago you did a forum post informing us all how you enjoyed blocking everybody.
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got a few hundred blocked can't block everyone as I'm nice to nice people. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"To anyone that's heard the words "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" , to anyone that's been shot down in flames, to anyone that's been passed over or just plain ignored. I salute you all. Your time will come. Never give up, never surrender. You are all part of the fabric of this site. As the great Richard Richard once said, "nil desperandum "."
To anyone I always say you have to “shoot your shot!” … but I also say to people that you have to be pragmatic in swinging in that you are not going to fancy everyone, and everyone is not going to fancy you!!!
If a “no thank you” offends you, you are very much in the wrong pastime….. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I can honestly say, I have never once been rejected.
Don’t think I have but only coz I’ve never messaged first.
Wuss
I'm sure all of us who have messaged first have felt the sting or disappointment of rejection. No one is immune to it in the end. Best policy is to shrug it off and carry on "
As a female who only ever messages first it's always a gamble of rejection too ...but can say those guys who said no have always been polite... |
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Although I've never sent many messages (as I don't fancy that many people), I've never had a knock back from an initial message...quite a few we have decided we're not compatible after further messaging, but no outright knock back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's shite but you have to take it on the chin and at least the ones who tell you have the courage to do so.
I dont fancy everyone I come across so I know everyone doesn't fancy me... ..even tho they definitely should all part of the game really isn't it! |
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